Singles & Dating - 8 November 2007

well yeasterday was prob one of the worst day of my life. i fainted while i was talking to my teacher where i had my friends(all boys btw) round me. i just felt really ill and i just blacked out for about 10 sec and landed on the floor. anyway my guy friend (who i like) was really shaken by the whole thing and,everyone was fussiing over me,and he just stood there saying nothing.and he walked me to my house,even though he usually goes to the gym,which he loves and wnt miss his workout for anything and i mean anything!,but he just simply walked with me.i told him i was fine i be fine going home on my own but he said gym isnt that important. he shouted at me for scaring him like that,he said he's heart nearly stopped.he is usually very mean to me but then he was being really nice and he holded my hand because he knew i was shaking a little.

2007-11-08 02:03:18 · 14 answers · asked by oooops! 2

Do u believe they mean the same thing or there is a difference?

2007-11-08 01:58:54 · 32 answers · asked by princess2 1

ok i met this guy he is 21 and he no my real age is 15, (cuz u no i dont really c the point of liein about yo age) but anyway, i really like but we just friends but we have a date this weekend, but should i do i really like him

2007-11-08 01:45:47 · 38 answers · asked by Tweeter2010 2

Me I do!

2007-11-08 01:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by Jonny Chambers 2

Hello there, ive got a question im stuck with...
a few weeks ago, i met this 13 year old girl, we both really like each other,
But the problem is that i'm 18 and shes 13, and i dunno if its a good idea to go out with her or not, She really seams to want to go further, as shes tryed to kiss me a few times already. Which ive sorta rejected..
I know all the Age of Consent laws and whatnot, So Sex is out of the question for now..
I know some people think that 18's are usually rough n stupid, Which im not, Im a very quiet, caring & shy type of person, So i wouldnt do anything stupid.. And she seams to act really mature also, and doest clown around like most 13 year olds do, and she is probably more shy than i am..
So i guess the main part of the question is "Is it okay to go out with a 13 year old girl for just cuddles and kisses, but not sex?"
And what would you think if you saw an 18 and a 13 year old holding hands walking down the street that you didnt know?
Okay thanks dudes!

2007-11-08 01:41:17 · 74 answers · asked by The Fear 1

ok well oct 13 2007 my husband was killed in a car wreck and well i did not no that i was his wife until my b day nov 5 2007. well i miss him now more than ever does anyone no anything like a quote or something that will help me get through all of this that helped you with something that happened to u

2007-11-08 01:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rebel Cowgirl 10/13/07 1

2007-11-08 01:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so you know how they seem to have online dating sites for just about every group of people? Do they have dating sites for psychopaths? Just wonderinggggggg....

2007-11-08 01:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He got really depressed when I broke up with him after I found out. He stopped going to work for a week, he showed up at my job unexpectedly everyday.....he called me at least 100 times telling me how sorry he was, he didn't eat or sleep. He cried.... he says that after he cheated on me he felt so bad and ashamed, and it made him realize how much he really loved me. Opinions?

2007-11-08 01:17:48 · 35 answers · asked by ♥вєαυтι♥ 3

at the end of my shift, my manager always counts my till to see how much money is there compared to the start. today, it was down $20 and my manager is really tight on money and how much the store makes. well i wasnt sure if he believed me or not that i didnt take it ( i didnt take any money. i wouldnt in my whole life steal money) so i was like "check my pockets" jokingly. and he said that once a girl said that to him and she actually did that the money. so then i said literally check my pockets then. he didnt check then so i was like "ok". we were kinda laughing about it and being serious; i dont know what my manager was thinking. before i was about to go, he brought up the subject of the money again so i took the stuff out of my pockets (which was my payslip, a coupon and $5) and they started to joke that i took $5 from the till instead. they were laughing this time so i assumed they were joking but then i wanted to buy two burgers and he said "ok, give me the $5, to make up for

2007-11-08 01:06:57 · 1 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4

I have had a few boyfriends in the past, and they all just wanted a bit of fun. Now I'm ready for a serious relationship, and I can't find anyone interested. were should I go?

2007-11-08 01:00:27 · 31 answers · asked by david j 1

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 3 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"


1. does he like me as more than a friend?
2. is he using me?
3. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
4. did i pressure him or push him away?
5. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
6. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
7. why hasnt he been contacting me?
8. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
9. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?

2007-11-08 00:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm inlove with my friend, we;ve been for six years, now i' m falling for the guy. Must i tell him or maybe i will lose him as friend.

2007-11-08 00:14:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single mom of 3 children (ages 3, 5, 8), and have been seeing an amazing guy (I am very in love, but we haven't said it yet and he does spend time with the children who are also crazy about him...) who is also weathly for 11 months. I have been out of work for the past 2 1/2 months and am out of time and resources, this economy is really bad! It looks like I will have to move 60 miles away, move the children for the 3rd time in a year. Should he help me and if he doesn't, does that mean that he's not really serious?

2007-11-08 00:13:51 · 21 answers · asked by fab_kat 2

ok so craig says his friend tim likes me. anytime i am talking to someone else that is male,other than tim,craig tells me to behave. he says i am a flirt.and that i wouldn;t want to do that while tims around. but me and craig flirt heaps. he makes fun of me, touches me(but touches no one else)has this nickname for me,and puts down other guys i like and likes to know who i like. he asks me my interests,what i have planned for the weekend etc. he tells tim off when he disrespects me,and said to tim that he could please me better than tim could right in front of me. but then he calls me a kid all of the time.he is driving me crazy,is he looking out for tim or does he like me himself and uses tim as an excuse to get closer?

2007-11-08 00:02:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous