I desperately want some romance in my life! My man just doesn't seem to get the hint though. When I ask him to take a candle-lit bath with me he seems to think I'm strange. I think its beautiful. Sometimes I get the feeling that he can't be naked around me without it leading somewhere. Maybe he thinks its not manly to be romantic? How do I get it across to him that its ok to show that side of him?
2007-11-08 22:10:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys don't get romance..they see it as a waste of time. Take a candle lit bath, that does not sound romantic to a guy...that sounds sexy. And of course naked=sex (the reason clothing was invented is so we don't have sex all the time).
If you have a non-romantic guy...there is not much that can be done. That is who he is. You can try to force him to be romantic, but it's a bad idea to force someone to do anything.
Understand that he links romance/sex. So if your more willing to have sex, he will be more willing to do romance. You will need to take the lead..remember he does not know what romance is. So take something you'd find romantic and put enough spin on it that he will find it sexy.
2007-11-09 23:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys have no ounce of romance in him , make it up like tell him you are so romantic when you hlod that remote abnd change the channel for me, lol
2007-11-08 22:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋