i have a gf and every time i tr to call her she never like picks up everyone says thats it hard tog et in touch with her but i sometimes think that she uses that as an excuse i sometimes try to reach her on aim and she doesnt reply does she not want to talk to me we are in a relationship any reason or is it really thats is their a reason why when girls get into a relationship the only communication they prefer is in person or or dont take any initiative to call or at least make it seem like they care?
2007-11-12 14:58:08 · 13 answers · asked by gman123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe shes not comfortable with you yet. You should try to catch her at a good time and let her know how you feel about that and see if there is anything you could do to help or if you were doing the wrong thing by persewing a relationship with her. Take time with her.
I hope this helped
Good luck!
2007-11-12 15:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Justean♥ luv's ya! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it doesn't sound like she cares too much. I don't know your relationship, but most girls are more then willing to talk. I don't care to talk on the phone but I will to make him happy and then I'll be like hey get on aim. But thats not a very healthy relationship. But one important thing in a relationship is communication. Tell her whats up and ask? IF no response maybe this isn't for the best and you should go your seperate ways.
2007-11-12 23:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ususally girls like to communicate A LOT espicially at the begining of a relationship, there is no reason why a gf should be avoiding her bf unless she is trying to break it off with you or something?? I think that she might be playing you, sorry.
2007-11-12 23:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by oldwise1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay bub.. here is the truth.. whether you want it or not.. either you call too much because you are insecure or you are two obsessive.. the best thing you can do is to take a walk.. don't call her, don't try to communicate with her in anyway shape or form.. if she is interested.. she will contact you.. if she does not contact you.. then she is not interested.. it is as simple as that.. so that should tell you something.. go find another.. good luck
2007-11-12 23:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by J. W. H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl prefers to meet in person, she will not like the two hour phone conversations that most boys seem to like. It does not mean that she does not care, it just means that she prefers to be with you. Try to schedule daily time to be with her, and don't make her sit through two hours of uncomfortable silence. Believe me, that is torture.
2007-11-12 23:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, most people have the OPPOSITE problem (the girl won't shut up), and you're complaining?
Just leave a message like "Thinking of you now, thought I'd let you know, love ya, bye!" and get back to whatever you're doing. And count your blessings!
2007-11-12 23:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kasey C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her myself if i were you whats the dea?? i mean she should want to talk to you besides face to face... thats what its called communication! just ask her wats up and if she keeps doing it i would just be like you know what if you dont want to talk to me fine! or you could stop calling her and aiming her and she what happens mayb she'll try to get in contact with you when she realizes your not callin or nothing anymore or the relationship will just fizzle out... .good luck man
2007-11-12 23:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't interested in you. Forget her and beat feet. There is plenty of young ladies out there, sitting by their phones, just waiting for a phone call. Good luck. Pops
2007-11-12 23:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Pops 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about it. Tell her you tried calling and she never answered. If she tells you to leave a message say you did.
2007-11-12 23:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bewitchedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres somethingn you did or shes avoiding you because she doesnt want to talk to you of you doing something wrong i think the best thign to do is to talk to her in person and tell her its okay to tell you whats wrong and that you are there for her maybe something is physically or emotionally hurting her...you need to see her in person and talk it out :D
2007-11-12 23:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by indescribable.random.retro.love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋