he found out that i had a huge crush on him, he let me down very gently and told me that he was already in a relationship. (I didn't know) That was when i realized i didn't need him to be my boyfriend to love him. I respect the hell out of his relationship and will never do anything to come between him and his girl. I went back to him later, and he said that he was afraid that i would no longer come to him for tutoring if i needed it and he really appreciated me getting up the guts to come see him. He is transferring to a different collage after this semester and i couldn't bare the thought of never seeing or hearing from him again, so i asked if we could get to know each other as friends. He said sure and is going to send me his email and we are going to keep in touch via email. What do you think?
2007-11-08 23:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur doing the right thing. i've found that guys i've liked become the best guy frineds. just worning u it will still hurt even after years when u hear about him liking other girl.
2007-11-08 23:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a big mistake to keep in contact with him at all. He is already in a relationship and i feel you are holding onto the fact he and she may part ways and he will come to you. Why waste your time on someone already involved with another? And he is your tutor, so that is telling me you are young and naive. He is leading you on that is why he wants to email etc.. You are only feeding his ego. Best of luck
2007-11-09 07:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its good that you respect his relationship, but sometimes stronger feelings develop when you keep in personal contact with someone and something might happen that you never planned. If you are sure that you can be only friends and his gf has no problem with that then there should be nothing to worry about.
2007-11-09 07:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are setting yourself for disaster cuz you know that you don't just wanna be friends with this guy. truth is you won't rest till something happens and it's most probably going to end in a heartbreak that isn't in favour of you...it's true what they say about the truth hurting, you know deep down somewhere what the ryt thing for you to do is...
2007-11-09 07:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by bossylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to keep your distance. The longer ur near him/in contact, the more you'll hang on to the hope that you may one day be together. Jst remember tht u hv ur own life tht needs ur constant attention...ok?
2007-11-09 07:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by sosta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess e mailing each other should not present a problem.
please rememberm that will be the extent of the relationship.
in case anybody else could accidentally view his e mails
be carefull what you say. best of luck.
2007-11-09 07:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike you, if i cannot have the man i love, i prefer to stay away so that through the passage of time, i would come to love him less.
2007-11-09 07:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find your own man and stay in school and concentrate on your studies.
2007-11-09 07:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope he tells his GF and she does not find out by herself.
This will destroy their relationship. You both know that of course!
2007-11-09 07:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, do whatever you think is the best .Make decision with your brain, not your heart.
2007-11-09 07:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋