ok i love this guy who i have had phone sex with every night but him and his girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and i dont know what to do... i love him so much and he has to have some feelings for me or else we wouldnt have phone sex.... wat should i do and i dont want to get over him i want to go out with him... im so confused and his girlfriend is such a bitc. she flirts with all guys right in front of him and he knows it....she doesnt deserve him
2007-11-12 14:35:59 · 18 answers · asked by hmmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol sorry but just because he has phone sex with you doesnt mean he wants to be in a relationship with you. And leave him alone! Find your own man.
2007-11-12 14:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kandiii♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it looks like this is the way things are going to stay. This guy is using you for the phone sex only; it's his way of revenge against his girlfriend. I know you may love him, but I really think that he only sees you as a sexual outlet. If you really want him to see you as more than that, I would confront him, let him know how you feel about you,him,and his girlfriend. Either he'll agree with you, and there will be a happy ending, or he'll tell you that he really had no intention of getting serious with you. Either way, at least you won't be strung along any longer. Good luck!
2007-11-12 14:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by lordsemaj3713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why are you even wasting your time with this player? Phone sex MEANS nothing... What your feelings towards this guy is only LUST, your confusing it with love. Though, it's never a really A GOOD idea to get involve with someone else's bf... You know the karma law states... What goes around, comes around. This player is gonna string along for the ride.
2007-11-12 14:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
completely frequent. I in basic terms had telephone intercourse with a sparkling lady buddy and it become wonderful. i've got no longer had telephone intercourse in an prolonged time I mean very long term like possibly 9 years, yeah that's precise i'm fifty one years previous and he or she is 40 9. we've been out to lunch purely two times. So possibly the subsequent step could be the actual element. and then possibly extra telephone intercourse. we are coworkers so we do be attentive to one yet another.
2016-11-11 08:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh u are such a whore,who cares if his girlfriend is a *****,he HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!and if he's having phone sex with u that doesn't mean he cares about u,that means he's using u,i cant believe this,u should b wearing a helmet cause ur so stupid u need protection so u don't hurt yourself
2007-11-12 14:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex doesn't mean anything. Random people do it all the time. Find a guy without a girl.
2007-11-12 14:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love you, he loves to USE you.
whether or the gf deserves him is none of your business.
People have said I don't deserve my boyfriend- well 2 years later we're still going strong so they can all kiss my butt and get over it!
you have NO business butting into someone else relationship. how would you feel if you had a bf who was doing this to you?
think about it when the tables are turned. you would HATE it.
2007-11-12 14:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Music 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all men say that there is a main woman in their life but they cheat on them with OTHR women they dont cheat on their woman because they dont want them or dont love them but they use the OTHER woman to fulfill their pleasures that their women wont do or for other reasons so they dont really want the OTHER woman(relationship wise) they just want them as in sexual relations because the man doesnt really care about the other woman .... so honey....YOU ARE THE OTHER WOMEN HE JUST WANTS U FOR PHONE FUKKING so just move on and find a guy that is commited to you and only you and not trying to be mean but dont even go through that with a man that dont even want you
2007-11-12 14:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by shar main lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question is if you guys have ever had any physical connection. obviously the guy is doing the same thing that his girlfriend is doing and if he doesn't have a problem of what she is doing then why should he? Maybe have you ever considered that you can do better...with a guy that is into you and nobody else.
2007-11-12 14:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe anything else, believe this: He does NOT have to have feelings for you in order to have phone sex. That is so childish and silly, to engage in that crap. I think it's quite funny, to even think about somebody "enjoying" that. But anyway, don't read into this. He just wants somebody to talk dirty to him while he jerks off and that's it. Get used to it--most men are like this.
2007-11-12 14:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋