Singles & Dating - 8 November 2007

I told my boyfriend I wanted to wait till marriage and I made a mistake and slept with him a few times, now I keep on thinking about it and feel really guilty about myself. He is such a great guy and I am scared I will lose him if I keep sleeping with him and staying over at his house. I know it is kinda too late but I began to realize if I keep sleeping with him I am disrespecting myself and the old saying get the cow and the free milk and he will get the wrong impression? He said he understands and what I did was wrong and he also said he didn't regret it but God is very strog in his life and he shouldn't have. He also said do you want to save your virginity jokling, I don't know why he mentioned that. What should I do I really love him and don't want to lose him in my life? Do you think this will work out this stragey and maybe respect a little more?

2007-11-08 11:01:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem will someone please give me some help. I have a girlfirend that I have asked to marry me she said yes that really is not the problem, the problem is that Im 31 years old and Im divorced, my girlfriend of right now is just the third person I have ever been with sexual and as a girlfriend she has moved in with me and is helping me with bills. I have just started to become depressed that I might want to date other people but that is not the only problem Im not physically attracted to her mentally yes and I know looks are only skin deep but it bothers me my ex wife was good looking and had a big chest I was very attracted to her physically more then mentally and it didnt bother me like this is. Another thing is she has a 11 year old daughter that is so spoiled she wont do anything home work house work nothing and her mom lets her get away with it that is driving me away from her. Dont know what to do I have a son she is helping with also please help thank you.

2007-11-08 11:01:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes, i posted this before, but she made me put up another one because she didn't like the other picture... lol
honesty!

http://i3.tinypic.com/6xsfoer.jpg

ps, yeah it's my friend again.

2007-11-08 11:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by brookee. 1

like if your boyfriend asked you not to wear lipstick and eye shadow and that, if he asked you very nicely, would you do it and respect his wishes.

i dont like makeup on girls and if there ever comes a time when i get a girlfriend, i want to see her natual look and i dont want her to put all that stuff on. so i ask you the question again

if your boyfriend asked you not to wear lipstick and eye shadow and that, if he asked you very nicely, would you do it and respect his wishes.

2007-11-08 10:59:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 10:54:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 5'8"...a height that seems to put me at a disadvantage. I'm starting to think that alcohol is my best friend on weekends. That's a joke. Anyway, I hear women say "all I want is a guy who will listen to me and treat me like a 'princess'", but I've done that and it made her feel comfortable to ::drum roll:: CHEAT ON ME! Yeah! So...wtf?

2007-11-08 10:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by Js_5 5

it happens all the time. 14 year old girls dating old guys. how many guys are out there who are nown as child malesters because some girl lied about her age. she wanted to be with him because she wanted to feel older. life is not the old days any more girls where u could be 15 and date a guy who is 20 and be married to him at 18 to 20. guys will go to prison for ur mastakes.

2007-11-08 10:48:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a sophmore in high-school and this girl really likes me, I THINK? In class she stares at me and when I look back she franticly looks away, and she always tries to sit next to me in class. We never talk, but it is like love at first sight. Ok, at lunch, she used to sit near me, but when she saw where I was, she moved somewhere else. I asked here out twice, sort of, first time I said "you want to do something sometime?" she said she was busy ( THATS A "NO") second time I put a note in her locker asking her out on a date, I went up to her after class asking about the note. she said no. I have been trying to ignore her so she might want to talk to me and notice I am not interested ( Even Though I am) Please help me with what I should do, She is all I have been thinking about for 2 months straight. Please give me advice.

2007-11-08 10:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Him:

36 years old
Daily pot smoker
Goes to bars alone to have beers every day after work
Professional by day, dresses in skate clothes by night
Very quiet, silent type, rarely talks
Very calming personality
Stays out of drama, is good at calming people down
Says when he goes to bars guys always try to fight him for some reason
Always checks out girls
obssessed with sex, asks me for naked text pics all the time
Wants to be married and have kids ASAP
Is always pissed off at one thing or the other
Says he hates all holidays/birthdays, says they are just another day, they are nothing special
Bad relationship with his father, says he was abusive to him as a child and is still rude to him
Very good kisser, good in bed
Good cook
Watches skating videos on youtube ALL THE TIME
Not good at skating, says he used to be
Remininses about his 6-pack when he was young, has a beer belly now
says he would stop smoking weed for the right person

2007-11-08 10:44:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1

honest opinions -
the girl in the plum colored dress
[the shortest]

http://i19.tinypic.com/8axnrwj.jpg

and no, that isn't me. she asked me to put it up.
thanks :]

2007-11-08 10:42:47 · 25 answers · asked by brookee. 1

Me and my boyfriend are 13. We have only kissed 3 times and have been going out for 8 months cause we couldn't get away with it. My friend is always giving me crap about me only being on 1'st base and she is 12 and almost home. It makes me feel like I should be more daring. Am I left behind and too innocent?? She says I am.

2007-11-08 10:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This last guy is the first guy I wanted to completely open myself up to We were friends 2 years before we dated, I am 21 and he was my first love, first guy I slept with. In the beginning I wasnt even sure I liked him but I gave it a chance he wanted to see me as much as possible and he first said I love you. I fell in love with him.Then classes started back up and work and we saw each other less and stress kicked in and we began to argue over dumb stuff so we broke up. For 2 weeks we stayed in contact but allowed my emotions to take over and flipped out. Now we arnt speaking and I am devastated. Not only did I lose an amazing boyfriend but worse a great friend, What do I do? I didnt want to lose him completely through all this crap

2007-11-08 10:36:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 10:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by peaches6 7

My name is lydia im a latina,I;m 5,11 so I have long nice legs Im not fat I have green eyes long dark brown hair and I cant seem to find a tall guy! I mean do tall guys not like tall girls or what I jst dnt get it? All these short guys lilke me but I want a tall guy ! but every tall guy I see or like ends up with a short girl ! so tell me please whats wrong with you tall guys? dont you like tall girls? BE HONEST !!

2007-11-08 10:35:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes sorta on the brat side.how do i tell my gfriend that we need to work on his brattyness without hurting her feelings?

2007-11-08 10:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by kerrywadepowell 1

so he'll ask me to f*** one minute...and then we'll start making out and he'll say i'm sorry...and then he says hes off limits...but continues to do the same thing....am i doing something wrong? or is it him? please answer...i'm so confused!

2007-11-08 10:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I make a guy jealous.. We are in the same class, and he's always flirting and when i look over he's all over another girl, he loves attention. How can I make him jealous and forget him? he has to suffer a little before i can move on..hehe.
Thnx!

2007-11-08 10:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a guy for 3 months, and things are for the most part great on all levels. We are very happy and have so much fun together.The problem is, in 6 months he's going away for 8 months of training (due to a promotion in the military) but will be back home afterward stationed locally. We've talked about the issue very openly and I'm ready to at least be exclusive but he is undecided on whether to get any more serious just because he is going away.If it wasn't for that he says he'd be ready.His actions show that he really cares and he hasn't dated anyone else since we met.This is really putting a wrench in the natural development of things and it's starting to drive me nuts. I'm so picky about guys and now that I've found one I'm compatible with why should I give 100% to someone who is undecided? I think if he was serious the 8 months wouldn't be a big deal...Should I move on before I invest too much emotionally? Give hime more time? Everything else is perfect!

2007-11-08 10:18:19 · 24 answers · asked by Shera 3

2007-11-08 10:15:56 · 12 answers · asked by tjk1701 2

Do you kiss her?

2007-11-08 10:15:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

the only smart thing my english (guy) teacher has ever said is "guys are worthless until they graduate college." im starting to think he is right, because almost all guys in my grade are stupid and jerks. tell me if im wrong, but if im right, how can i survive high school with boys who are so immature?

2007-11-08 10:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by heyyy 3

She always tells me that and says you should do it too. She says it feels great...does it really... and i think its really distusting and dont want to. She one of the prettist girls and should not do that!

2007-11-08 10:12:11 · 26 answers · asked by channel4everxo 1

ok i just started dating this guy, next week it will be a month since we started dating...and he's already introduced me to most his family and he already wants to meet my parents.!!! is that moving too fast? does that mean he is serious about me??? he also tells me he wants to travel the world with me... is he in love or just moving too fast???

2007-11-08 10:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

its not that i dont have any, well yeah i dont. but what i mean is, there is this guy, he asked me out, i said no, then we hung out more, now havent seen him and i have a feeling he doesnt want to talk to me. but before he asked me out i liked him, and now i like him even more. but everything just sucks right now. what can i do?

2007-11-08 10:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by sunny 4

2007-11-08 10:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Supadan 2

2007-11-08 10:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 09:53:24 · 29 answers · asked by Ashutosh B 1

2007-11-08 09:51:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have just came back from miami when i was on vacation for three weeks, so me and my girlfriend have not had sex for three weeks? so tonight she came over, she was getting undressed ( we were having sex ) and i noticed loads and loads of cuts on her vagina and her booty ( bum what ever )aswell it looked to me like she had rough sex with some other guy when i was away. what could these cuts be, i do not want to say to her like are they cuts on your vagina from having sex when i was away...what else could these cuts bee??????/?

2007-11-08 09:35:35 · 13 answers · asked by iASK 1

2007-11-08 09:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by peaches6 7