Singles & Dating - 12 November 2007

I have this friend, a good friend. She's my best friend and we get along great together. For reasons that are too long to explain, I like her but I, and she, know that we'll never go out or be together. (I'm close to coming to terms with it. :D)

...but here's the problem.

Even though we'll never go out or even end up together, I wanna see her pregnant. I don't know why, but I do.

Yet, I don't wanna see her pregnant.

See, if she gets pregnant, she'll forget me and move on to her own family and such... which would make me sad. But for some reason, I enjoy the thought of her being pregnant. The cool thing is that she's not that type of girl that would have sex with anything, which relives me a bit.

...anyone think they could help me with this problem? I don't want to think these thoughts since they both weird me out and make me scared for the inevitable future.

2007-11-12 03:24:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I have sex with my new boyfriend, he sometimes gets soft when it's time to put the condom on. What can we do to keep him hard ?

Also, whenever that happens, he gets sooooooo angry at himself that I don't know how to react, I never see him in such a bad mood. What could I say to him ?

2007-11-12 03:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by sandrynn 1

this girl and i are over. no chance. not even friends. it ended pretty abruptly and badly last week. i see she has added me as a friend on facebook. should i delete her as a friend and delete her phone number and get lost forever? i have nobody to depend on or talk to, she has alot of friends. Please people this is very serious i need some good advice. should i make the move and delete her from my life right now?

2007-11-12 03:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by dave 1

i have been on birth control pills for 3 months and i was a virgin until me and my boyfriend had sex a couple days ago and he n** inside of me, do you think i could still become pregant.

2007-11-12 03:12:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why dont guys take care of us like we want do they even care do they???

2007-11-12 03:12:31 · 26 answers · asked by Meica 2

I sent an email to my son to let him know that my father his grandfather may be dying. He has been very sick for over 2 years, and he has had several times of getting worse. I emailed to my daughter-in-Laws email address and I got an email back form some woman I have never heard of telling me to correct my address book and to tell my family and friends to correct theirs! Because she has been recieving emails from us. I headed the letter Grandpa not doing good. I guess she didn't read the letter but maybe she is just hateful and rude. A month ago if one of us were to leave out the 2 numbers following the email address (daughter-in-Laws) it would have come back. Anyway I replied to this Lady who has the same emaill address as my daughter-in-Law and said I was sorry and I fixed the address book. She email back and said stop emailing me! Do you think she read that email? My heart is breaking over my 90 year old Father illiness in the first place and now this Lady was so rude

2007-11-12 02:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by Pamela V 7

a girl i like is going to flash me. it will be the first time this has happened to me. what do i say right after so i don't sit there in silence?

2007-11-12 02:52:02 · 3 answers · asked by dustin_del1 1

2007-11-12 02:51:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would actually wear high stiletto heels to bed with a guy? I think its very Hot and was wondering who out there actually would do this. Just trying to get a few more answers.
Thanks!

2007-11-12 02:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by J M 1

Even if she is wearing very feminine clothes, heels, and makeup?

2007-11-12 02:47:24 · 22 answers · asked by Cybele 1

a little help decoding this please... the girl that i like recently posted something on her blog about other people (i.e.: how they met, what is their relationship, first impressions, etc.), and she made a blog entry on that about me. now, there were a couple of things there that really made me think (hard. T_T). One was when she was asked "What was the most memorable thing that he has done for you?". her answer was the time when i talked to her and told her why i love her so much that i was willing to wait for her, no matter what (hey. i'm in high school. i don't want to lose this.). The second thing is her answer to this question: "Have you tried developing feelings for him?" she said "no... for now." please help... what could her words possibly mean? thanks for answering, and God bless! :D

p.s.: she's going out with me! any good ideas on what we can do? thanks!

2007-11-12 02:45:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend have been togeither for 9 months. The passion is dead, the romance is dead. and it hurts, we know it's dead, we both want it back, we want the love, the curiosity and excitement back, I want to see her as beautiful again like I did see her, We've been trying to fix things but they fail, She's the most wonderful girl anyone could have but things have gone wrong. She's perfect for me but why cant things be like they were? I want to see her as beautiful again, We have the best memories, She's the type of female, What we had in the past, not many females are like this, I want to be in love with her, everything to be perfect with her, not someone else, Why are things like this? Is it possible to save?

2007-11-12 02:44:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to learn more about what guys dislike because I don't know much about what guys see in girls.

2007-11-12 02:40:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guys lets say your on a first date and it comes up in casual conversation that she believes shes a lil princess and the man should pay for every date , the meal, the movies, the popcorn, the lil princes thinks shes doing you a favor by being there with you are you

A) the type of guy to show her the door and tell her good luck in life
or
B) the sucker who NEEDS a girl so he will put up with that and dish out alll his money on a first and second date in hopes that this girl will even like him

now im not sayin i wont pay for anything i will gladly pay for my fair share, im talking first 2nd date when u dont even know the person when you finding out if the person is even WORTH spending money on.

FEMALES how many of you think your litle princesses and doing us a favor by showing up for the date and demand that we pay for everything.

2007-11-12 02:27:27 · 34 answers · asked by future lambo owner 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months. He's 22 and I'm 21. We spend so much time together, we trust each other, we are loyal to each other, and above all, we communicate with one another. We are not intimate with one another, because im waiting for marriage, which he's okay with.

The problem is, he plans to move 2 hours away to another city to get a better job. We haven't been away from each other ever since we started dating. (I live at home w/my mom, and he lives w/his parents.) I don't know how to take this.. It's just hard for me.. He wants my blessing, but I don't want him to live.. He made up his mind.. he is leaving. Please help, any idea how I can handle him leaving to another city? Do long distance relationship workout?

Any advice given will be appreciated.. Thank you & God Bless!

2007-11-12 02:26:08 · 27 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥ 4

so me and this guy stopped dating now for like 2 weeks. he sayed he needed some time, so i backed of gave him some time, but we still kinda texted and talked on the phone every now and than, and kinda meet up sometimes. but everytime we meet up we have sex. lately hes been really nice like we are dating again. but i dont wanna jump to concusions since he said he needed time. but than i keep thinking well maybe we will start dating again and be how we we're. i do ask him all the time after and when we are doing it, he says he swears he aint using me but how do i know that. please help on what i should do i really wanna be w/ him and i dont wanna loose him?

2007-11-12 02:20:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a girl who I know and we're good friends. Lately she's been asking me to go out with her, but I only think of her as a friend and nothing more. I don't want to hurt her feelings or ruin our friendship, but the way she's making a big deal about it, it seems like either we go out or we end our friendship. How should I tell her no?

2007-11-12 02:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by skrdude8389 5

I saw my crush last night for the first time in six months and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me and then his eyes looked a little blurry after that when he saw me. He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot.What does this mean?

2007-11-12 02:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by shanta 1

2007-11-12 01:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by fisherman984444 1

the guy in the truck next to you is checking out your legs?

2007-11-12 01:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by onherandoffher 3

ok so from a guys opinion wat are all the things tht attract u to a grl, wat would make u say wow this girls the one, appearance, attitude anything and everything.....

2007-11-12 01:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl I really like. She acts different around me than with other people. She likes to mess around with me and everything. I sometimes see her staring at me. My friend said that we should go out, and 3 of my friends thought we were going out. One day about two months ago she came up to me on the bus and asked me if I liked her. I told her i wasn't sure. Then she told me she had a boyfriend. She never acts like she has a boyfriend. She also used to be in 2 of my classes but she got transfered out of one of them. On friday I went up to her on the bus and was going to tell her I liked her but I chickened out.


So what I am asking is,

Does she like me?
Why would she say what she said, and should I believe her?
How can I tell her I like her without risking our friendship.

JustSoUNo: I am in the 7th grade

Please say your full opinion, but don't say I am to young. I partially know that.

2007-11-12 01:45:31 · 28 answers · asked by WHO-DEY!!! 4

i go out quite regularly although my bf only likes going out with his mates. he said he would come to the next party with me however when the time comes he always makes excuses. any ideas why?

2007-11-12 01:05:03 · 19 answers · asked by so confused 1

I'm genuinely curious here!
Is it really important to you lads that a girl is skinny and has big boobs?
What body type would you like a potential gf to have?

2007-11-12 00:58:08 · 16 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2

Just find out lately.....needs your help.

2007-11-12 00:50:47 · 24 answers · asked by hottstuff 3

he broke up with me because he said he was confused and didn't know what he wanted anymore. this happened three weeks ago and the first week i tried to get him back and told him how much i love him and all that. After a week of that i just stopped talking to him. we haven't talked for two weeks. i'm not sure how is feeling and i'm too scared to ask because i dont want to push him away more or get hurt again. when is it ok to make contact? should i wait for him to talk to me. the last time we talked we never established any of that. What should i do?

2007-11-12 00:48:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 00:46:26 · 24 answers · asked by * STAR * 2

I'm genuinely curious here!
Is it really important to you lads that a girl is skinny and has big boobs?
What body type would you like a potential gf to have?

2007-11-12 00:45:59 · 8 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2

some girls think: i do not want to have sex with this person. it is my own body and I can do what I want. well, in any case, forgive me for being direct, but you will have to accept penis of some boyfriend. you will have to accept that in sex female is female and that sex is more or less the same.
I know that there is difference if you love somebody or not; but when it comes to sex, the principle is the same: he penetrates in you and that is that. no more and no less.

2007-11-12 00:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by Suchness 5

Well, the story goes as follows:

I've been seeing this girl now for 11 months (a year on 10 Dec) and our relationship is incredible. We don't argue, we don't fight. It's truely unique.
However, 2 months into the relationship, she told me that she had slept with a guy a long time ago (in school) but he had been a bully and she only did it in an attempt to get him to stop bullying her. Lately (this is 8 years later), she's been having problems with her periods etc, etc. She went to the doctors and found out that she didnt get any STDs from this one-night-stand.

Me & her have never had sex in the 11 months that we've been 2gether because she doesnt want to because of what happened to her in the past (the shaggin the bully thing).

Recently, i approached the guy who she says she had sex with and asked him about it. He denies the whole thing. He says that they were friends and she used to like him, but denies having sex with her... (see below for additional info - mite take a while)

2007-11-12 00:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous