There is this girl I really like. She acts different around me than with other people. She likes to mess around with me and everything. I sometimes see her staring at me. My friend said that we should go out, and 3 of my friends thought we were going out. One day about two months ago she came up to me on the bus and asked me if I liked her. I told her i wasn't sure. Then she told me she had a boyfriend. She never acts like she has a boyfriend. She also used to be in 2 of my classes but she got transfered out of one of them. On friday I went up to her on the bus and was going to tell her I liked her but I chickened out.
So what I am asking is,
Does she like me?
Why would she say what she said, and should I believe her?
How can I tell her I like her without risking our friendship.
JustSoUNo: I am in the 7th grade
Please say your full opinion, but don't say I am to young. I partially know that.
2007-11-12 01:45:31 · 28 answers · asked by WHO-DEY!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she likes you bro, just tell her you like her too, man up
2007-11-12 01:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think anyone can tell you what she or he is thinking or how the person feels. I bet he/she is very cute, if not straight up pretty. She/he seems like they are enjoying a good time with all of the attention they get. Don't take that wrong, I am not bashing, nothing wrong with playing and having fun. Y'all are young, but this is the time it all starts. The way you learn to handle yourself and girls/boys now will determine many things for your future. I am the mother of 2 sons, both have thanked me more than once for the advice I gave them about girls while they were growing up. First of all no matter how old you are, never act too anxious and available. No matter how bad you want to scream you love her/him right out loud, you have to be cool. Many girls/boys, especailly the ones that are already "playing" the game of love can tell just by looking at you if you like them or not. Yes it is a game, whether we like to call it that or not, that's what it is. If you young people could understand that and play it like you do a sport or something, the opp would be totally lost, but the majority of you just don't get it, or are unable to control your feelings. You are young, and it doesn't matter, all the more reason to start learning how to handle this stuff. People, young or old do not act the same in public as they do in private! When you approach a girl/boy say something that leads to a conversation, not a dead end statement like "I like you". Oh well you think they don't already know that? You are mature enough to get them aside and ask to meet you at the mall or whatever y'all do. Remember you don't have to tell them you like them, believe me they already know it. And stop talking to all the other kids about your feelings. Kids are cruel and if a girl/boy you confide in likes you themselves, shehe will belittle you to the one you want them to speak to for you! You are never too young to lerarn to be a success at the dating game.
2007-11-13 02:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. But do it indirectly. Don't tell her you like her. Show her you like her. Go up to her, start up a conversation, always smile a little not too much, and talk about something you both might like. Be confident when you talk to her. Be funny and a little cocky but not too cocky. The trick is to make her want you. If you tell her you like her it takes the fun out of the uncertainty of whether or not you like her. Make her want you and you will not regret it. Be hard to get but too hard to get. girls play games some times so you should always have a couple of games of your own. Also visualize the conversation you will have with her. Picture everything and how everything will go. Try to predict how she would react to your words. Always give eye contact but not too much. You have to keep it in a good balance. Your smile and eye contact are your most important tools for this. If you need any more help with this email me.
2007-11-12 10:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by GoldenHaze 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think she likes you. She might think you are cute. When she said that, she might be attempting to make you jealous. Believe her for now because if you don't you might let yourself believe something that isn't real. If you really like her, you should trust her. If she's lying..you cannot trust her. What is a relationship without trust? You can tell her simply by saying "when you asked me a few days ago if I like you.. I decided.. i kinda do, but I dont want that to ruin anything."
Another thing is, I know where you are, I'm in 10th grade, I know what it is like to have people say,
"You are too young." Don't worry, no matter what age you are, you have feelings.
2007-11-12 11:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by sarahbell515 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's totally into you. If she's acting this way around only you, I would say she is quite interested. But, if she has a boyfriend, you have to wait for that relationship to play out before you make a move. You have to have respect!
But that doesn't mean to can't flirt! That will let her know you're interested too, but will not make you a jerk for horning in on another guy's girl.
Good luck either way! :-)
2007-11-12 09:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She told you she had a boyfriend to make her not look desperate. I think there are feelings there for both of you and you need to just bite the bullet and ask her out. Dont ask her if she likes you, ask her to go out to lunch or something. Then go from there. If you both stop being afraid and get together you might be very happy.
2007-11-12 10:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough one! It's a lucky thing that both of you are still so young. You have plenty of time to work out these kind of things. I'm sure that all of this will work out in time, one way or the other. Be patient.
2007-11-12 10:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by ethology 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes you and when you told her you wasnt sure if you liked her or not she told you she had a boyfriend which is doubtful since she took the risk to tell you that she liked you , and that you didnt know she even had a boyfriend im thinking she said that so you wouldnt think she was hurt or disappointed , if you really like this girl just tell her after all she took the risk in telling you did that ruin your friendship ?
2007-11-12 09:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by autumn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say that she does like you and that she said what she said about the boyfriend to pique your interest. She's a smart girl who understands that a guy likes a challenge. Just keep being friends and see what develops.
2007-11-12 09:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by TatersPop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she does like you and you should act now before she is transeffered out of all of your lessons. I doubt she really does have a boyfriend as she probably said that as you said you wasn't sure :-)
2007-11-12 09:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by dazbox2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like some game-playing high school drama. Well, why dont you just finish school then worry about gettin a girlfriend who will be straight with you, and who will be more mature in a couple of years?
2007-11-12 14:33:44 · answer #11 · answered by foxxyy44u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋