every guy that ive met in high school are complete dopes. i JUST started high school(freshman) and like, ive had alot of crushes, but later when i get to know them, i stop liking them...is there something wierd with me or what?
and i always feel as if im never going to find the "perfect" guy ( i no that no one is perfect, but i mean like a guy for ME)
im too picky ><
2007-11-14 17:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by xhottamaleesx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep looking
2007-11-14 17:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by PartyNaked® 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you at all. Sheesh, you're just a freshman, and you sound like you're ready to get married. Give yourself a break. When the right guy comes along, you'll know it. It's good to be selective.
You have all these 'crushes' as do almost all teenagers because you're all going through hormone changes. I think it's good that you're realizing these guys aren't right for you, many girls fall into the trap of forcing themselves to like someone just so they have a boyfriend.
You just keep on listening to your own feelings and you'll be fine. The 'right' person is worth waiting for.
Good luck!
2007-11-14 17:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by helen keller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young. There'll be plenty of chances to find someone who you'll like enough to want relationship things.
High school may seem like the be all and end all, but you're out of there before you know it. After high school you just laugh at the terrible antics people do back there. College is where your dating life should really begin.
2007-11-14 17:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Angela Montenegro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys in high school are tools. You probably stop liking them once you get to know them because you realize there's nothing there.
I was like that, too. You'll find someone eventually, don't worry.
You're only 15, for christ's sake!
2007-11-14 17:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Speedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be more open minded and try to see the continuous good in people and don't try so hard to find someone let it happen. your way to young to even be looking have fun, chill out and that special person will come to you. their is nothing wrong in knowing what you like unless you don't know what you like in that case your just too nit picky about the negative qualities that might be out weighed by the good qualities you surpass seeing.
2007-11-14 17:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by slickpapa2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bleh that happens to a lot of us
( for me its perfect girl, im picky too )
but a friend ( a girl of course ) told me to lose the fear to love
maybe in the most unexpected person you'll find the love of your life, or just a good relationship
2007-11-14 17:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pradexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes years to figure guys out- okay, maybe not so much figure them out as accept them for who they are. You're not weird, just a little more mature than your environment. Give it time and have fun in the meantime- the right guy is waiting for you somewhere.
2007-11-14 17:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you've got time. Relax and just enjoy the whole high school experience. You don't have to find your soul mate yet. You are so young...just be yourself and don't hurry things.
2007-11-14 17:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have alot of crushes cause you are young and its your horomones that are making you like every guy you see out there, and once you get to know them, you realize they arent that interesting. try not to LOOK for guys, just wait and you'll meet someone interesting, then go for it.
2007-11-14 17:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit rushing things. A guy will appear just when you least expect it. It never fails.
2007-11-14 17:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you!!!...you just need to find out who you first and what you want...and then what you are looking for in a guy... and that will help you with your choices..good luck
2007-11-14 17:13:49 · answer #11 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋