Singles & Dating - 12 November 2007

I am 17!!There is this cousin who had proposed me around 2 yrs back...My answer was if mom is ready...Coz he was my cousin..!!We were not that close during these two yrs..!!Now this guy has told his mom regarding me and now his mom is gonna speak to my mom..!!The problem is that during these two yrs i fell in love with another guy and we have plans for settling down in life..!!Now what to do??Plzzzz help..!!

2007-11-12 23:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 23:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by ewanzz 1

My little sister is a very sweet girl and she doesn’t get angry easily. She has this new boyfriend that she has been with for little over a month now. Ever since she got with him, I had a gut feeling that he wasn’t right for her. Then last night my sister was talking to me and we came up to the subject of her boyfriend, and she told me that he wants to have sex with her and she doesn’t want to. He keeps trying to convince her to. It is really starting to piss me off. I know my sister isn’t the kind of person who can really stand up for herself properly. She has had many boyfriends beforehand. And I know she is young (16), and she wouldn’t be looking for a real serious relationship for a bit, but I don’t want her to be played. She told me not to do anything. But I want her not to be with him. I saw him this morning and he seems all nice, but still something doesn’t feel right. Should I do something or just leave it, because I think something should be done?

2007-11-12 23:15:26 · 17 answers · asked by Troy 1

I am seeing someone I shouldn't be seeing. Their wife left them a year ago. I haven't met her. He's perfect for me but it seems he wasn't for her. He still loves her and wants her back and quite openly talks about this with me. I've know and been good friends with this man for 5 years. The changes occurred 8wks ago when he kissed me... after drinking too much! Then... it was going one for a while like that... but then last Wednesday... um, well, I may have experienced more of this man than I should have. I'm now so worried about my group of friends, because it's a secret- but I want more! Should I stop? I don't want to stop. Please don't tell me to! I have always been so good to everyone at the expense of myself. I have never been wild and crazy and said "stuff the concequences!!!!" Maybe if I spend some time with him he'll forget about his ex and fall in love with me. I'm a great catch (I'm told), but he's obsessing over her!! It's all a secret in case she wants him back!

2007-11-12 23:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by Ara 1

i am 22 and dont have a single stand of hear on my body except my face and head....

2007-11-12 23:13:04 · 5 answers · asked by snoopy 4

ive only heard bad things about them

2007-11-12 23:10:45 · 6 answers · asked by lucy6 2

When things are good, my boyfriend is brilliant, loving,caring..Although he talks too much, goes on and on and i still listen to him out of respect.But he does the opposite to me, he often shuts me up and doesn't have more than 5mins for me.He always takes control of any situation and doesn't admit when he's wrong.i most of the time don't say anything to avoid conflict but when i do he gets angry.what i hate most is when he tells me off in front of his kids who are not mine.i get annoyed and upset and don't talk to him for days.when i try to explain my feeling he's not prepared to listen so i e-mail him to get msg across about how i feel and how he would feel if it were me who shut him up all the time and talk to him like he does to me in front of his kids?consequently, yesterday his 9 year old daughter told me to shut up n go away because i asked her to tidy her desk up.I was furious about it.I felt to punish her but i couldn't do anything because am not her mum.it's her dad's fault.

2007-11-12 23:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by elma 1

My boyfriend and I were talking last night, ad he asked if I wanted to hnag out after school. I told him I couldn't, that I already told my guy friend I'd hang out with him. My boyfriend seemed to get really mad. I mean, he didn't say he was mad, but I could tell. He said somehting like "Why do you always have to hang out with that guy?" I was just kind of shocked, and I asked what he was talking about, and he was like "Forget it, I have to go, bye" and hung up! This was last night on the phone, so I haven't really had a chance to talk to him yet, but is he jealous? Just being a jerk? What? I hang out with my friend a lot, but I never thought it bothered him. It shouldn't.

2007-11-12 22:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

right i no this girl called amy and shes going out with this bloke called kev, however kev is seeing this over girl lucy behind her back. but lucys 7 months pregnant with her bf chris, who is secretly meeting up with ally.
should i tell amy whats going on or just leeve it

2007-11-12 22:55:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told her after i first kiss her that she was my first kiss and she told her friend whom stupidly told me when 3 of us was on the phone n i got really mad and felt stupid for telling her that ,because i wanted to make her feel special or something when i first told her so I'm thinking all the other stuff she could've told them which really annoys me because I've always kept everything thats suppose to be somewhat of a secret, a secret to everyone and I've shown her i trusted her completely by telling her other things and now it just bothers me whether she kept the other stuff a secret or not.
i love my gf a lot and i have proven that to her and every time we have a fight I'm always the first to apologize even if i was mad at her because she was mad at me or did something wrong and i just don't know what to do anymore i felt like i treated her better than anybody and i just want to get her back so badly but i know is gonna be stupid

2007-11-12 22:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by infusionair 2

This girl and i dated for about 2 and a half months. when we first started talking she was talking bout how she liked being single cause she was going through a devorce with her ex. but a couple weeks into knowing eachother she told me that she would like to start dating me cause there was just sumthing about me. during our time togather i had the best relationship that i have ever experienced. but at the same time we moved a bit to fast. we ended up breaking up because she has alot going on in her life and says she doesnt need the stress of a relatiopnship along with all the other problems she has. right now she tells me she just needs a friend. but my feelings for her are still very strong. but she says that she feels on edge around me cause of the fact that i still act like were togather. how do i handle this situation? how do i get her back?

2007-11-12 22:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl and i are over. finished. no return. she wants me to add her as one of my friends on facebook. what do i do? do i send her a message and tell no and tell i cant think of her ever again and i dont want to see her face again and completely forget about her?

2007-11-12 22:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

likes me too but hes gone back to our country to get married and he says he aint commited and this girl is good for the family...plz help what shall i do hes comin back after 3 weeks and im so heartbroken plz be nice lol :)

2007-11-12 22:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently went out with this guy who i thought was really nice. he made me feel really special and treated me really well. then suddenly he texted me saying he cant carry on with me coz he's in trouble at home! I was gutted coz i really liked him. anyway i said i believed him and that i understood he had to sort his problem out first but i did some digging and found out that his real reason was his girlfriend from abroad was coming to visit him and it looked like they were together all the time he was persuing me! I was livid and hurt that he did this to me! So i pretended to be someone else (stupid i know i but i dident want to be me) anyway i told her that her so called boyfriend cheated on her and he's a liar and told her everything that he did with me. She responded saying they were steep accusations for someone she cares about she couldnt believe me straight off, i told her to ask him! He knew it was me and now i feel so stupid and bad! Was i wrong to do this? Am i a bad person?!

2007-11-12 22:15:40 · 20 answers · asked by Bluebell 1

Should I ask my girlfriend if it is okay to see other people? Or should I just do it without telling other people? The reason why I ask is because I feel she is doing the same and if she is going to do it..I want to do it too..but I still want to see her. I love her and I don't want to feel I am wasting my time with her if she is doing that. We have been together for 6 months now and we are in our late 20s. I don't want to confront her about my suspicions because she will think I don't trust her.

2007-11-12 22:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 21:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by Sonu 1

i have known this boy since last couple of months ago.we texted each other everyday.both of us are in high school.but different school.sometimes,if a reply his message a lil bit late,he said i ignore him.sometimes it just take 15 minutes late!but when he replied my message late,i didnt think it is a big deal.
he is a bad boy.and i tried not to fall into him.because i thought he is just a player and treat every girl the same.so everytime he care with me,i just consider it nothing but good friend.so last weekend he asked me to accompany him to his church ,but i wont.so that afternoon he texted me that he got a headache,and i forgot to reply his message.in the next day,he post his personal message in MSN "i hate you for ignoring my message,sorry i really hate you"
i told him im sorry,and he said its okay.but he never texted me anymore.what should i do?

2007-11-12 21:57:29 · 12 answers · asked by msdigitalism 2

2007-11-12 21:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy I was seeing has been very abusive emotionally to me to the point he says that he can control me and that I CANNOT live without him.My fault partly cos I should have left him long ago. I was so hurt and felt so helpless cos he has basically been manipulating me that I decided to tell the world how small his manhood was and logged on to his net account and spoke to his friends I never really did any harm I told him of it. Now I feel quite bad that I let him get to me like that. Now get this he now is angry t me after all the dirt he has done to me. Do you believe that wahat goes round comes round?? Cos I jsut feel like wicked people never seem to get their come uppence??

2007-11-12 21:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long would you wait before having sex with your new boyfriend?

2007-11-12 21:34:41 · 33 answers · asked by TheGirl 2

and being more understanding . guys or gals .

2007-11-12 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many guys seem nice but they are not right for me. Should I wait for someone right for me or take Mr RIght now?

Is there any guy out there that would suit me. I am not snobbish by the way, just have morals.

2007-11-12 20:45:28 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

i'm in a relationship with this amazing girl but sometimes i feel like i'm not the only one she is with-how would i know if she is lying or tellin the truth

2007-11-12 20:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating this guy that had an 8 year old daughter. I am convinced that she is his wife. In the begining of the relationship i witnessed her calling him stupid in his face and he said absolutely nothing. She called her dad her "man" to me an he acted as if he did not hear. The girl was left by her mom, but even so, this is no way for a kid to act. What got me was that he did not thing anything was wrong with her behavior until i started complaining. Long story short, towards the end i realzied that she was a brat to the 10th power, and i even told him that know woman will stick around long if he does not control her manipulating ways. Are most guys like this with their daughter. I sometimes use to wonder if he prferes the company of his daughter of a grown woman. Am i over-reacting. I just figured i found a really good guy, and the monkey wrench is his kid. I finally got sick of him and called him weak for letting his kid get over on him and mess up his realtionship.

2007-11-12 20:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wow so ok this girl who works next door, is being a *****, i joke around with her sometimes but today i was teasing her alittle and she goes do u talk to people like this to you older than you??(im 20 shes 25) and said would u like it if i said it to your dad?? in a jokin way i said ya haha and she said get out.

...WHy she being a fooking *****.. im generally a nice person, i like making jokes, living life now i have tension with our next door workers.. -_-

2007-11-12 20:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love someone but he just ask me to be his bestfriend. But, I love him. And now I know he love the other girl older than him. What should I do? Left him and forget him but he is in one class with me?

2007-11-12 20:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl i liked rejected me last tuesday. i sent her this farewell message:
'if you read the last message forget it. i know you dont care and you'll probably laugh at me and think im some kind of f a g g ot. this is probably
my last message to you because i dont think youll reply to this and i will miss your company dearly. i really thought we could be friends. i hope you do well in your courses. I hope you make it in your your university placings and even your trip to japan. I also hope that you have peaceful and happy future where you could one day have a great family of your own. I wish you all the best'
I have not contacted her since. Those were my raw emotions at the time and i expressed it. what would she think of me? i need to move on because she obviously has no feelings, but i just like to go with no hard feelings. How would you perceive the message

2007-11-12 20:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 20:27:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when talking to a girl? Haven't they secretly checked it out when we're not looking? Are they even aware that they're doing it....

2007-11-12 20:19:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf has serious trust issues and i wanna prove to him that i aint screwing around, and im serious! should i give him a key to my house? i mean he IS here everyday! but he is worried that i have other male company when he aint hurr!! whats ya opinion!!

2007-11-12 20:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous