well me n my best friend always go on the school bus 2gether but when ever were on there she alwys snobs me off and leaves me out so i decided to do the same i sat next to this other chick and completely ignored my bestie so she could feel what i was feeling then she goes to her cousin some sorta best friend i have doesnt even talk 2 me i herd but did say anything now im the bad friend when i was only trying to let her see how it felt
2007-11-14 18:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i tell her that i was only giving her a taste of her own medicine without going off at her
2007-11-14 18:32:57 · update #1
So your best friend is a 'snob chick' what is a Bestie? a beast-ie or a best friend? wtf.. I am dizzy..
2007-11-14 18:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by roguebarb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In response to your "whats up with her" question, I'm guessing that shes pissed as a result of your success in making her feel what you felt.
To solve the problem, you should just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about it and let the conversation lead you from there. Make sure that you start a fight though.
Note: Some people just like to make as many friends as possible instead of sticking with a small group of good friends. If your friend is like this, you just gotta give her some space. Sometimes she will change the way she acts to appeal to the crowd, then after, she will be your best friend again.
Some people are just like that.
Sorry, I'm not too great at explaining these things.
2007-11-15 02:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Chris #326 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is not the way to go.
it leaves too much open to interpretation as to why you might be making her jealous. Unless she knows explicitly the why you are doing it and what you are trying to accomplish, it will only escalate the situation. Does she even know you're mad at her for snobing you? If this is normal for her why should she change it especially when she doesn't think its an issue.
I would suggest finding a more direct way of getting back at her and trying to resolve the issue. Keep it relevant and don't escalate it. Playing jokes work great if you can get her to laugh about it afterwards.
2007-11-15 02:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sticky Note Writer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally buzzing at the moment, but it seems to me that she didn't like a taste of her own medicine. Now just let her know that you were doing what she always does to you and hopefully things clear up... Good Luck!!!
2007-11-15 02:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vengeance is mine, says the Lord.
That's what happens when u do things JUST to prove a point. However, the situation is soo temporary!!
2007-11-15 02:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Praisechild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have just talked to her honestly about how you felt.
2007-11-15 02:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna know what her deal is? ask her! (in a nicer way that is)
2007-11-15 02:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry....I don't understand the question....?
2007-11-15 02:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by jezebel445 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋