This is my high school sweetheart,my first boyfriend,i fell in love with him.We went out when i was 15(18) and he was16(19),our relationship lasted 11 months b/c i broke up with him, we had a longdistance relationship.He's been always abad guy,been in jail & all that,and also cheated on me that's why i brokeup with him b/c i couldnt trust him.We didnt see each other 4 almost 2 years.When he came back i gave him another chance,but he messed up again,b/c he didnt do anything to become a better person instead kept doing drugs no job nothing.Iwas mad,& i got tired of this situation b/c i do go to college and have a decent job, & thats what i wanted for him. Now his family is sending him out of the country so he told me he is leaving next week.We spent monday nite together i was happy,but i called him today if he wanted to meet up,& he said no b/c he didnt want to say bye,&dont stress or worry about him.he'll be ok.& to be good,i'll find someone that deserves me.i love him idntknow what 2do
2007-11-14 19:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over him if he doesn't want to be with you.
2007-11-14 19:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Leinnxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That first love is the hardest to get over, believe me I went thru that in high school. It is good you gave him a second chance, but he could not hold up his end. You have to let him go to straighten out his life, in the mean time just remember the good times you shared and get on with your life. Just keep up with your girlfriends and something better will come along. Good Luck.
2007-11-15 03:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by SilentDoGood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell in love with the man you met 3 years ago when he was 16, but now he's fallen in with some bad men, and isn't the same person you fell in love with, he's no good for you anymore, but you can still be a good friend by helping him stop doing drugs.
Also, I have a highschool sweetheart, she's in college, but I'm in still in highschool, I love her, but I know it won't be forever.
2007-11-15 03:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry....cry cry. When u finish, pray no pray and cry. Then remember the good times. If it is God's will, it shall come to pass, if not, there's a good guy lurking around but ur soo blinded by ur tears u can't see. I wish I could give u a hug. Am soo feeling ur pain.
2007-11-15 03:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Praisechild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he said it... you are too good for him, so why dont you find someone better... you are just illusioned because he is your first love, but there are so many better guys out there, go find someone else who wont break you heart and make you cry.. dont worry, it hurts now, but you will by and by forget about him, and find someone new... trust me.. he will come...
2007-11-15 03:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone with even just a few brain cells can figure this one out.
By what you say, you sound like you lack confidence in yourself.
2007-11-15 03:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by fawdown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me thats he doesn't deserve someone like you. if he can't change for someone like you who works hard to move up, then you are better off without him. i know that my words are callous at the very least, but trust me, you really are better than that.
2007-11-15 03:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by i_am_GOD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coo
2007-11-15 03:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2kaleb04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so bad news. please move on!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 03:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋