Singles & Dating - 8 November 2007

he found out that i had a huge crush on him, he let me down very gently and told me that he was already in a relationship. (I didn't know) That was when i realized i didn't need him to be my boyfriend to love him. I respect the hell out of his relationship and will never do anything to come between him and his girl. I went back to him later, and he said that he was afraid that i would no longer come to him for tutoring if i needed it and he really appreciated me getting up the guts to come see him. He is transferring to a different collage after this semester and i couldn't bare the thought of never seeing or hearing from him again, so i asked if we could get to know each other as friends. He said sure and is going to send me his email and we are going to keep in touch via email. What do you think?

2007-11-08 23:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 23:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sara 4

I read some article about Spice girls reunion (do not care about them), and there were comments, and some man said "why do we need to see these old premenopausal bunch of women." And they are 32 to 34, right? And I am not even 35 anymore! If they are premenopausal, I am ancient, and must be shot or die by my own...

2007-11-08 23:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

feel sad and angry about not having a girlfriend . Jimmy the Jerk and Andy the Abuser have girlfriends, so why shouldn't I ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a major disappointment . Being single is a curse .

2007-11-08 23:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

feel sad and angry about not having a girlfriend . Jimmy the Jerk and Andy the Abuser have girlfriends, so why shouldn't I ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a major disappointment . Being single is a curse .

2007-11-08 23:21:05 · 18 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

Interracial sex means sex with someone who is not of your race.

2007-11-08 22:56:56 · 28 answers · asked by Mansy Rodonla 1

if any girl is not a virgin then it's very hard for any boy to accept her. but if he is boy girls dont think so much.

so what do you think virginity really matters for boys?

2007-11-08 22:43:01 · 25 answers · asked by Makarand 1

she has given me the signal one night wen she was drunk what should i do . She tryed to seduce me in the toilet while her husbond was down stairs .

2007-11-08 22:36:02 · 25 answers · asked by cenkgurler67 1

2007-11-08 22:26:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, this guy who owns a store I often come to is really nice and everything, and he owns it with his wife. Then today I was talking to him and I asked where his wife was, and he says, at home, thank God, then I get to talk to cute girls like you. I mean, I'm not underage or anything, but still...It's creepy I think. I joked I was goign to tell his wife and he got upset. Lol.
I'm just wondering why do men have to be like that?

2007-11-08 22:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help im really stressing out right now so i would really apreciate it. thanks.

2007-11-08 22:23:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I desperately want some romance in my life! My man just doesn't seem to get the hint though. When I ask him to take a candle-lit bath with me he seems to think I'm strange. I think its beautiful. Sometimes I get the feeling that he can't be naked around me without it leading somewhere. Maybe he thinks its not manly to be romantic? How do I get it across to him that its ok to show that side of him?

2007-11-08 22:10:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am suspicious that my girlfriend is talking to her "first" behind my back, and i do not at all feel comfortable with that. We both have been with only 3 people prior to our relationship. We have come to terms with each others past, but i don't like the idea of her talking to him. She tells me that they are not friends and it was a bad experience. Are my fellings justifiable or just jealous insecurity and should i bring this up and talk to her about it? I want us to be very open and honest with each other, but i feel like i am being selfish here.

2007-11-08 21:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by jc_speakers 1

My boyfriend of over one year lost his job a month ago. He is on unemployment and seems OK with it. I, on the other hand, am freaking out about it. We have fought when I've tried to offer suggestions on where he can apply or asked him questions about it and he says he doesn't need the criticism, just my support. I understand that but a woman needs SECURITY too. I am now trying to be supportive and keep my mouth shut but I still don't feel that he is putting forth the effort to find a job. He is supposed to move in with me in a few months but I can't let him if he doesn't have a job. I am getting resentful for paying for stuff most of the time when we are out. So - we're not going out anymore because I don't want to pay anymore - he should be picking up his fair share. At what point is it ok for me to say something again and then - what do I say to express my concerns?

2007-11-08 21:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by WShay 1

2007-11-08 21:15:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If i have an argument with my boyfriend regardless of whos fault it is i could go home crying my eyes out (and he can see that) and he wont call and he wont text me the next day. Now for example last night i spoke to him as normal on the phone about my situation, i told him im having a bad time at uni and was talking about how sick of the uk i was and what i was hoping to get out of my life and while i was talking about it i got a bit upset on the phone. his reply was 'your wanting too much and only people with money is going to get where you want to be'. I felt like he was not very supportive. I stopped crying and just wanted to have a conversation but it was like after that there was an atmosphere as if we had just had a fight and i felt like i had done something wrong when this was not an argument this was me simply using my bf as a shoulder to cry on. the call ended with nothing else said and i went to bed thinking have i done something wrong, and i have no morning text from him

2007-11-08 21:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by ice_castles 2

I just broke up with my girlfriend of a year and half. She and I live a few hours apart and only saw each other on weekends which made the relationship hard to begin with.

After about a year she told me that she had been cheating on me with another guy for about a month. Sex and all. I (being helplessly in love) forgave her as she cried in my arms saying sorry etc etc. Well a few more months go by and she ends up flirting and meeting some guy she plays an online game with on the internet. I got pissed off and she said that nothing happened and I reluctantly believed her. Recently there is another guy that she flirts with and talks with daily.

At this point I couldn't take it anymore and broke up with her. But she still calls me and we have met and had sex since then. I am unable to leave her and still believe we can work out. I know that it's bad for me to stay but I am afraid of being alone I am in love and scared that I won't find another girl. I am bad at talking w/them.

2007-11-08 20:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by Bradacus 3

I always thought women want a man for the man to provide for her. I always thought women worry about money and where it will come from and women are comfortable and relaxed and happy when they have a man thats a good provider.
I have lots of money, I also have good looks and skinny, why don't women want me just for that?

2007-11-08 20:09:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

...but not okay for a guy to flip them on their *** or drag their nails on the sidewalk for the offense??? Fair is fair...

2007-11-08 20:09:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a male friend i chat with everyday.We both in relationships. I really like him as a pal and he wants more than a friendship.We both knows it's not gonna happen but he still giving me grief.We call each other honey , my love , babe & stuff. Am i really leading him on.I don't wanna lose this friendship and my fiance at the same time.What must i do..

2007-11-08 20:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by Tyra 2

Well the other day,This guy was just about to come up to me and ask me for a cigarette..(He had a lighter in his hand)I then i pretended to hear my phone ring and have a fake convo,I mean did i do something wrong there?Cos theyre my smokes and im not a free smoke vending machine

Also another time this girl was guna come up to me and ask me for some money..AND i did the same thing again(Fake phone call) and she actually took my phone from me and said she will be right back!
Do you think she should of done that?
She actually asked me for 2 dollars and i said hell no
Has anything like that ever happened to you?

2007-11-08 19:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG. Is it just me but I think the guy that plays Henry on Ugly Betty is so cute? I'd pick the nerd over the jock any day.

2007-11-08 19:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by beffie 3

2007-11-08 19:46:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that you should never expect someone to tell you the truth all the time, but whats the biggest whopper you have told in order for your loved one to feel better???

2007-11-08 19:40:52 · 15 answers · asked by pixiegirl 1

Hello Everyone:

I have a scenario that I would like to share and possibly get an opinion. I know reading this could be a drag but if you are interested and willing to share your insight you are more than welcome to.

Please think about this as if you were in this situation. What would you do?

Man:
-He love woman #1 but he was unhappy with the relationship for some reason.
-He was stressed financially. He was supporting his family.
-He has 2 children with woman #1 that all you want is the best for them and them to be happy and have a family.
-He has been going out, hanging out with friends – he said he’s doing this to relieve his stress at home.
-Maybe here and there he has been unfaithful to the mother of his children
-He came to the point of confusion of if he love her and thinking that he might just love her because woman #1 is the mother of his children.
-He found out that woman #1 is cheating on him with another man. He was hurt and angry.
-He found someone else that is the total opposite of woman #1. He fell in love with her and cares for Woman #2.

2007-11-08 19:38:56 · 3 answers · asked by xoxo01234 1

2007-11-08 19:38:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Normal dressing. None of that gothic stuff

2007-11-08 19:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Hoolababy 1

I've been seeing him for about three months and had such a strong desire to have sex with him that I just finally did! My mind was telling me no but my body was telling me yes. So, it was good. First times are always awkward because you want to do well so it was more of a performance for me than anything. So, today he didn't call till late and told me that I should consider using douche and that I should be more submissive in bed. My jaw dropped! I was so upset and then he kept talking as if he didn't just say the most awful thing in the world. I'm very clean but that is not even the point of the thing. So, he tells me that he wants to keep seeing me and blah, blah, blah. I told him to go to hell and that I wasn't even going to point out his defects cause it wasn't worth it at all. I'm so upset at this. I took my time to get to know him before I went to the next step and then he says some insane thing like that. I want to punch him in the mouth! Ouch! He told me that he wants to see me

2007-11-08 19:32:41 · 30 answers · asked by Karen Walker 2

if you are continuing to do like this i should depart from you

2007-11-08 19:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Thameem 1

It is my first night without my 4 year old, he is having his first sleepover at his dads. I don't want to sit around and wonder is it appropriate to enter a pub/ club by yourself or do you look lame? I am 33

2007-11-08 19:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by hakea73 2