I am a 20 yr old female in college and going through a lot of changes sexually. Like I am exploring my sexuality and it is so new to me. I have never even crossed the line! I am still a virgen but still making explorations. Like sometimes I am immature when it comes to sex thus, I feel like a little girl. Any advice?
2007-11-12 14:37:26 · 19 answers · asked by juicybluesky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be open and don't be intimidated by sex
it's not as big of a deal as everyone makes it out to be
2007-11-12 14:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by shan is sarcastic. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since sexuality is far more vast than intercourse itself, it takes time. You will develope your own definition of what makes you a woman at your own pace. What is right for some may not be right for you. When did I finally feel like a woman? Who knows. There not a time line. Dont be so into a rush and congrats on your exploration. But just like with anything else new in your life...take your time, enjoy and definitely be careful. The game of life is dirty!
2007-11-12 14:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by rob divine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time line for you to become sexual. Once you cross that line you can never go back. If you have concerns or questions get a good book on sexuality. Remember for your well being never cross that line without a condom on your partner...
2007-11-12 14:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman doesn't need to have sex to feel like a woman, and just the same, a man doesn't need to have sex to feel like a man. Stay innocent and pure until you find the right guy. You still have something very special ... yourself. Just put on a tight dress and some 6 inch heels. It works for me.
2007-11-12 14:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by RDog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just the kind of person you are. You can be immature at times and still be an adult. My uncle acts like teenager more times then me and I'm 19. But he's still responsible and has a career. So it's just the way he is and will always be
2007-11-12 14:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by ace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The element of feeling like a woman is different for everyone . You will determine what that is for you. It might be when you give yourself to your love or husband. It might not be until you have your first pregnancy. You just have to take you time and there will come a point by which you deam yourself a woman.
2007-11-12 14:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you haven't had sex doesn't mean you aren't a woman. Adulthood is so much more than that. Keep going to school and learning new things, get into a career that you enjoy, and don't worry about sex. It will happen when it's meant to happen.
2007-11-12 14:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please remain a virgin.. it is the best thing you can do for yourself.. just commit to it and stay that way.. once you do that.. then keep the decipline to continue.. demand the respect from which ever males you come into contact with.. go have some fun.. and remember.. just tell the guys about your decision and they should respect it.. if they don't then tell them to take a walk.. it may be difficult for you.. but I promise.. you will be rewarded in the future.. stick to your guns.. guys will lie to you and tell you all kinds of stuff.. but you will have to learn to see through all that.. and remember.. there are some really good guys out there who will have a deep respect for you.. just lay it on the line and say thats it.. virgin till marriage.. no ifs ands or buts.. good luck
2007-11-12 14:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by J. W. H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can definitely relate to you...im a 21 year old virgin....you're seriously not going to feel like a woman until youre married with eight kids! It has nothing to do with sexuality. Take your time....even wait for marriage!! There is nothing that you cant wait for with sex.
2007-11-12 14:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you approach this in a more mature way. You don't need to "explore" your sexuality. Virginity is something to hang on to, it is something you give to only one person. It is self respect. Don't be like some silly girls who think it's "cool" to experiment with all sorts of sick sexual activity, those people wind up in counseling for their emotional problems.
2007-11-12 14:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing about sex shouldn't make you feel immature - if you're responsible, being safe and waiting to get with a guy you know is worth it and not just looking for a quick hook up, that's being woman enough.
You know you're a woman when you can make your own choices and own up to your own mistakes.
Just be safe.
2007-11-12 14:42:10 · answer #11 · answered by InsomniaSAH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋