a little help decoding this please... the girl that i like recently posted something on her blog about other people (i.e.: how they met, what is their relationship, first impressions, etc.), and she made a blog entry on that about me. now, there were a couple of things there that really made me think (hard. T_T). One was when she was asked "What was the most memorable thing that he has done for you?". her answer was the time when i talked to her and told her why i love her so much that i was willing to wait for her, no matter what (hey. i'm in high school. i don't want to lose this.). The second thing is her answer to this question: "Have you tried developing feelings for him?" she said "no... for now." please help... what could her words possibly mean? thanks for answering, and God bless! :D
p.s.: she's going out with me! any good ideas on what we can do? thanks!
2007-11-12 02:45:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming those are her honest answers, the two statements contradict each other, which means she has mixed feelings for you...
On one hand, she enjoys the time she spends together with your and she's moved with your willingness to wait for her. On the other hand, she does not feel any romantic feeling for you yet or she does not want to have that feeling yet since she thinks she's still in high school.
A lot of people understand that any relationship in high school rerely last forever. Most of the time, high school couples break up because they got separated at one point in their lives (i.e. college, work, etc.). She probably knows this and tries to avoid being hurt from breaking up after she gives her heart to you or someone else.
My advice is to keep enjoying your days with her. Afterall, she chooses to go out with you instead of others. That means she likes you the best right now. Who knows what the future holds for both of you? Maybe you'll be together forever, maybe not. But you don't have to worry about that for now because the answers will be clearer as time goes by.
2007-11-12 02:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are in high school maybe she wants to wait until both of you are mentally prepared to be in a relationship. so she is trying not to have feeling for you right now because she isnt ready. so there could be a chance for you in the future
2007-11-12 02:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by smmr_wheatley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) hello, im kenzie and im going to try to help you anyway i can.
when i was dating my boyfriend jon he had a hard time with communication, like if he felt bad about somthing he wouldnt tell about it... or atleast not very much. i had a very long talk with him because me and him were falling apart, one day he drew me a GORGEOUS picture and a 9 page letter, hes been writing me letters and notes when get gets bored and he tells me everything, not only is he my best friend but hes my fiance.
trust me it might seem hard to impress or keep your girlfriend happy, but its really not. It just takes a little thought and effort, do cute things, old time romantic things or random things
for me its the little things, jon had a black and white bandana and he colord it with highlighters, its awesome! i wear it around my wrist everwhere i go.
MAKE HER SMILE :)
i hope this helps.
2007-11-12 02:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by KenzeeSmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you should do is be a great boyfriend and not read too much into little things that could destroy a relationship. you wont loose her if you are actively there for her and are keeping her attracted to you. dont let her eyes wander by being jealous. its up to you. she obviously saw something in you to be your girlfriend.
2007-11-12 05:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes you but is being cautious. You should sweep her off her feet by just being, genuine, a good listener, and interested in what she has to say. What you do is kind of secondary to that.
Good luck!
2007-11-12 02:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Peacenik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish your schooling and then go after girls. do not regret in not getting your women if you concentrate on your studies -- the same girl will come to you like an iron drawn towards magnet when you are successful in life
2007-11-12 02:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by shybalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both in high school. Whether you like hearing it or not, you're both young. She isn't ready for anything other than enjoying and living what is now.
2007-11-12 02:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe she is not sure wat she wants right now and is trying to figure it out, I'm a senior in high school and my bf is a junior and i am waiting for him to graduate high school then we have talked about getting married we both believe it is diff rent this time and we know how we feel about each other.keep telling her how you feel and let her know you care she will eventually figure out wats going on k
2007-11-12 02:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by amanda2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually don't have to "try to develope feelings" we either have them or we don't. When you try to feel ... what does that mean?
Girls are emotional creatures by nature. We never try to feel anything. We just do.
2007-11-12 02:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by dingydarla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not prepare for serious relationship but she likes you. Don't take advantage of her you will definitely loose her.
2007-11-12 02:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by judah_lamb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋