Singles & Dating - 12 November 2007

that she likes me
. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way

2007-11-12 18:04:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so the other day the guy ive stopped having feelings for came round the other day. i hadnt seen him in ages but all my feelings came back..

-the thing is i had my mp3 on and then when i saw him he had
his aswell! it just fazed me..
- then i took his mp3 and he got angry and was gonna topple over me to get it, but stopped midway.
- he chucks my stuff around
- he hugged one of our guy friends and was lookin at me at the same time, to make me jealous? because he was.hmm
- he played one of the songs i sent him on his mp3.
- he tried to scare me.
- he avoids me and trys to get away from me.
- he acts differently around me.
- he scares me by givin me glaring eyes.
- his attitude was on and off

is this him still having feelings for me or not, because i am totally clueless. i dont like him anymore, but why do i keep dreaming of him and finding it hard to sleep. as well as feelings coming back??

what do i do about this???

2007-11-12 18:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfreind is constantly talking about him wanting to "get in my jeans" "put me to bed" If you now what i mean. He is always talking dirty around me and he wants to have it but im not ready and all my freinds want me to do it so i can be the first out of my freinds to lose their virginity. But im not ready yet but i wanna be cool and all but i now i can get pregant get herpies hiv and all the other diases help me please.

2007-11-12 17:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by Tweety Bird 2

So any other time I've hooked up with a guy, his penis is hard before I even touch it...this time, however, I was touching it and ...nothing. No erection whatsoever. However, he continued as if nothing was wrong and seemed confused when I stopped..
What was going on here? Was he still turned on and could it just take extra time for him to get an erection?

2007-11-12 17:55:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie B 2

I have tried going out with friends. I have tried having my time and watching movies at home. I even went on a date or two and then I just wasn't interested anymore. It's harder to get out of bed in the morning and I can't go to sleep until late..late! My smiles are harder to fake now. I just want to care about life again. I can't find it. You might think I am feeling sorry for myself, but believe me I have tried. I am just so tired... tired of everything...I want to feel happy.. I want to care.. What should I do?

2007-11-12 17:52:12 · 18 answers · asked by Gohappy 3

I had a gf who is now in Canada. but I have met someone new here in Oz who im happy with but my gf here thinks im gunna change coz my ex in Canada keeps calling and texting me. and i think my gf here is a bit insecure. i wander why my ex is calling me after she left me here... can u suggest why? and how can i explain to my gf, also I have a problem that my gf that im with now says im not stable in financial, cos im supporting 2 of my younger brother (its a tradition that we both know) handded my generation to help with studies) but she doesnt agree, she says how can I support her needs? Im thinking im gunna lose her cos its gunna occur a conflict between family and my girl.. pls help... any suggestions... thanks alot everyone

2007-11-12 17:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by ehdays 1

I've been together with my boyfriend for 1 month so far. Yet I found myself not too comfortable with some of his habits. For example, he drinks 20 beers and smoke weed several times per night. I tried to tell him to cut down the amount but he said I'm not his mother and he won't change even he drinks/smokes a lot. In fact, he doesn't change much even after he drinks/smokes alot (no strange act), but I'm very worry about his potential health problems in the future. He is a very sporty and active person. He's 30 yrs old now and seems to have good health so far...except some coughing in the morning. Everytime I ask him to drink/smoke less, we end up arguing and he seems not willing to change for anyone. Can someone tell me what I can do to make him drink/smoke less?

2007-11-12 17:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend & I are pretty stable but for some reason deep down we both know we don't feel truly happy with each other. I just don't feel that chemistry/click with him. It's sad to say but i checked his email the other day and it said he bought a trial to a to a porn site and when i found out it hurt my feelings. I dont know i guess i'm insecure when it comes to other women. So knowing he was doing that made me upset & hurt at the same time. SO i confronted him about it because he knows how i felt about that stuff and he denied it at first till i said the trial then he knew he got caught and then said why am i prying around and snooping i honestly think he said that because he knew he got caught. now were on a break because i guess hes still mad about everything i dont know if its still worth it to wait around but right now i'm okay just hurt. i don't know what to do. i honestly don't think we will make it to the future. its just i still love him. what should i do? contact him? wait?

2007-11-12 17:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Precious OnE 2

I met this guy and we really are into each other.....then he tells me he's married. I didn't know. WHAT TO DO?

2007-11-12 17:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Praisechild 2

For a while now, My boyfriend and I have been having problems with me not being able to get "wet." I don't know why or what to do or if there is anything wrong with me. Even when I "AM" in the mood and want to be wet, I'm not. Is there something wrong with my body? I don't want to have to use lubricant. HELP?

2007-11-12 17:44:27 · 4 answers · asked by sealedwithakiss430 2

she said she loves me..does she really love me or is she to young??

2007-11-12 17:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend used to play fight kinda rough. Now he just hits me really hard he even leaves bruises. Twice he back handed me on my face and knocked me to the ground. One time he grabbed me by the throat and slapped me hard a couple of time. First he blames me then he says he's just playing. Is that him really playing or abuse???

2007-11-12 17:40:12 · 19 answers · asked by Neicole B 1

Will a girl in college make sexual statements(sexual innuendos) towards guys they like? Also, what else is common signs she is interested?

2007-11-12 17:38:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend made me go out with him. I sorta like him.

2007-11-12 17:38:15 · 47 answers · asked by Tseung 3

and he gets no cell phone service where he is, and im super sad we can't talk :[

what can i do to pass the time fast and get my mind off him?

2007-11-12 17:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by BrookeTay 3

He went over to his baby's mom's house the other night, after she took out a restraining order four days earlier, the day of his release. It was 11:30 and she took him to her house for over two hours and tried to give him a Tarot reading. I trust him on this one, but I don't trust her and I know she won't go away. Tonight he called me, saying that the one and a half times we've gotten to have sex isn't cutting it for him, he was drunk as hell, I told him I would call him in an hour when I got off work, but he didn't answer. I feel like my paranoia is unfair because he trusted me while he was down. But I mean, if I hadn't had sex in four years, when I got out I would be having sex with other people if my boyfriend lived three hours away, why wouldn't he? I need adivce on whether he's cheating and how I can tell, OR how to get over this irrational paranoia that he's going to. The only reason I worry so is the last man I loved cheated like he was born for that purpose

2007-11-12 17:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lizz421 2

i've just started recently going out with my ex again and the reason we broke up was cos i felt like he wasn't making an effort at least tht's what i think anyway...

how can i get him to act like he cares and get him to show a little affection to me???

anyway, he still isn't making an effort now that we're together again. he shows no affection towards me what so ever. i can snuggle right up next to him and he won't put his arm around me, or if i grab his hand and hold it, he won't hold mine back and he doesn't kiss me hello or hug me goodbye or anything.
but i know that he doesn't have a problem with physical contact cos we do kiss and fool around sometimes, but it just seems if there is nothing in it for him then he doesn't really care.

What should i do?

how can i get him to act like my boyfriend?
and not a brickwall?
any subtle hints i could give him or anything?

AND THANKYOU TO WHOEVER REPLIES!!!

2007-11-12 17:35:00 · 8 answers · asked by ? 7

i know this guy likes me but he is making me mad he has not call me i gave him my number friday if a guy gave me his number i would have call him the next day, iam going to give him one shot. what do you guys think i should do i dont want to lose him i think there is something special but if he only see me as a friend i think he should let me know dont string me along just to see if i would give him sex,if thats the case it will never happen, maybe there is a logical reasons why he has not call i know in my heart he likes me, relationships are so hard why cant it be easy

2007-11-12 17:34:11 · 3 answers · asked by lisa 2

why is it that everytime someone posts a question girls only or guys only, that somebody from the opposite sex always answers too?

2007-11-12 17:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im just curious cause it seems like he notices it, even if im...you know...quiet...
i feel really retarded for asking cause im extreamly shy lol

2007-11-12 17:29:21 · 17 answers · asked by Angie <3 1

2007-11-12 17:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can they read eyes better then guys, how do you do it?

2007-11-12 17:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy who is a really good guy at the start nice and caring, then you find out he is a maniac and totally mean and disrespectful with total disregard for your feelings, what happend to intuition? did you know deep down he was like that in the beggining?

2007-11-12 17:22:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine does it, she has 5 clients( married), and her life is great, well, I was just wondering, if I was to be like her, how will that affect me and what are their effects.... and how do I even get clients for such things

2007-11-12 17:17:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that she likes me but then she will do something that makes me unsure.
-she sometimes avoids eye contact with me.She says its because its makes her laugh when she looks at me (no there is nothing wrong with my face)
-she never initiates a convo between us or is the 1st one to say hi
-she says mean things to me often like calling me names
-her good friends sometimes act wierd like when something is said or when me and my crush disagree on something little they will smile at me and her. Also one time her friend said to us ‘your like a married couple’. And a couple of times when I’ve asked my crush for help with homework her friend has said ‘maybe you should go to (my crush’s name) house’.One time my crushes best friend was walking home alone ( they usually walk together) and I asked ‘Wheres ____?’ and her friend said she finished early and that she was heading over to her house now and then she added with a smile ‘you’d like to come, wouldn’t you Danno?’.I asked what made her say that and she said ‘nothing’.Also when we got back from holidays I told my crush that I was gonna visit her at her work but I didn’t coz I thought she wouldn’t want to see me.Then she said she probably would have only been doing a floor check so she wouldn’t have been doing much.
-She sometimes ignores me like i'll be waiting outside class by myself and when she comes instead of waiting with me she'll pretend she doesn't notice me and go wait somewhere else even though shes by herself.And one time during lunch a few of us were sitting and talking and then everyone besides us 2 leave to go do something and when we were alone she turned her back on me and watched other people in the yard muck around
and ignored me til her friends got back. When some got back they asked were everyone went then my crush said ‘they left me all by myself’ and then after a few seconds she said ‘oh, I mean they left us by ourselves’
-She smiles to herself when i do something nice for her or say something sweet to her
-But alot of the time she acts like shes not interested
-She stares at me when i say something even though i'm joking
-And whenever i try to talk to her she never puts any effort into the convo even though she does with everyone else and she doesn't seem interested
-i don't act any differently with her than what i do with other people. I mean i've done nice things for her and complimented her but i do the same for other people
-One time when we were walking 2 class I complimented her and she laughed a bit and when we got to a friend of ours they asked us whats up and then she looped her arm around mine and said that we were lovers.Shes only done this once though.We are at the end of 11th grade
-she says she is mean to me coz I’m annoying but even her friends don’t understand why she thinks I’m annoying coz I’m not
-she acts differently with me than with other friends
Do u think she likes me or do u think she knows i like her but doesn't feel the same?

2007-11-12 17:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got a long term girlfriend - we've been dating for over a year. I love her, but I feel trapped in the relationship. I'm just a freshman in college, and I don't want to be held back. I also want the experience of falling in love again. I just don't think I'm ready for calling one girl the one i'll love for forever from this point on.

However, I'm also a complete panzy, and I don't want to break up with her. I've got a lot of crap going on in my life righ t now, and for some reason the guilt from breaking up with her would drive me crazy. What I want to do is get her to break up with me, which isn't as easy as it seems. I don't want to make it incredibly obvious, however, if you know what I mean. I know I should just suck it up and tell her, but I don't want to do that. Don't tell me that. Instead, help me with what I want help with: how can I make her break up with me, without making it obvious that I want her to?

2007-11-12 16:51:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have broken up with my boyfriend a week ago. Things are really hard for me atm and I honestly want to get back together. I don't know if he even wants to get back together but I want to. I am just really sad and I am trying to stay strong but it is so hard. I need some advice.

2007-11-12 16:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1

is prom really that important?

2007-11-12 16:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by sniper88gt 1

VERY long story condensed into VERY short version:
We have mutual friends.
I have had a crush on him for years (innocent crush, not obsessive i just think he's got something special)
I moved away from his city 2 years ago.
I am moving BACK to his city next month.
He knows this (i guess he heard it from our mutual friends?)
He's been texting me randomly ever since he found out (October).
I am going to be in his city at the end of the week for business.
He knows this as well. He texted me asking "where are you going to be staying?"
I will probably see him this weekend at some point.
Ugh....
He makes me SO nervous I forget how to speak when he's around.
I really like him. He may or may not know this (I don't know).
I might avoid seeing him simply because he makes me so nervous I'm afraid of looking stupid or worse.
what to do???

2007-11-12 16:35:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i pay someone to go with me?

2007-11-12 16:25:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous