Does virginity really matters for boys?

Question

if any girl is not a virgin then it's very hard for any boy to accept her. but if he is boy girls dont think so much.

so what do you think virginity really matters for boys?

Answer 1

No, not to boys because their hormones are raging. But for men.......it does. Believe me there is a difference between boys and men. Remember that women.

Answer 2

golly gee whiz! of course it matters, everybody knows that no boy will ever want a girl who is not a virgin.

Of course, women don't marry "boys" they marry men so who cares if the little boys accept her?

jeepers! It would be groovy to wait until you get married to have sex and you can both be virgins at the same time. That sounds really neato to me.

~end sarcasm~

Since most women (over 80%) are not virgins by age 21 but most women (also over 80%) don't get married until they're over 23; most women (the same 8 out of 10) are not virgins when they get married.

You can use all sorts of moral argument here but reality is that most men's wives were not virgins when they got married. Those 20% that are tend to be under 18 when they get married.

Once you're beyond "little boy/little girl" age - virginity is not an expectation. That's simply the way it is. Should it be different? I don't know - and you didn't ask that question.

Does it really matter? Apparently it doesn't.

add: it was written "IF a virgin boy came into a girl's path, then she would definately consider him to be her mate..."

(as a generalization) No you wouldn't! You don't now! You tease him and call him a nerd and a geek and assume there must be some reason the other girls don't want him, so you don't give him a chance either. You make merciless fun of him and laugh when he asks you out. If you do give him a chance once, you then go forth and tell all the other girls how he doesn't know how to kiss/makeout and he's such a geek - so they don't think you're a geek too. Let's be honest here, girls want the same guy all the other girls want. That guy has enough experience with girls that he is not likely to be a virgin. You ladies don't want the "nice guy" and that's why the nice guy is at home alone while you bemoan "where are all the nice guys?"

~end tirade ~

Answer 3

The only reason girls don't care that much is because they know there aren't many virgin boys around anymore. So they've decided not to evaluate a boy based on that. IF a virgin boy came into a girl's path, then she would definately consider him to be her mate...especially if she's a virgin too. Because only they could understand how hard...and therefore honorable, it is to wait 'til marriage.

Answer 4

These days nobody cares who's a virgin.
But I think if a guy was a virgin the thoughts in my head would go like this:
he's what?!?! wow! so what's wrong with him. check.
no, nothing's wrong with him. WOw, he actually HAS MORALS, while at the same time being normal and popular!
I'm DEFINATELY going for that man.
So you see mate, virginity in guys does matter. I'd rather someone save it for marriage.

Answer 5

List stereotypes on Boys

Answer 6

I think most people probably don't care but I do

I am saving mine for my future husband and hope who ever he is he is saving himself for me there is something very special about knowing that you have waited a long time for this. And if you have never done it with anyone before you have nothing to compare to so he can't be better or worse than your last.

Answer 7

yes virginity really matters. because she will bare your children and will be responsible for many things like taking care of you you,your parents your house your wealth..will you trust a women with loose character with it..she can never love you because a women will never forget her first love with whom she lost her virginity.and what is the guaranty that she will not sleep with him again behind your back. lost virginity is not a small mistake to ignore.

Answer 8

For me, it wouldn't matter that I found a Virgin more than it would matter the woman accept me as a Virgin.

Answer 9

Yes its hard for boy to accept the girl if she is not virgin....but some boys do accept girls if they have been told the fact before it too late........major cause to accept her is LOVE :) no matter what.......

Answer 10

Really depends on the person, some guys find it very hard to cope with the fact there GF has been with guy before him etc, some accept it easily, women are the same, it really depends on the person, am not to happy that my gfs been with other guy but tough, u just deal with it i suppose