ok i'm 15 and the guy i'm talkin 2 is 21. wat should i do?

Question

ok i met this guy he is 21 and he no my real age is 15, (cuz u no i dont really c the point of liein about yo age) but anyway, i really like but we just friends but we have a date this weekend, but should i do i really like him

the he like mature and most guys my age r like azz holes
and i am very mature 4 my age

Answer 1

go for it! age is just a number and if you really like him then i say dont let anyone hold you back. after all, if 15 was the legal age for sex, no one would think it was weird! so really its up to how you see this in your own mind. not what other people or the law says.

Answer 2

OK,
I'm gonna give you the best advice I can.
It goes a little something like this.....Run for the hills. No 21 year old man in his right mind would date a 15 year old girl. Even if you don't look 15, if you were honest about your age, he should've ended it. He is an adult and you are a minor. He's committing statutory rape and it's a crime punishable by prison.
If he's willing to date you that means his priorities and intentions are twisted. I would be careful, b/c most likely it's all about sex.
Think about it. He's never gonna take you around his family b/c they would look at both of you sideways. You can't go to the places he goes b/c you are under age. You can't drink or get into a club or go/do any of the things that 21 yr olds go/do.

What does your parents have to say about this? If you are hiding it from them, than you already know that it's wrong. I know my Dad would have attempted to kill a 21 yr old predator coming after his 15 yr. old daughter. HE's a predator and you are prey.

I know you probably think that he's really into you and you welcome the attention, but think of all the other young girls he's probably victimized. You are not his only quest.

I would find a boy closer to your own age. Don't allow him to use you or take advantage of you. Your body is a temple and should be treated as such. he should be ashamed of himself for trying to take advantage of such a impressionable young girl.

I'm sure other relatives will tell you the same. It's nothing wrong with dating older guys, but please wait until you are 18...at least it will no longer be a crime.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Ok... your 15 and he's 21. Your a minor and he's an adult. There some things you should consider...

1. Why is a 21yo wanting to date a 15yo? Why isn't he dating other closer to his age?
2. He can drink and smoke and vote and you can not. There are LOTs of hidden problems here!
3. There is a huge maturity gap, if not, the HE is way to immature for 21yo and thus not someone to be seen as good influence.
4. If there is any indication of sexual contact, he can go to jail.
5. If he provide alchohol and/or cigarettes he can be fined.


Does your parents know about this 'relationship'? If not, you should ask there opinion. I'm sure you already know what their opinion is!

Stay away from this guy. Find someone your own age. I suspect this man has emotional issues as the least and a pedofile at the worse.

Good luck!

Oh BTW: I can't stress enough.. TALK TO YOUR PARENTS!

Answer 4

When I was 15 I dated a guy that was 22, I'm 24 now and when I think about it...I think he must have been a sick bastard. Even if you are mature for your age, you have absolutely nothing in common with a 21 year old guy. He's after one thing, and one thing only. Trust me, I made this mistake. The 2 of you are at completely differant places in your life. If guys your age are jerks, date someone that's 17 or 18...but not 21. Please take this advice, you will regret it later.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

If you are as mature as you say you are, then the alarms should be going off in your head. I assume they are, because you are here asking us this question. It's possible that you are "advanced" for your age. But really, what kind of fruitful relationship can you have with this man? Your whole life will be impacted by the type of decisions you make over the next few years. Use your maturity to your advantage and make smart choices.

Answer 7

15-21 is a big age gap. Youre at different stages. He is too old for you. Enjoy being young. If you want a boyfriend go for someone whos 17-18.

Answer 8

I think the guy might be a little immature and doesn't understand he is crossing a social boundary. Something isn't right with him and he might be a perv or a pedophile. I don't think he's interested in you welfare but his own inability to socialize with people his generation. If he can't hang with his generation it might be because they all think he is a weirdo. Keep him at arms length and be careful. Best to leave him alone. Your life was just fine before you met him. Don't take any chances. He might get possessive or violent. Maybe not but why take a chance.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with like someone who has a different age than yours as long as that relationship is platonic specially in your case. If he want more than just friendship, and you guys have an attraction to one another, you both need to wait until you reach the legal age.

Answer 10

What is wrong with you girls out there today! OMG!!! Stop trying to date men that are over 18! THEY CAN GO TO JAIL! You are going to ruin their lives by sending them to jail and making them register as a sex offender for the rest of their lives! Stop talking to this guy NOW! You are way, way to young! You can't possibly have anything in common! Find a boy your own age to date!

Answer 11

Bad Idea i know first hand i was in your shoes when i was 15 dating a 22 year old. He prob tells you he loves you. which isn't true, why would a 21 year old be instrested in a 15 year old, you are both at different places in your lives weither you think so or not. He wants one thing and one ting only, so be careful.