Why dont guys take care of us like we want do they even care do they???
2007-11-12 03:12:31 · 26 answers · asked by Meica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Idk.Guys are sooooo dumb.I hate them sometimes.Its like we take care of them and cook and clean and do we excpect them 2 do the same for us?I didn't think so!Thats just wrong well tell me when u get an answer 2 ur question because I got no idea.We should get just the same amount of respect we give them.Well good luck I don't really think we will ever find out.Guys are just lazy and stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!But someday u wil find the rite guy for u and so will I.He will take care of us like we need to b takin' care of.
2007-11-12 03:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly I would say most guys try. Though this is a very complex thing, because of the difference between what guys and girls are taught growing up. Most guys want to protect, and care for the person they are with, though sometimes guys need a hand with getting things right. Though truth told there are some guys that really don't have a clue, and some that care only for themselves. It's like with anyone you chose your friends for a reason, but more often then not you chose a guy because his appearance appeals to you, and in doing that you eliminate the things that make your friends what they are from the equation, so your left with a mutt. Not saying that everyone does this but honestly the first thing we notice about people is appearance, then over time we begin to notice other things such as personality and things of more substance.
2007-11-12 03:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by j_new42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some guys think the most important thing is to make sure they are the ones fully satisfied in any of the matters. then there are other's who think that women should have it all. These are the two extremes. But as far as i know, many guys are somewhere in between.
A relationship is not a situation where you constantly looks for a flaw in another person. It's a relationship when you see the best in each other and try to make things work by correcting yourself and the other person as you go. remember,even men care about how a woman treats him (at least most of 'em)
Cheers!
2007-11-12 03:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Silent Revolutionist X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do .... You must understand there is guys out there just like myself that has been hurt by women so I have almost turned my back on my own race because of the hurt that I have been put in .... Yes we do care alot what women think and feel even knowing there is alot out there that don't act like it or don't care ....
ps ... and yes there is a few good men out here looking for them women that does have a heart and a soul .... ( which them are the type we will never have a chance because the women that does have a heart and a soul get with the guys that treat them like **** .... )
2007-11-12 03:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by patrick a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do and some don't it's hard sometimes 2 tell which one's really care and which ones really don't if ur used 2 being w/ guys that don't care about u it's then hard 4 u 2 believe that another guy might be different and actually care
2007-11-12 03:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age old question that will probably never be answered. Do they care? Maybe yes if they truly care about you the person...maybe no if it's just a casual thing. If you're truly in a relationship, tell him what you need (I love it when you hold my hand, I love it when you call me if you're going to be late, etc etc) Let him know what it takes to make you feel cared for. If he steps up, lucky you! Some guys just don't have a clue what it takes, but are very trainable!! If he ignores all the requests...you may want to rethink where you're going with this guy.
2007-11-12 03:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by StaceeV 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the realationship, and the level of trust. In past relationships I have wondered do people really care how I feel, and some of them did, but caring is just the tip of the ice burg, If I don't care, I don't love, I don't respect. So if your gentleman doesn't care, he may not feel as important about how you feel about a certian subject, or issue. But in general in a good, mature, honest, loving relationship, men do care. I have been twice once to a women who did not care, (that is why we divorced) and now to a women, who does care.
2007-11-12 03:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzed And Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer - No.
The explanation: Guys are trained to "fix problems" or "perform a task". When a woman has a "feeling" issue. the guys try to "fix" it to make it go away. They are truly so NOT into the drama of it.
The talkaboutit, feelit, agonizeoverit, wonderwhy, workontherelationship stuff that is so integral to the woman's feelings are not even on the guys radar. He just waits for it to subside.
2007-11-12 03:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can't read our minds... if we want something a certain way, we have to ask for it. And then, if they still don't accomadate, then perhaps "he'' truely doesn't care. Even still, what is it yoru asking him to do? It's frusterating that women have become so co-dependant... maybe you could get up andd take care of yourself... I'm sure the men will come around.. but don't wait around for him to "take care of you"
2007-11-12 03:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys don't care, and you already know what they want, but you have to avoid those guys. There a lot fewer guys that aqctualy do care. They are hard to find and ushaly don't show how much they care until you get to know them
2007-11-12 03:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Breanna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋