feel sad and angry about not having a girlfriend . Jimmy the Jerk and Andy the Abuser have girlfriends, so why shouldn't I ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a major disappointment . Being single is a curse .
2007-11-08 23:21:05 · 18 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I wont mind being single. (:
Afterall, you cant force love.
2007-11-08 23:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only a curse if you make it one. You have choices. You can choose to be the coolest, most eligible single in the world or you can sit on the coach or behind the desk and bemoan.
I was a single once too and yes there were days when having a companion would have been nice but most of the time I wouldn't remember to feel that way because I made sure I had a network of friends whom I can hang out with.
Go find some interests and people with the same interest to hang out with. Who knows you might meet someone that way too but don't do it for that reason. Do it because you want to learn and grow yourself so you then became the type of person a girl would want to hang out with. Not some self-pitying guy.
2007-11-08 23:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Narde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to feel this way, you are never going to find a girlfriend you are happy with. You need to love yourself before you love someone else, and someone else loves you. And that means loving every part of yourself.
I have spent most of my life single and desperately trying the find "the one" whilst being surrounded by friends with boyfriends / girlfriends are seem immensly happy with each other. I know its a cliche but someone will come along when you least expect it. But you will not attract people unless you are happy and relaxed with yourself and confident.
Being single isn't a bad thing. It gives you time to find out who you are and what you believe in and what you want from life. And then you will find someone who wants the same things as you and believes the same things as you - or at least appreciates your beliefs / ambitions / dreams etc.
Concentrate on something else in your life - hobbies, keeping fit, learning a new skill, doing a new course. Forget the fact you are single and you soon won't be!!!
2007-11-08 23:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nicola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive and happy.
Maybe it's not your time to have a relationship, you should enjoy single life, until you find the one. It's better being single that having a cluster of bad girlfriends.
Just be yourself, confident and happy and you'll soon have all the girls. Lads that ooze confidence is good, but make sure you don't get that confused with being arrogant.
Go get em tiger!!
2007-11-08 23:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you can offer alot to a lucky girl which is nice but learn to except your struggles being single . make it possitive . nothing in life is a curse unless it affects your health .be strong you need to think you are whole as a person and that being with that some one special isa gift and you will meet the one that takes your time and is there with you threw out the day. and your heart beats faster . there is one for you .but be patient and learn to talk to the girls good luck friend and be patient.
2007-11-08 23:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by dognuts36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just depends on the person. I've had relationships, but have been single now for years. I wouldn't have it any other way. Maybe people you are interested in sense your desperation and don't want to get caught up in it. it's scary when a person wants SO BAD to be in a relationship and shows signs that if it fails, they would do something stupid. That's alot of pressure. Lighten up and relax and let a relationship come to you. It will.
2007-11-08 23:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything happens for a reason. u need to be pacient and wait things out. put everything in the univer's hands. someone will come along. my husband was hurt by so many girls before i came along that he actually didnt want to be with anyone. when we met we started as friends and fell for eachother. we actually met on the internet. he lived 1000 miles away, but we made it work.
try meeting some new ppl...go out places
u never know where u will meet that special someone. good luck and have a great day! ;D
2007-11-08 23:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be single and happy, then married and miserable.
what if you have a girlfriend and it is a horrible relationship?
having a girlfriend may not be what you think it is, especially
if it is not someone meant to be.
be patient, being single is not a curse, i,m sure in due time
the right one will come along.
i,m 54, single, and happy. good luck.
2007-11-08 23:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and get a life bud. feeling sad and angry wont help. going out and making friends for friendship will help get over this stupid feeling. have fun and then you might just find someone you were looking for - dont look for her though - let her come to you
2007-11-08 23:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by pprofile24614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really. When you are single you have freedom. When you are married you have to answer to someone. So just be patient there is someone for everyone.and just You will find someone I am sure. Good luck!
2007-11-08 23:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful what you wish for!
start asking every single girl you know out - eventually someone will say yes - that is how the odds go.
good luck
2007-11-08 23:23:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋