I just moved back into a high school with people that I knew back in 6th grade, and there is this guy i liked then, and like again now. He is very shy and quiet, and I am the polar opposite, but not to an extreme. Also, I barely know him, and we only have one class together. But he did remember me when I did talk to him. I want to talk to him more but I am afraid cause i'm totally different than him. In addition, I also get very shy and nervous when I think about talking to him or I don't know what to say. Help please and thanks in advance!!!
2007-11-12 14:20:17 · 3 answers · asked by Kelly L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it sounds confusing with the not shy then shy, but my problem is that when i'm with people i'm juist friendly with i'm okay, but when i'm around my crush, i get flabbergasted and i overthink if i'm acting weird or if i should be doing something else...like i am an outgoing person, yet i tone it down to a "shy" when i'm around him so i dont look to overbearing or insane for him....sorry if that made anyone think i was bipolar or contradictory...sorry!!! thanks in advance for the help!!!
2007-11-12 14:47:43 · update #1
Ya..this sounds like deja vu for me. Maybe he is not a shy guy in general..just around YOU like you are around him. If he stares at you, you see him around you a lot and don't know why, or when you look at him then he looks away..don't second guess yourself and over-analyze it. Take what your first thought was and run with it cause chances are that is the reality of it. Ask him to a casually friendly get together..if he says yes..then time will bring you 2 together as you should..it is what it is.
2007-11-12 14:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wait a minute here / Your story doesnt add up In one sentence you say you are shy and in the next one you are not shy at all Also you say youn hav e a crush and after a split sec you are very different than him That doesnt goes together You will do him a big charity by staying away from him
2007-11-12 22:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact situation you were. My boy was very into science and math and didnt even seem interested in dating. I started talking to him on the internet where he was much more comfortable and I would talk to him between classes. One day he said something sweet so I straight out hugged him and my boldness shocked him. We started dating shortly afterwards. Just don't be too pushy to start. Talk to him casually and gradually let him know how you feel. Just because you are more bold then him doesnt mean you dont have a chance. Opposites attract. Just ask any scientist.
2007-11-12 22:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋