I told my boyfriend I wanted to wait till marriage and I made a mistake and slept with him a few times, now I keep on thinking about it and feel really guilty about myself. He is such a great guy and I am scared I will lose him if I keep sleeping with him and staying over at his house. I know it is kinda too late but I began to realize if I keep sleeping with him I am disrespecting myself and the old saying get the cow and the free milk and he will get the wrong impression? He said he understands and what I did was wrong and he also said he didn't regret it but God is very strog in his life and he shouldn't have. He also said do you want to save your virginity jokling, I don't know why he mentioned that. What should I do I really love him and don't want to lose him in my life? Do you think this will work out this stragey and maybe respect a little more?
2007-11-08 11:01:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think first off stop worrying about it --- the more you stress the worse you both will feel and for NO reason --- it happened and he is still with you --- so stop regretting what happened and get on with the romance ---- if you cant get past this how will you cope with the rest of your life???
2007-11-08 11:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have already started the process of working ont he problem and thats talking with your boyfriend.....
communication is a big part of a good relationship........
If he respects you,,he will be willing to hold out and wait,if he doesnt and he has a fit about it, then you know he isnt the right person for you.
2007-11-08 19:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋