is it embarrassing if u r 15?

Question

is it embarrassing if ur 15 and u still haven't gotten ur first kiss bcuz ur parents don't let u out of ur house and don't let u hang out w/ friends? ur not grounded or anything

Answer 1

Your parents want you to be safe and enjoy your childhood for as long as possible. You are lucky to have parents that care so much about you.

I'm sure it's embarrassing for you, since you're 15 and you think you're way behind everyone else. But you should know that a lot of 15 year olds talk big about things like that and a lot of it is not true. On the other hand, some of them are doing a lot more than kissing at that age. Don't be in a hurry to do what "everyone else is doing." It leads to a lot of tears and heartache when you're that young, and that's if things go well. It can also lead to unwanted pregnancies, disease, and sexual assault.

Try to build trust with your parents, by keeping the lines of communication open with them. You could ask if they'd be okay with you going on a group date with a bunch of kids your age. If they don't agree, maybe you should ask them why you can't go out, and when they intend to allow you to grow up and do the things that I'm sure they did when they were your age.

Answer 2

ok, I'm not gonna lie, it is going to feel embarrassing, especially since most of your friends have probably had some kind of kiss somewhere down the line. you're gonna feel unexperienced and resentful towards your parents. however, the fact is that most people really couldn't care whether you've kissed anyone or not. at 15 it's not like you've met your one true love or anything anyways. there's certainly nothing -wrong- with it .It's not other people's business to begin with... if they ask you be classy and just say "well i don't kiss and tell" which is a polite way of saying "mind your own damn business". there's an old saying that goes "hunger is the best seasoning". what it means is that the longer you go without something, the better it gets. like if you havn't eaten in two days and suddenly you get to eat a pizza that pizza is gonna be the most delicious thing you've ever eaten. the same is true for kissing; the longer you go without, the sweeter it will be. know that your parents mean well and yeah they're a pain in the @$$ but really you'll be ok

Answer 3

I'll be 17 next month and my parents still try to keep me in the house. I can't go out unless it's school-related. The only difference is i've gotten my first kiss already. I personally don't think it's embarrassing that u haven't had yours yet. I say if u know other kids are gonna tease u about it, then just lie and say u already had it before. Kids these days can be soo cruel. lol

Answer 4

It doesn't have to be embarrassing. No one needs to know but you. It's not unusual for parents to be strict and things like this to happen at a later age. Just wait til the timing is right and it will happen. No need to be in a rush as there is plenty of time. And if you are old enough it wont be up to your parents it will be your decision. Just have faith and try to start getting them to let you out once in a while with friends to a movie or something. Everyone needs a social life. Good luck.

Answer 5

There's nothing for you to be embarrassed about. You're still young and if your parents are being strict with you, it's probably because they are looking out for your best interests. They may be trying to keep you from heartache for as long as possible. Heck, I didn't date at all in high school, or even get my first kiss until I was 19, but I'm better off for it. I waited to date until I was out of high school and I'm happy I did because high school is stressful enough without having to worry about relationships. Plus, if you break up with someone you go to school with, you have to see them all the time. In the real world, you don't have to deal with stuff like that. So don't stress over this never-been-kissed-complex and just try to enjoy being a teenager because you have the next 60 years to deal with grown up issues.

Answer 6

That's not embarrassing at all, it's actually really cute. A lot of guys will definitely like that. No guys want a girl with "experience," and most of them are really nervous about how they kiss and things like that so it will make them more comfortable. Don't sweat it, a lot of parents are like that when their kids are growing up. A lot of girls will wish they hadn't kissed most of the boys they did and they'll be jealous of how much attention you get from guys.

Answer 7

i didnt get my 1st kiss real kiss with tongue till i was 15 and 5 months of almost being 16!!! And it had nothing to do with me not being attractive or nerdy or anything just my choice i wanted it to be with the right guy..Just like when i lost my virginity i waited till i was 18.. And im pretty proud of how i made my decissions..

Answer 8

no, not every 15 year old needs to have their first kiss. Some kids might not understand but just think of how special it will be when you do get your first kiss

Answer 9

Hmmmmm i dont think you should be embaraced because its not like you cant talk to people because your shy, its because your parents dont let you. Try having an inside school relationship. and keep it queit. Have a talk with your parents and say that you want to hang out with friends. They should understand. If not dont get mad, or it could make it worse. Hope this helped.

Answer 10

no it isnt at all enjoy man , u can have kisses anytime girls can come anytime in ur life but for nmow enjoy u dont become a man bcoz of a kiss but u bcome a man coz of ur attitude and maturity...