I find it thrilling when guys fall for me and start getting possessive over me. I fantasise about a guy crying over me cause it makes me feel loved.
I have never broken a guy's heart really but have come into close scrapes with stalkers cause I tend to fall for possessive men.
I am strange, I know before you say something, but in a good way I guess.
2007-11-14 19:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suspect there is a history of abuse in your family, because that's the main reason people seek out abusive relationships. Maybe your generation was spared overt abuse but one or both of your parents were abused.
Stalkers and jealous people can't really love anyone. They might put on a good show for a while but in the end they disappoint their "lovers" and they disappoint themselves, which makes them angry and bitter. Healthy people instinctively stay away from situations like that. Unhealthy people can be attracted either because that's how "love" was modeled to them or because they unconsciously recreate abusive situations.
I'd strongly suggest you look at why it's attractive to you to hurt people, and why you're attracted to people who need to control you.
2007-11-14 19:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a heartbreaker, or at least you don't want to be one. I do think you are wanting attention. The problem is you seem to want attention whether it's good or bad.
Please be careful with possessive men. That can be a very dangerous situation that goes from good to bad before you know what's happening.
You need to switch from fantasy to reality. It is much more thrilling to be in a healthy, loving relationship than to be with a possessive man. And nothing makes you feel more loved (not even a man's tears) than having the right guy TELL you he loves you as he looks into your eyes.
2007-11-14 19:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really fantasize about breaking a guys heart and making him cry because he loves you. Why wouldn't you fantasize about having a wonderful relationship together because he loves you. And you love him. You're kinda like a vampire. I hope I don't meet you in real life. I hope men see through that and stay clear away from you
2007-11-14 19:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Beznik 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we all do want people to put importance to us, that we feel valued and taken high regards of, there is nothing strange about that, just that we shoudl alsoput consideration to other people's emotion, dont take it too lightly...
2007-11-14 19:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very Interesting and you are unique and you are not a heart breaker...
Cheers
2007-11-14 19:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋