So there is this guy in my theatre class who I thought was really funny and weird, but still cool, you know?? Well, we started hanging out during our free periods and once at my house and he ended up asking me out. He's a senior, I'm a freshman. I managed to weasel my way out of it, but now he's obsessed!!!! He askes me to call him, won't stop messaging me on facebook, shows up at my locker... He even asked my friend what my scedual was. After he asked me out a second time and I flat out rejected it, he seemed to back off a little, but I'm still freaked out by him. Anybody have some advice??
2007-11-12 15:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by Tsunaida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said you weaseled out of his first attempt. Well that was your mistake. He saw that as he needs to try harder. After your second one he backed off because he saw the reality.
You should be fine now. In the future, you should try to be more direct with guys who ask you out. You can be kind and direct. Something along the lines of I'm flattered you'd ask me, but I'd prefer to just be friends. would work nicely.
2007-11-12 15:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Xeno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not a stalker from what you have explained. Especially if he has started to back off. But you need to tell it to him straight that he is not your type and you are not interested in him. It just sounds like he really likes you. Asking for your schedule is not that wacky either. some girls do this when they want to act like they ran into their crush, but really they know where he will be. This is highschool stuff. You guys are all young, and he is not the only one who has done this.
Especially if you guys have been hanging out. You got him likeing you because you hung out with him so often.
2007-11-12 23:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be but probably not because he backed off when you said no the second time he asked you out. If he was a stalker that wouldn't stop him and he would continue to try to get you to go out with him. if he does ask you again just tell him that you only see him as a friend.
2007-11-12 23:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a freshman I had the same exact problem with a senior. He even tried to get close with my friends... I then got a boyfriend and I just figured out that he wanted to use me for my virginity. It's not worth it. I think that he isn't a stalker but is really wanting to do something with you.
2007-11-12 23:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not a stalker!
thats messed up to say that
he just likes u alot and he really wants to show u hes a nice guy and that he wants a chance with u
i think u should just try and be friends with him
2007-11-12 23:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, I don't think he is dangerous. Just a guy who thought he had a chance and was trying to 'go the distance'. Can't blame the guy for trying.
2007-11-12 23:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Christy V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tel him that you dont wanna date him and that you could still hang out but just as friends. You dont have to be rude or anything. It will be fine.
2007-11-12 23:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by kayla t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he starts coming to your house...run...
it sounds to me like he really likes you
if this persists then yeah he could be stalking you but i wouldnt worry about it yet
2007-11-12 23:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by The XShadowX Proves The Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already rejected him what advice is there to give
2007-11-12 23:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by some guy with questions 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋