I always put my emotions into sex. I met a guy 2 days ago (our eyes and smiles met 1 week b4), i took him home but i told him i don't want sex with him before he came. He was trying other things that lead to sex, i kept stopping him because it felt uncomfortable, so eventually i told him he should go, he contacted me few hours later, he came over again for a while, he left for work, he came the next day and slept over, i had sex with him and now my EMOTIONS are involved! Here's the saddest part; i am moving in 1 week! I told him so when we hooked up, he was saying he doesn't want me 2 go and talking about visiting me.....He is coming over again tonight, and i'm not sure if he just wants to get laid or if he really likes me, he does appear to like me but you never know when it comes to men! I always set myself up for heartbreak, i am learning how to become a healthy minded and functional person, i just don't know how to practice it!
How do i stop myself from getting emotionally involved
2007-11-12 15:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop having sex. There is never such a thing called "just sex." People put on a good front when they say sex does not effect them emotionally or it may not right away but will catch up to them. There is a lot of things happening during sex like pheromones that are being released that are made and released to bring the couple together. My suggestion is to break it off with this guy, explore who you are today and who you want tomorrow. Date in groups and explore what kind of man you want to marry. Do you want someone who can support your needs spiritually, financially, emotionally, etc.? Do not date just one guy. Keep high standards and do not lower them for anyone. God made you to get emotionally involved. That is how he created us. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-11-12 15:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just in it for the sex! i mean come on! thats a sweet deal unlimited sex for a week and no committment! open your eyes! the only way to save yourself the heartbreak is to stop having sex with people you aren't serious with. its really not hard. just say no
2007-11-12 23:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♥klove♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does sound like he is just coming over for a booty call, but if you get too emotional when you have sex with guys, its easy just dont have sex with them untill you get to know them, guys will do whatever it takes to get you in bed, so don't just do it b/c you feel pressured. One thing that always got me in trouble is either me going to their house or them coming to mine, so just dont get in that situation and it will be easier to say no.
2007-11-12 23:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by pierce_butterfly18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're leaving. Guys like to have sex. Do everything you can to forget about it, and continue on with your plans of moving, and with your life.
2007-11-12 23:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Literate Fruit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jz leave him behind.He jz want to have sex with u!
2007-11-12 23:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by David T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find out, let me know!
2007-11-12 23:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by lucy6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋