Singles & Dating - 14 November 2007

Me and my last boyfriend went on a "break" but sometimes he says we brokeup. We still talk everyday and hang out a couple times a week and when we are together its like were going out. We still kiss and mess around... but then a guy from work asked me out and i like him but i love my last guy. is it ok to date this other guy?

2007-11-14 02:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by sparkysprite101 1

2007-11-14 02:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by jade 1

my boyfriend says he is fat and he only weighs 180lbs and he is about 6'3"ft he is really good looking and he says he is fat i love his cute tummy and i don't want him to lose it how do i tell him without making him mad and do you think he'll listen?

2007-11-14 02:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl I'm starting to like, she has been flirting with me for more than a month in school, we make eye contact a lot, she smiles at me and says hi almost everyday and other stuff happened (like she was all over me at the halloween party)! The problem is we haven't had a real conversation... Last week she came to me and asked me my name I didn't have the time to answer because her teacher was calling her so I continued this conversation the next day, she asked me my name and I got hers, she also told me that I look like her friend! What should I do now? I really want to get to know her! A close friend of mine talks to her a lot but I don't think she likes him... The problem is that I'm shy and he's not!

2007-11-14 02:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 02:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by mantywoc 1

aftr i caught her flirting wth othrs, i askd 4 explanation, she says thts jst frndship tlks, whn she says "luv u" 2 othrs she dosent mean it, bt means jst 4 me. i took it lite, bt once again i found her givin her cell no. & fixing meetings wth guys (though she says shes jst givin guys dates, nt actually meetin thm), i again tried to clear things...she again says its nthn serious..she ws doin it jst like tht...whn i ask her to meet up, she constantly gives dates, makes plans, n hangs 4 sm or d othr reason...i m real confused wht to do nw...i deleted her chat ids, her cell no. every contact...bt i m sure she will call bck (lyk did everytm be4)...n she will giv a big explanation, n will try her best to convince me emotionally...wht to do now? is this all my misunderstanding? i aint in d mood of timepass....if i start luving its gonna b forever...bt wht if she is jst flirting like shes doin wth othrs...n quits in between..bt she says she luvs me more thn nythin on earth...more thn her dad

2007-11-14 02:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by confused soul 1

when you're looking for a seriouos relationship, how many years younger/older do you look for? Would you be more interested in a brand new woman, or an old friend? what charecteristics would you look for?

2007-11-14 02:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 13 months. Lately we've been having a lot of fights (we used to never fight!) I'm freaked out because we had never talked about breaking up before. He seems cold and careless but says that he loves me and cant see himself without me.
how can i make our relationship better? I dont want this to be it....im scared of what might happen next...

2007-11-14 02:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by clarissa 2

do u feel that nose makes a persons face. do u find something sexy about it apart from the other features?

2007-11-14 02:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 02:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor B 2

By 'too much information' I refer to things like credit card details (when not making payments) and long personal spiels.

2007-11-14 02:30:01 · 4 answers · asked by Richard C 3

so i have ahd this thing for this guy for a ong time and my friend dated him but they broke up and now he wants to get with me and i dont know if i should or not. i mean she did it to me but is it right for me to do it back to her?

2007-11-14 02:27:54 · 25 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2

i went to my sister church and it was this boy that there and he kept staring at me and i just kept wondering why he kept staring at me so this sunday that just pass he had look at me and said that i like you and i want you so he ask for my number i gave it to him and we started talking that same night. Then he came over my house monday night then we start kissing and talking. And he wanted me to promise him three things fist one is to promise to never cheat on him, second promise to always tell him the truth and three promise to whatever we do keep it to ourselves. is this a real relationship or just he after one thing can it be real or is just a lie.

2007-11-14 02:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by christina b 1

necklace with "I Love You" inscribed on it a good gift to get a girlfriend i will have been with for 2 months by christmas. ?
(as a christmas gift)
i am also writing a poem to give her as well as i like writing poetry

so i am wondering if people think this is a good thing to get as i really want to get somthing really nice for her as she means loads to me

2007-11-14 02:26:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is in the military and has treated me like sht. We were together 3 yrs and last yr he got greencard and then ran to miltary on one phone call he said 'i don't need you anymore the military is taking care of my process" After only one yr of service they give citizenship instead of the standard 7 if not in military. Anyways i already planned on divorcing him for this. Last week though he called me and said he would call me when he got home next week to see see his daughter who is almost 2 . Meanwhile he get weekend passes off base 4 and half hrs away from me never calls for me to bring her as he doesn't have his car there. why because on wekends hotels and strip clubs are more important When he calls i want to have a smart remak letting him know i know about the strip club and that he is not seeing his daughter till visitations are set up at our divorce as his daughter wasn't priority Any smart things i could say as after that call i don't want to ever talk to him again!

2007-11-14 02:23:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for about a month and a half now - we have been together 2 weeks "officially". He has lots going for him, but as shallow as it sounds, I am the better looking person in the relationship and many people have asked me what I'm doing with someone who looks like him when I look the way I do.
I don't listen to others, I make decisions for myself on who I do and don't date. However, I DO agree. It's actually starting to get to me that I am quite a bit better looking. This must sound so shallow (especially coming from a 22 year old), but I don't know if it would be wrong of me to continue to date him when I really don't have any physical attraction (there is some level of sexual attraction though). I am wondering if this is going to catch up with me and be a problem down the road. Can someone please offer me some advice? Thanks!

2007-11-14 02:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a class with this girl for about 4 months and all her friends say she likes me,she laughs at everything I say, and she even invited me to a football game and I went and we had a great time!But I told her friend about my feelings and I told her not to tell her but she did anyways and she said that she told her that I liked her and was sooner or later going to ask her out and she replied,"I want to get to know him better" is she still interested in me?And today she thought I was going to ask her out and out of nervousness I guess, she cried at break so I didn't ask her,oh and also she has never had a boyfriend so could that play into it?I need some advise!

2007-11-14 02:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by clubclan05 2

Yesterday when I was walking home, I saw a gorgeous young women about 27. She was well dressed except she was wearing a pair of stubbs & wootton velvet flats? isn't that a little odd..Aren't those for older women

2007-11-14 02:16:40 · 10 answers · asked by fuji 1

Basically I booked and put down payment for a 4 day/weekend tour for thanksgiving on the 22nd. That was our original plan. However, yesterday I told her that we would have to cancel because my dad did not allow me to go because we are in the process of closing a house and my signature is needed on the 19th, and if things went wrong I may had to stay around to fix things up during that time.

But after I told my gf that we couldn't go, I found out that if we couldnt sign on the 19th, then the next date would be the 26th... Basically I can go regardless and have no problems at all. I text my girlfriend and told her that I can go now and she txt's me back and says she told her parents she isn't going anymore and that we should go next time. (she is the type that doesn't like to change plans and makes up her mind quick)

I am planning to speak to her in person today, but I was wondering is it wrong for if my girlfriend decides she doesnt want to go on the trip anymore?

2007-11-14 02:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends and i were hanging out and there were like you know i think you'll look really cute with mark. and then i just kinda like oh ok (cause i didnt know who he was) and then these girls go to Mark and they say, you know i think youll look really cute with our friend (me) he was just like oh ok (because he didnt know who i was either. BUT to make a looong story short he eventually saw who i was, and i saw who he was. and my friend was talking to him and was like why arent u talking to her yet, and he says because im scared, because she has a whole bunch of friends and i dont want them taking over (i thought that was a whole bunch of bs) and then the next day he tells her that he doesnt want to pull me away from my school work.
do you think that hes really "scared" or are those excuses a way of saying "im not interested"

2007-11-14 02:11:46 · 16 answers · asked by Marisol J 2

"Once a cheater, always a cheater."?

2007-11-14 02:11:44 · 12 answers · asked by ♥CarolinaMommy♥ 3

what is it with men posting their shirtless bodies on their profiles? do they really think thats how they are going to win women? can that be any more stupid? you are supposed to put a picture on your profile so people know who you are. you could be a familiar face. its like walking in a bar with no shirt on!
first of all, when you put your stupid shirtless bodies on your profile, its "EGOTISTICAL" written all over it. it shows that you are a PLAYER. sluts go for players. real, serious, good quality women DONT (like me). i mean, who do you think you are anyway? what responses do you expect from women by posting that picture? did you really think women would just gravel at your feet and be saying "oh my god u are so hot, lets go out tonight!"?! its so sad to see people who are just craving for attention,craving for compliments that they would go sooo low like posting their shirtless bodies on their profile. what p!sses me off more is some of these men would post their headless bodies!

2007-11-14 02:10:17 · 26 answers · asked by switbaby9 3

Every time I go over to my boyfriends place it’s always untidy, the kitchen is a mess and he leaves dirty plates, empty bags, and exposed food so it goes stale. Etc etc. The lounge is a mess too with clothes on the floor. The first time I went over he made an effort to tidy up and make it look nice but now it seems like he feels he doesn’t need to make the effort. How do I tell him in a subtle way without sounding like a nag to tidy up? It seems to me he likes the mess because I started washing up once to do my bit and help after I stayed there for the day and he told me not to bother.

2007-11-14 02:07:23 · 25 answers · asked by rainbow 1

2007-11-14 02:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Aaron 1

ok like im really in love with this boy and he says he's in love with me and maybe one day we can get married and im not so sure its real he protects me alot and i love that part but sometimes i feel like when i look over he's thinkin bout someone else is he in love the way i am

2007-11-14 02:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by m 2

2007-11-14 02:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

I like this girl but she doesn't know I exist, What do I do?

2007-11-14 02:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Spider 2

2007-11-14 02:02:45 · 3 answers · asked by boots is bad 1

What you gonna feel if your boyfriend or husband rejected you when it comes to sex? Cus my boyfriend just rejected me i feel ugly and down because he said his tired from work but still it hurt my feelings and he step my ego..it's not just about the sex on the way he did it seems that he don't really love me that much, im not ugly but i feel ugly on what he did.. it hurt especially from someone you really love..

2007-11-14 01:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by Maricris H 1

Ok i need help. Me and my gf have been dating for about 4weeks now.
and we only see eachother 2times a week every week
because we meet at church (and yes we are christians)

we done stuff like hold eachother and hug and hold hands but thats as far it goes, and im not complaining at all!
i enjoy how it is. but (oh yeah) one more thing me and my gf talk to eachother like everyday!! so yeah.

but it seems like she drifting away. like when i say "i love you"
to her.. she doesnt say it back!

i need help. how do i know what she wants? am i doing something wrong? help me out please!

-nic

2007-11-14 01:19:07 · 10 answers · asked by Fire heart 1