I'm a sophmore in high-school and this girl really likes me, I THINK? In class she stares at me and when I look back she franticly looks away, and she always tries to sit next to me in class. We never talk, but it is like love at first sight. Ok, at lunch, she used to sit near me, but when she saw where I was, she moved somewhere else. I asked here out twice, sort of, first time I said "you want to do something sometime?" she said she was busy ( THATS A "NO") second time I put a note in her locker asking her out on a date, I went up to her after class asking about the note. she said no. I have been trying to ignore her so she might want to talk to me and notice I am not interested ( Even Though I am) Please help me with what I should do, She is all I have been thinking about for 2 months straight. Please give me advice.
2007-11-08 10:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, i really think she does like you, but she maybe she doesn't want to get asked out? maybe she just likes you like a crush, but doesn't want you as a bf because she's not ready or her parents are against it or anything.
but i'd say yeah, she definitely likes you. don't take her actions as offensive. she doesn't know what to do. she's not a good decision maker.
2007-11-08 10:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both are giving mixed signals. Maybe she is shy or maybe she works after school so she isn't able to go out. Get her alone and just plainly ask her. Honesty is always the best answer even if you hear something you don't want to hear.
2007-11-08 18:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Just Want To B Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very odd for her to constantly stare at you, but then always denies you? Maybe she is afraid to date? Have you seen her with anyone else before? Are you sure she is checking you out and not the dude next to you?
2007-11-08 18:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by cbattles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww!! that is SOO cute! omg i always do that when i like a guy. its usually because im not sure if i'd want to go out with him but thats when i REALLY like a guy. and shes probably just insecure about the whole dating thing. you should start out slowly by asking her to sit with you or start a convo
2007-11-08 18:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by PiiNK && LOvE <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww haha i think she's just really shy cause if she keeps staring at you like a stalker! then she must be crushing on you. maybe she is just really really shy and nervous to even be near you. i was like that to a guy i had a crush on. haha, but like he just one day, when he saw me alone in the hallway, he came to me and asked if we could hang out. so possibly the girl is just not ready yet to be open to you. just break her out of her shell!! hope this helps
2007-11-08 18:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by BLAAHHH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think u should think about her because if u know her well then ask her out. You can ask one of her friends for phone number and then call her and talk to her maybe you will get to know her. if she on facebook or myspace or ec then chat with her. i hope this helped if u have any other questions just ask me . my username is ris14 .
2007-11-08 18:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say leave it alone for a bit. If you end up having a conversation with her, just act normal. Just don't act like she doesn't exist. Just act like you normally would. Hope this helps.
God Bless!
2007-11-08 18:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by PYRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am aslo a softmore, its not your job to chase her around, she has you wraped around her finger and she knows it, what you should do is give her a little bit of space then she wil think oh why isent he talking to me much anymore? just give her time to see if you are what she wants
2007-11-08 18:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Amaloo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pleasure of pain.
endure & enjoy it,
things will fall in their place soon enough
2007-11-08 20:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by charlatan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋