A very shy girl gave me signs that she was interested in me. I made small talk most times and now say hi whenever I see her.
I made a full conversation the other week but it was just me asking all the questions, she'd answer shyly. She was so shy with me that even if I said hello she wouldn't answer but just smile and look down.
This week she's still very shy with me, as before, but now she'll lose eye contact, and give quick answers, that almost seem like she's uncomfortable and it looks like she doesn't wish to speak to me.
I was told "don't come on too strong, or you'll scare her off", so I did just that and it worked well. Now I want to get to know her and talk to her more often and I'm worried I might have blown it by saying 'hi, how are you' once a day.
I really want to ask her out this week (its her favorite event). But I want to know if those recent signals that seem like ignoring are real. Why would she be doing that how should I proceed?! I don't want to come off as creepy
2007-11-12 14:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you could say my fear is, did i annoy her?
2007-11-12 15:04:58 · update #1
You need to ask her how she feels. I know it is terribly hard to do that, but you have to if you want to know. If you can't ask her in person, write her a letter or email her. Just say that you would like to know how she feels about you. Don't make it romantic or anything. You'll scare her away if you do. Just ask her plain and simple. Best wishes to you!
2007-11-12 14:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cowgirl26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best approach to this situation is to just ask her on the date. That is the only way that you are going to find out whether she is just shy or the real reason why she is acting like that. Just ask...the worst thing that she can do is just say No I don't like you.
2007-11-12 14:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has no boyfriend she might desire to of been jealous.You did not do something incorrect.She over reacted.in case you may draw the line tell her she hurting your emotions an to offer up conserving a grudge.She's Treating you unfairly.Has she ever completed something similar to this. If she has say that this is comparable with something.do not act like not something ensue believe me do not it hurts.Your not a punching bag and girls do not dance with females in public close to human beings you already know.
2016-10-02 00:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already laid the ground work, you said this event is something that is one of her favorite things, so next time just walk up and say---HEY, there's a so and so (whatever the event is)...and I was wondering if you would like to go with ME..... the WORST thing that can happen is she will say NO----but I don't think she WILL say no.
2007-11-12 15:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say "Hey, I kind of like you and I hope you don't mind, but I was hoping you would like to go with me to the. . . ."
Chances are she will say "no" if she's as shy as you say. Leave it. You gave it your best shot.
Don't kill yourself trying to get through her shy-shield. If she won't lower it, chances are you won't like what you find in there anyway. It will just be an exercise in frustration for you through the entire relationship. There are other girls out there.
2007-11-12 14:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a boy or a girl? I don't think you have blown anything. You aren't asking her out of the clear blue sky, so just ask her " I know that you like
2007-11-12 14:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw naw it seems to me that she wants you to ask her out for her favorite event, thats way now shes acting like you came on to fast or that youre a creep and shes acting like she dont want you. ask her out, be a straight up man about it, dont waste this chance even if shes acting the wy she is, just be like you didnt even know she was being some way towards you, ut if you know way she is acting like that dont even bother asking , cause you look like a foool and knowing that youll look like a foool asking, youll look like a fooool even more.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-12 15:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by dgh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out...she's obviously really really shy, but she's probably interested in you, just don't know how to express it.
2007-11-12 14:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sah Raang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's shy and she's smiling that's a good sign. if she's ignoring you and looking annoyed, that's not good.
2007-11-12 14:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her out yet and just wait and try and get her to talk more
2007-11-12 14:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋