I have this friend, a good friend. She's my best friend and we get along great together. For reasons that are too long to explain, I like her but I, and she, know that we'll never go out or be together. (I'm close to coming to terms with it. :D)
...but here's the problem.
Even though we'll never go out or even end up together, I wanna see her pregnant. I don't know why, but I do.
Yet, I don't wanna see her pregnant.
See, if she gets pregnant, she'll forget me and move on to her own family and such... which would make me sad. But for some reason, I enjoy the thought of her being pregnant. The cool thing is that she's not that type of girl that would have sex with anything, which relives me a bit.
...anyone think they could help me with this problem? I don't want to think these thoughts since they both weird me out and make me scared for the inevitable future.
2007-11-12 03:24:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! move on and up, leave her be and socialize with other
teens, male and female, to get you back into the real world.
2007-11-14 20:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Shmooks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has indicated to you she wants children that is probably where your thought comes in. You love her and want her happy, which means being pregnant. At the same time, you are a little jealous and scared of being forgotten. She should really know how you feel, because you seem to really love her and put her needs first, even at your own expense. She should realize what an amazing person you are to be able to put her desires first, even if it means she has her own family. I am sure once she understands you want her happiness, she will always remain a close friend, as long as you could handle any relationship she might have.
2007-11-12 03:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to get pregnant but not have sex then she can go to a clinic and DRs can surgically make her pregnant. But thats her choice. don't worry about being with her as far as a boyfriend, be there for her as a friend... no matter what.
2007-11-12 03:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contradictory? Or just confused?
Sorry, you need to solve this riddle. Take it piece by piece and you should end up understanding it.
2007-11-12 03:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find something more useful to think about
2007-11-12 03:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋