Singles & Dating - 12 November 2007

If a girl looks pretty, has good body and nice personality and you all stare at her but you don't have the guts to approach her, how would you like to be approached by her? What would you want her to say?

2007-11-12 15:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always put my emotions into sex. I met a guy 2 days ago (our eyes and smiles met 1 week b4), i took him home but i told him i don't want sex with him before he came. He was trying other things that lead to sex, i kept stopping him because it felt uncomfortable, so eventually i told him he should go, he contacted me few hours later, he came over again for a while, he left for work, he came the next day and slept over, i had sex with him and now my EMOTIONS are involved! Here's the saddest part; i am moving in 1 week! I told him so when we hooked up, he was saying he doesn't want me 2 go and talking about visiting me.....He is coming over again tonight, and i'm not sure if he just wants to get laid or if he really likes me, he does appear to like me but you never know when it comes to men! I always set myself up for heartbreak, i am learning how to become a healthy minded and functional person, i just don't know how to practice it!
How do i stop myself from getting emotionally involved

2007-11-12 15:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

help!

2007-11-12 15:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

my boyfriend and me have been dating for a while now and i love him, ive never been happier and i want to tell my parents but afraid they might say i cant go places with him n.e.more. my parents think were just friends, but my boyfriend and me think theyll say no cuz of my boyfriends and my age difference: hes 5 yrs older than me...help!!!

2007-11-12 15:02:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there is this guy in my theatre class who I thought was really funny and weird, but still cool, you know?? Well, we started hanging out during our free periods and once at my house and he ended up asking me out. He's a senior, I'm a freshman. I managed to weasel my way out of it, but now he's obsessed!!!! He askes me to call him, won't stop messaging me on facebook, shows up at my locker... He even asked my friend what my scedual was. After he asked me out a second time and I flat out rejected it, he seemed to back off a little, but I'm still freaked out by him. Anybody have some advice??

2007-11-12 15:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by Tsunaida 2

I was with my ex bf for 3 years and we even lived together the whole time (i know crazy!). I broke up with him because I realized that he started to take me for granted and wasn't putting enough effort into the relationship. I did so much for him and he did nothing. His parents told him he should try to get me back because I'm such a great girl. He also found out that I was dating other guys. Three months after we broke up he wants to get back togehter now saying that he's changed, he's realized his mistakes and he will treat me better. Do I get back with him? Could he only want me back because he is jealous and he misses me? btw I was his first gf.

2007-11-12 14:59:13 · 15 answers · asked by sapnokirani 1

i have a gf and every time i tr to call her she never like picks up everyone says thats it hard tog et in touch with her but i sometimes think that she uses that as an excuse i sometimes try to reach her on aim and she doesnt reply does she not want to talk to me we are in a relationship any reason or is it really thats is their a reason why when girls get into a relationship the only communication they prefer is in person or or dont take any initiative to call or at least make it seem like they care?

2007-11-12 14:58:08 · 13 answers · asked by gman123 1

are they far away in
miles
emotions
heart
soul

2007-11-12 14:45:55 · 18 answers · asked by NIFman 5

A very shy girl gave me signs that she was interested in me. I made small talk most times and now say hi whenever I see her.
I made a full conversation the other week but it was just me asking all the questions, she'd answer shyly. She was so shy with me that even if I said hello she wouldn't answer but just smile and look down.

This week she's still very shy with me, as before, but now she'll lose eye contact, and give quick answers, that almost seem like she's uncomfortable and it looks like she doesn't wish to speak to me.
I was told "don't come on too strong, or you'll scare her off", so I did just that and it worked well. Now I want to get to know her and talk to her more often and I'm worried I might have blown it by saying 'hi, how are you' once a day.

I really want to ask her out this week (its her favorite event). But I want to know if those recent signals that seem like ignoring are real. Why would she be doing that how should I proceed?! I don't want to come off as creepy

2007-11-12 14:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i went to the store today and while waiting to check out this guy asked me what time it was......i showed him my phone with the time on it........now i am thinking i should have talked back......he was cute! lol. is there a chance i will meet him at the store if i go back there tommorow at thesame time.....i gotta go anyway but i'd be fun if we came across each other again. i can't even remember how he looks like ...lol.

2007-11-12 14:43:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you show them you have missed their love

2007-11-12 14:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by NIFman 5

I do but how do you show you do.

2007-11-12 14:41:20 · 2 answers · asked by NIFman 5

OK..i met thsi girl about 6 months ago..that day i ased her to dance..adn we talked..after that i dint see her untill abotu 2 months ago..adn we talked and dance and i she todl me she broke up with her bf liek a year ago and taht she was single and all that nice stuff i wanetd ot hear...when i got her number I started teesting and she will respond..everyhtgin was great i went to pick her up form school....adn it was ok..later we talked in teh phone adn everynow and then she text me too...i think she knows i like her since i'm complementign her most of teh time and dedicated soem sogn sto her....i ased her if she still love her ex and she said no...but i know taht she kinda does because she puts pictures of him and her in her myspace..and writes commenst such as.."its love"...so idk...she is nice to me however lately i asked her if she wanted to go out somewhere she said she was not home..adn then i asled her another day and she said she couldn't....

2007-11-12 14:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by edgarec17 1

2007-11-12 14:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by bluesummers76 6

I know what I wanna do

2007-11-12 14:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by NIFman 5

i'm diane,17,in a relationship.. we've been dating for 4months now,at first i was really in love with him.even up to now,but the difference is we're both no longer that active in our relationship..we dont see each other from time to time now,unlike before..i am always the one waiting and spending lots of time contacting him..i think im already falling out of love because of these issues.. what should i do? make or break up?

2007-11-12 14:38:40 · 1 answers · asked by Diane Sulit 1

So me and this girl have had a crush on each other for at least 7 months and just recently we expressed it to it each other. and after we got really close with each other for like 2 weeks she got weirded out and said that we should just chill for a few. so i said thats fine ill be waiting for you. This was 2 weeks ago. And her b-day was 2 weeks ago. So today she was wearing a shirt from a certaiin college where her summer fling goes to now. (By the way we are seniors).So apparently 3 days after we had our little talk about how she wanted us to chill her ex-fling came to town and gave her that for her b-day. I find this fishy just b/c it was days after our talk that he came from a different state and i even asked her before i expressed how i feel if she still had feelings for him and she said no. And its also fishy b/c she didn't tell me about this. So my question is does want me or him, she has said it would never work between them b/c he is out of state. But y would she still see him

2007-11-12 14:38:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 20 yr old female in college and going through a lot of changes sexually. Like I am exploring my sexuality and it is so new to me. I have never even crossed the line! I am still a virgen but still making explorations. Like sometimes I am immature when it comes to sex thus, I feel like a little girl. Any advice?

2007-11-12 14:37:26 · 19 answers · asked by juicybluesky 2

I STILL HAV FEELINGZ BUT MAYBE ITZ BEST FOR US 2 B FRIENDS! PLZ =]!! i still love him but i think itz just best!

2007-11-12 14:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i love this guy who i have had phone sex with every night but him and his girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and i dont know what to do... i love him so much and he has to have some feelings for me or else we wouldnt have phone sex.... wat should i do and i dont want to get over him i want to go out with him... im so confused and his girlfriend is such a bitc. she flirts with all guys right in front of him and he knows it....she doesnt deserve him

2007-11-12 14:35:59 · 18 answers · asked by hmmmm 1

Seriously, this is getting on my nerves. Everyone on here talks about women in bars like they are the lowest creatures on earth and keep telling me I would be crazy to try to meet them. I don't really have any other options because my town has very few young people, I have to go where they are to find a girl. When I really look at this from a logical perspective, meeting women in bars does not sound bad at all.

Women in bars and clubs are not all sluts (which is really just a sexist stereotype), They are not more diseased than other women (stds are rooted in poverty, not promiscuity; that is a fact), and as far as the belief that women in bars do not want to meet men; that is something that those idiotic pick up artists got started. Every reputible sociologist and dating expert I have ever listened to has said bars and parties are ground zero for male/ female interaction. The guys just have to know what they are doing (which I do). If anyone thinks I am wrong, please let me know.

2007-11-12 14:29:40 · 3 answers · asked by AJ 1

I used to think he had a small crush on me with the things he would do like:
- he told me i was pretty once over AIM
- i would catch him looking at me
- i went on break (we work together) and he asked if i paid for my food and said yes and than he gave me a free break ticket than later i gave it back to him telling him i wouldn't use it or i would lose it and than he said " fine, you just ripped my heart out."
- he once scared me and i was like " i hate you" and he said " no you dont"
- i than went on break with his friend and he went to break with my friend but when i got off break he was like " so you'll eat lunch with him but you won't eat with me, okay, i see how it is."
- he said i smelt good once
- he would say i broke his heart and do a little broken heart with his fingers.
- he said i was to young to have a boyfriend

But now I don't know he seems to be interested in my friend more now. When ever I see him we don't talk we just kinda look at each other...

2007-11-12 14:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently started talking to this guy from work. I called him at nine this evening and he said give me 15 minutes and I'll call you back. Well, it's 10:30 P.M. and he still hasn't called. It's not like we're a couple or anything but I still want him to call when he says he will. Why should I care if he calls me or not and we're just friends. Please I need answers, I can't quite fiqure this one out. Thanks!

2007-11-12 14:25:01 · 2 answers · asked by Tina 2

I just moved back into a high school with people that I knew back in 6th grade, and there is this guy i liked then, and like again now. He is very shy and quiet, and I am the polar opposite, but not to an extreme. Also, I barely know him, and we only have one class together. But he did remember me when I did talk to him. I want to talk to him more but I am afraid cause i'm totally different than him. In addition, I also get very shy and nervous when I think about talking to him or I don't know what to say. Help please and thanks in advance!!!

2007-11-12 14:20:17 · 3 answers · asked by Kelly L 2

just curious

2007-11-12 14:16:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like, when a girl is attracted to a guy, she looks at the guy when far away, but when she is within an arms length, her eyeball looks right past you and around you or they pretend to be interested by something to their left or right.

What can I tell from this?
Why would it be embarrassing for them? Its not like I'm going to laugh at her.

2007-11-12 14:15:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to do what is the best thing but how can i do it when no one give me achance i just broke up with my boyfriend and he wants me back but i don't want to go back to him because he is abuse what do i do

2007-11-12 14:13:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i feel reall akward askig this but ive been wondering, does it hurt to get fingered? what age do you think it is ok to do it. what kind of relationship?

Thanks

2007-11-12 13:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it gets awkward
it's like
Me:"so how are you......?"
Him:"fine, you?"
Me:"fine....."
. . .

Me: "so wats up?"
Him: "not much, u?"
Me: "Not much..."

2007-11-12 13:57:25 · 14 answers · asked by love_pink18 2

but how can i improve it either make up wise etc i carry myself well etc anyways be kind

2007-11-12 13:55:02 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7