Gf getting to fat!?

Question

hey, my gf was skinny and hot when we met, now 4 months later she is getting big. She is getting way to fat, way to fast. She is not pregnant, so dont ask. I mean, what gives women the right to just stop taking care of themselves when they find a man? I still go to the gym 3 times a week and lift. I look good. She has gone from a size 1 to a size 6!!! WTF! And then she dares ask me if she looks fat....i tell her the truth, and she gets all mad at me and cries. She used to wear sexy jeans and skirts, now all she wears is fat *** "juicy" sweat pants and sweat shirts. Am i being unfair? should i dump her? whats the deal guys?

how am i being unfair? I love it how these chicks just judge me, and never offer positive criticism. How is me being a jerk...a solution to my problem? she isnt that tall, so from a size 1 to a size 6 is a huge difference. Especially when nice tight body parts are now soggy flabby meat rolls. gross...

Answer 1

ok im not gonna try and be all nice like these other people "its whats on the inside that matters...ahh NOT" well yea it dose count whats on the inside but the outsid has to be hot too!
ask her to go to the gym with u!
or buy her a dress thats like small! or ask her to wear a dress she wore when u 2 first met, when she cant fit into it maybe it will finaly hit her that she got fat
=)

Answer 2

Apparently to you 1 to a size 6 is conciderd fat. thats gaining weight a little strange that it happend in four months but its not completely unhealthy. If you were going to ask her I wouldnt necisarally use the direct approach. Plus its getting cooler So that weight might be normal for her at this point in time. If shes not worried about it why the hell are you? If you cant look at her and think that shes pretty evem how she looks now than dump her now because eventually she can do much better.

Answer 3

She could be stressed, could have a thyroid problem, could be having hormonal problems, may have just started birth control and not told you, etc.

BUT, a size 6 is absolutely not fat. Marilyn Monroe was a size 14, and yet she was the center of millions of young adolescent fantacies for decades. Size 1 usually means that something was wrong to begin with.

I was in a relationship early in college that was very unhealthy. He was verbally and emotionally abusive towards me. I was constantly on edge, and as a result, I couldn't eat. My stomach was always in knots and I was always sickly. For a full year, my weight dropped and dropped and I got sicker and sicker. At age 20, I weighed less than 100 pounds. I was very unhealthy. After we broke up, I started getting healthier. Then I met my fiance, who helped me to feel secure and beautiful again, and ended up gaining almost 20 pounds in less than a year. I'm not fat, still a size 2, but I look and feel much healthier. If he were to ask me to go back down to the size I was when we first met, I would be anemic, unhealthy, tired, and starved.

If you aren't going to appreciate her for who she is, then you don't need to be with her anyway. You deserve someone as shallow and conceited as yourself. I hope she finds better.

Answer 4

Dump her, you're not good enough for her. You're calling her fat? Does she shop at Lane Bryant? Wear Just My Size panties? You're shallow and need to get your Head out your *** and see that if you can't be with her for who she is now, then how will you treat her when she has a couple of your kids and gains 50 pounds. Size 6 is HEALTHY, size 1 is anorexic for most women. Love her for who she is or let her find someone who will.

Answer 5

What a jerk. If size 6 is way too fat for you, by all means, dump the poor thing to spare her feelings later, find yourself a supermodel-thin girlfriend, and have fun when she DIES of malnutrition!

I understand that it's frustrating to be taking care of yourself when you don't think she's willing to do the same, but your view of women needs some SERIOUS readjusting.

Answer 6

i completely understand. u meet ur girlfriend when she was thin and now she is gaining weight. u were attracted to her at first but maybe not anymore. you cant help what your attracted to so screw anyone who disagres. but the only thing i wonder about it.. a size 6 is not fat at all!! i just wonder how old you guys are?! i am 19 years old about 5'4 and am a size 7..so whats the problem? maybe if shes like 4 feet or something than ya thats bad and unhealthy

Answer 7

Seriously, that's a pretty serious size increase and he is right to be concerned about it. Lets face it: physical beauty is very important in a relationship and its kind of weird that she would stop caring about her looks now that she hooked a man. I'm not saying physical attractiveness is everything so don't start yelling at me but it is important and she should want to be as attractive as possible for her guy. Don't be brutally honest and tell her she's fat or anything but you should really talk to her about this serious problem. Let her know whats up and if she doesn't understand then obviously there's no solution and you both should just move on to other people.

Answer 8

I think you are being a bit harsh, but alot of women get way to comfortable in a relationship and let go way to much. However i dont think you should dump her, (Well thats if you really do care and love her). Maybe try talking to her about it, and see how she feels about herslef and why she has let herself go so much.. But if it is really bothering you that much to me it seems like you dont care about her and your looking for a trophy wife that hangs off your arm and just looks good, rather then having a woman who you deeply love and cherish and love her for what is inside and who she is as a person..

In the end it is your decision, just dont regret it in the end..

Answer 9

" what gives women the right to just stop taking care of themselves when they find a man?"
Well what gives a man the right to judge a girl by looks, or dump her if she gets fat?
trust me, if you dump her not only will no other girls want to date you if they find out why, you'll also be considered a jerk by me and millions of other girls.
Why don't you just like, you know, love her for who she is and if you can't then i highly recomend you never get in a relationship again..
Boy, i've loved my guy for over 2 years, he's been fat, he's been way skinny, and he's also shorter than me..
and my guys loved me through my fatness stage too XD
Did you ever think like, maybe you feel like you're putting up with a lot from her but immagine what shes putting up with from you?
and um, it might not even be her fault.. when girls gain weight like that their usually going through lots of stress..

Answer 10

size 6 is by no means fat...what you want her to be anorexic or something? The average size of females in the US is a 9!!!! Or are you one of those guys that want a model sized bony female that while you're having sex you are getting stuck with nothing but bones????