What you gonna feel if your boyfriend or husband rejected you when it comes to sex? Cus my boyfriend just rejected me i feel ugly and down because he said his tired from work but still it hurt my feelings and he step my ego..it's not just about the sex on the way he did it seems that he don't really love me that much, im not ugly but i feel ugly on what he did.. it hurt especially from someone you really love..
2007-11-14 01:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by Maricris H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its Happens. Leave him and find someone Else to love you! There are Millions of good looking loving men out there the are just to shy the deserve a nice girl. Like my buddy Dave, really good looking guy but he's just to shy. Good luck.
2007-11-14 01:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Of course it hurts the ego a little. But look at yourself realistically - are you ugly? Are you undesirable? If the answer is no, then whether he wants sex shouldn't matter all that much. After all, he has as much right to say "I'm too tired" as you do.
If you want, you can always try to "convince" him. Tired or not, he'll probably respond if you do something overt and physical (I do this to my wife all the time - it usually works.) And if he's still too tired...then he's too tired. There's nothing you can do about that, and it's not your fault he's tired, so don't worry about it. You can always look after yourself for today - and there's always the next day. Maybe try to actively seduce him? If so, plan what you're going to do. Making it up as you go just doesn't usually work very well. Most guys respond very well to a woman that's sexually aggressive occasionally. If he feels that you REALLY want him, I kinda doubt he's say no!
Good luck!
2007-11-14 09:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're taking it way more personally than you should. It's not uncommon that partners would have different appetites or that they would each be "in the mood" at different times, especially once the honeymoon phase has ended. It doesn't mean anything other than he wasn't in the mood when you were. That's not rejection of you, but of that advance at that moment. You haven't lost anything. That may have been the first time this happened, but it certainly won't be the last. Communication makes this situation somewhat better, but there will always be inequities in appetites to contend with...you're two separate people. (He doesn't owe you sex anymore than you owe it to him; sex is an expression of the love between you, but it's not the love itself). So, relax...you're fine.
2007-11-14 10:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is going to want to have sex every single time that you ask for it. That's not rejection, he told you he is tired.
If it's just this once or every once in a while, then I wouldn't worry. If he never wants to have sex, then I'd be wondering about what the problem might be and talk to him about it.
If your ego and emotions are that tied up in whether or not you have sex every time you want, then you need to grow up a bit.
2007-11-14 09:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all by the way you typed your question and the language you use id say tour WAY too youngto have sex.But anyway people do get tired men and women both a realtionship is about understanding on both sides its NOt always about YOU....stop crying that song ( ME ME ME ME ME ) if hes tired let him get some rest im sure it will be better for both when he is rested but goodness girl i suggest you worry a little more about your grammer than a roll in the sack ........
2007-11-14 09:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! haven't you ever been tired?to tiered to be interested in anything?this is very common when you get a little older,if he was a little to brusque with you then talk to him tiredness is no excuse for bad manners.
2007-11-14 09:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy some toys, men get tired sometimes.
2007-11-14 09:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by bloodshotcyclops 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did and it felt no different and worst, it was from a bf...felt like a slut and flirt!
but you are different and its just one of those days.....its temporary.....tell him his insensativeness and it hurts...
thats what couples are suppose to have?
2007-11-14 09:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by coffee_tea_or 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow thats harsh, i'm sorry but thats just not right
2007-11-14 09:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by fantasticfreddy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, because i'm the one who rejected about this issue,..
well i'm too young for this,..
2007-11-14 09:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋