Singles & Dating - 12 November 2007

me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now and we have a very good relationship.. we are each others best friends and like to spend a lot of time together..

he's a very laid back person - but i'm not.. i like to plan and he doesn't which is where the problem is..

i love to plan the future.. it doesn't matter to me whether the things i plan will actually happen.. it's just what i want to happen.. my boyfriend hates me planning the future..

it's not as though he is scared of commitment.. in fact he has talked about things such as 'when we get a house we're not having so and so.......' 'if our kids are like that.......' etc..

but whenever i start talking about the future he goes a bit quiet and says stuff like 'well you never know what's around the corner'..

i just hate the way he's so doubting that we will have a future.. he says that anything could happen such as we might go off each other.. which really scares me..

what is he meaning with all of this?

2007-11-12 08:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 18 and a sophomore in college...and I kinda get the feeling that this guy I know likes me, but he's like 25...is that too old for me? He's a really nice guy, and I think that he would be a good boyfriend if it ever worked out, but the age difference kind of makes me feel weird about it...

2007-11-12 08:14:49 · 14 answers · asked by oboesinger89 3

so i totally just realized i have a huge crush on this guy. but as shallow as this sounds, hes not really popular (i no) i dont no if i should keep flirting with him or what or like move on OMG HELP

2007-11-12 08:11:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are these signs he might purpose soon? He couldn't believe all his friends were married. We were at Petco and I mentioned I would like a bird and he said we could get one when we live together. He showed me the weather for this week where I said I would like to move and he said we in the conversation.

2007-11-12 08:08:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 08:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, well me and my boyfriend tell each other EVERYTHING, so whenever we end up on a sexual topic, we talk about masturbating and things like that, but whenever he mentions looking at pornography, I get really jealous and sensitive. I also get really angry that he was looking at some other girl's body besides mine. Is this so wrong? Plus, we got in a huge huge huge fight last time he mentioned it. Is that so bad that I get so sensitive? How can I get this jealousy and anger away from me? Plus, he doesn't get angry if I get upset. He just reassured me and told me that he loved me. It's just, whenever I think about it, I feel like extremely pissed off. What can I do?

2007-11-12 08:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 08:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 24, and I seem to like and get along better with guys a LOT older than me (I'm talking about guys that range from their 40s-60s). I don't know what it is, I just always seem to be attracted to them. I've dated guys my age, but I still perfer older guys. I always just think age is just a number, it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as your in love. What do you guys think?

2007-11-12 07:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by I will always & forever love MJ 4

I'm 15 but VERY matured for my age. My boyfriend is 21. Does the 6 year age gap matter?

2007-11-12 07:51:47 · 70 answers · asked by Rachel V 1

i am in a relationship(2.5yrs) its the holidays...my boyfriend is going to louisville for Thanksgiving to his Moms.His 2 kids and his brother and girlfriend will be there. he didnt invite my kids, although,they probably wouldnt go but if i were going to my moms, i would invite his kids.for Christmas his kids are coming to his house,he told me we(my kids and i ) could come over if we wanted.....not "I want you and your kids to come over..." our kids are all older ranging from 16 to 21, i have 3 he has 2.by now, i would think it would be a given that he would know, if he is going to invite me along for a holiday get2gether,you would invite my kids. maybe im wrong.i dont think so though. 1 of my kids will be at his girlfriends, the other 2 may go to theeir dads or their sisters, i dont know,but i think i will stay home, cook something and invite my kids "home" because i know we are ALL welcome there !!!

2007-11-12 07:50:43 · 2 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4

I went to the football game with my guy friend and he called me like five times trying to find out where i was because i was late and and he skipped going to a theme park to go to the game.

2007-11-12 07:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by Alexia S 1

Because I'm nervous about my frumpy aunt and her giggly wiggly

2007-11-12 07:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you are seeing someone or dating someone that before the sex that the guy is always dressed nice and smelling good and looking good all the time..but after the sex happens...they don't seem to look as good, dress as good, and smell as good anymore?
I have a FB and before we started having sex...he was really attractive to me and attempted to look nice all the time regardless if we were just hanging out at his place or going somewhere...after the sex....it was like he wasn't trying anymore..
Anyone else notice this?

2007-11-12 07:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Simply Lisa 3

theres this guy that one of my best friends is friends with. whenever my friend talks to him he always kind of glances over at me. we are both jehovah's witnesses which you don't come across them very often. idk if he likes me, and idk how to make a move.

i kinda want to start dating him

2007-11-12 07:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by nw 1

the guy i just started seeing and i are getting along fantastically(we're dating, but not 'officially' bf and gf). we have constant conversation and there's pretty much no awkward moments or silences, we are comfortable with what the other has to say. that is, except for the fact that he talks about his exes. alot. not good, or bad, just in general. it seems that every story he tells starts off with "there was this girl i was dating"... i dont know whether to take it as a good thing or bad thing... any advice??

2007-11-12 07:41:03 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 3

2007-11-12 07:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by stoner 1

Yes I have a thong fetish espically for shiny ones. I get turned on real quick if a women comes to me in a thong. I am tired of this addiction and being thong raider.

What can I do to help get over this habbit and addiction to thongs?

2007-11-12 07:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do women prefer front or back closures....and why? I think most men would prefer front closures, but it is nice to show off the skill of opening the back with one hand.

2007-11-12 07:31:44 · 20 answers · asked by NakdWhtGuy 3

do any one have any idea at all?

2007-11-12 07:30:49 · 10 answers · asked by PIMP 2

Would the average guy in his early forties see his toddler's babysitter (or nanny) as...
-an equal (a peer)
-someone he would like to sleep with
-someone more along the lines of a daughter-figure
-something else

2007-11-12 07:29:17 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my live in boyfriend of 3 yrs moved out nov 2nd and I've been a total mess cuz I want him to come home I can't eat or sleep but my question is now I'm incredibly. horny? Is that normal? He said he doesn't know if were broken up or just on a break to get things in order. So what do I do (it doesn't work if I do it myslef its just nowhere near the same)

2007-11-12 07:26:45 · 26 answers · asked by Angel 2

Why do men want to share a woman? Especially my boyfriend? What is he and his mates getting out of having sex with me in front of each other?

When I ask them they say they really like me but then I think they dont listen to anything I say i.e using condoms! Also we dont use condoms so it is messy if you know what I mean! How can guys be ok with this from other guys?

Why does it not upset my b'friend to see men have sex with me? Why does he get off on it???

2007-11-12 07:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it right for a person to judge your gf. I have this problem a lot. So i would like to put this ? to rest.

2007-11-12 07:21:27 · 12 answers · asked by jo d 1

another guy there or girl?

2007-11-12 07:15:26 · 8 answers · asked by tonyjohnson0609 1

Naturally, you would hear the term full-figured as a means of discribing a person (especially women) of a fuller form. But in some very popular cases, you would hear people using the term fat or obese. Overweight has become a term of the past because if you are 1 pound over your idea weight, you are considered overweight. (Whatever you may even say!) Well, many men that I have came into contact with have said that I am pretty but, they do not seem to want to go beyond the "you are pretty stage." Why? I wish I knew. In most cases, those same men have tried to have sexual discussions with me. Basically, telling me that they are not looking for a relationship. Needless to say, I am looking for a long term relationship and I want more than what they want. Could it be that my expectations are too much or that I am full-figured and I am not worth marrying? Please give me some feedback so that I can observe my situation and do some changes. Might I add, I do work out often.

2007-11-12 07:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by Denise 1

Guys is this hot? A chick on a dirt bike? I usually wear jeans a beater that is forest green that says "jerks love me" and a helmet somtimes riding boots but usually tennis shoes.

2007-11-12 07:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by Hes just a boy & Im just a girl 2

I don't mind doing it to him...I just don't like anybody pokin around down there because I was molested as a child and it brings back memories...so I REALLY don't like it. Is that weird?

2007-11-12 07:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i wanted to know how to have sex

2007-11-12 07:11:38 · 4 answers · asked by amber r 1

My crush used to be really loud and sometimes even obnoxious around me. He used to show off a lot and try to be really funny. After I went to his basketball game, he's gone really quiet around me. He's also starting to act shy. Today in the lunch line at school, he was behind me. His friends were pushing him toward me and he was smiling and telling them, "No, I don't like being up front!" I used to feel like he likes me, now I REALLY feel like he likes me. I think the only reason he hasn't asked me out yet is to see if I go to his next game. Does it sound like I'm right? Does it sound like he'll ask me out? Thanks.

2007-11-12 07:11:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5

I went to primary school with a girl called Lauren. We got on really well in primary school and were really close. We even managed to have a first kiss in the last year. Then we both moved on to go to the same high school but lost contact due to being split up into different classes. I hadn't talked to her since 4 years ago until last night on MSN we had a decent conversation. She then asked me to her 16th party next weekend. She has a boyfriend although when I asked her last night was she happy and did she think it would last, she said probably not. I really like her. Going to her party at her house gives me a decent opportunity to get talking with her. I think Lauren & I would be perfect together.... any ideas/advice on what i should do???

2007-11-12 07:11:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous