Singles & Dating - 8 October 2007

OK.. so say there's this guy.. right and hypothetically say that somehow viable spermatazoe of mine got on his penis and then he had sex.. (a threesome you don't have to use you rimagination for this hypothetical) .. and the dear lady is now pregnant with twins but she said one is mine and the other is his... and if I didn't even do it with her.. should I have to pay maintenance or not?

I mean, I shouldn't have to pay the maintenance should I?

Or do you think she is just trying to have a joke wit me? IS it even possible.. hypothetical of course... this is. (Just pretend I'm writing a short story - a thriller). :)

2007-10-08 20:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Icy Gazpacho 6

once he meets the right girl?

2007-10-08 20:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m the ugliest girl in this whole planet.
I didn't choose how I look I really want to cry

1: graduated from the best Uni
2: working in the best Company in Colorado.
3: has the best fashion car that is in the market.
4: high income
5: my cheapest watch was 9 thousand dollars.

I know all what am doing is wrong but I want to have attention just like any person like in this life. I want to love and be loved.

why should I live alone and sticking with my mother forever.

I build my future because I think it will the people respect me for who I am. But I don’t think it helps. It also hurt to see an average pretty girl having a bf even she didn't has any career.

2007-10-08 20:16:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 20:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy we hit it off.. but he a hardworker always working.. well we finally met..he calls me and everything cool..i ask him out a week ago he told me he was working all weekend..should i give up.. or how can i turn the table and let him ask me? help me !!

2007-10-08 20:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by not so innocent!! 1

My girlfriend often does our laundry, but I do mine as well from time-to-time. I offered to return the favor and do her laundry with mine, but she refused. I offered again about a week later. Same response, even though I knew she had a hamper-full of dirty laundry.

I finally asked her why, and after some hesitating and avoiding the question, she told me that she doesn't want me to see her "stains" on her clothes because she'd be embarrassed. That was confusing. I'm assuming discharge stains and the like.

I don't get it -- what's the big deal. Ladies, are most of you like this? Would you refuse to let him do your laundry?

2007-10-08 20:03:44 · 19 answers · asked by Warren Peace 1

ive got nothing...beside my ability to sing

2007-10-08 20:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1

Some women say its what's inside your heart not outside and also I find women want money only or should we say it seems like they are gold diggers. What do women really what?

2007-10-08 19:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by T. J 1

She's never happy and I know what Depression is and what it effects but I really like to make her smile but she never shows it or anything I need some help cause I love her and our relationship we have together but I want to make her smlie and be happy what can I do? (if anything)

2007-10-08 19:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by kybr424242 2

I've been seeing this guy that I met through a friend, and he seems really nice (plus, he came with good recommendations from my said friend). However, recently he (the guy I'm seeing), told me about his friend (frat boy) who got his car spray-painted by an anonymous person. Then he went on about how it could have been the rival frat, but that he knew a few people who hated the leader of the frat. Then he said "I met these ugly girls who hated the frat leader. But it probably wasn't them, because ugly girls usually don't do anything but... sit around and be ugly, and one of them was really fat"..... I found this sort of immature and mean, so I responded (in a half-joking way), " That's so mean hehe..." and the guy answered back, "well I'm just being honest..."
OK. Everything was going pretty good until he said those mean things about those girls.
Does this make him a bad guy?

2007-10-08 19:13:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My last bf bought me expensive clothes and shoes, most of which he picked out. He spent thousands on gifts, airline tickets (although never first class), dates, etc., in the eight months he dated. But I always felt like just a piece of arm-candy, and I never had any say in the trips or other stuff. I mean, once he walked into a formal gown boutique (very exclusive, appt only) and dropped $4000 on two gowns (we only needed one for the charity gala we were attending, but he liked two of them, so he said, why not?). Keep in mind, I'm a poor mother of two who would have loved a sofa, a new flute (I'm a music teacher and my flute was stolen a couple of years ago; believe me, I hinted!), or even a used car for that money. I have no use for the gowns in my closet now. He was controlling in all ways: bedroom, relationship, etc. Nightmare bf. Should I watch out for men with money?

2007-10-08 19:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by nondescript 4

2007-10-08 19:09:22 · 16 answers · asked by Mick 3

my best friend is my ex, we just clearly werent meant to be in a relationship but we are great as friends. we have been best friends since a few mths after we broke up and now i have a new bf who was fine with it at first, now 3 mths into it wants to tell me i shouldnt see/talk to him anymore, and starting fights over it. i think this is unfair, and he is just being jealous. he already admitted to being insecure. why should i let someone control me and who im friends with? i love him but i shouldnt have to stop being friends with someone just because of his insecurity. advice?

2007-10-08 19:07:32 · 7 answers · asked by knowitall 4

Is there anybody that wants to talk to me about relationships? I don't really care who it is, as long as they are open and I don't personally know who they are. I think a guy might be able to help me more, but I appreciate any help.

If you want to chat, leave your AIM or Yahoo as an answer. If you are uncomfortable, but still want to chat, feel free to e-mail me. If you don't want either, that's OK too.

2007-10-08 19:01:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 19:00:20 · 15 answers · asked by Peter 4

I have known this girl for a while now and her, her friends and even a couple of my friends that know her told me that she was 15. 2years younger than me not a big deal rite? but now i found out everyone lied to me and she is only 13. the reason they lied to me is because this girl didn't want me to not like her because of her age. I have hung out with her and she seems as though she is older than 16. everyone tells me "oh its just a number who cares" well i care actually because, To me it is very weird and maybe wrong. But im not going to just change my mind and say that i don't like her because i do like her. I knew i liked her before i found out her true age. It would be wrong to base all things i think about her on her age. SO is it wrong and should i tell her that it won't work or should i keep to the fact that she hasn't changed,and the fact that i like her hasn't really changed either only her age has? Lol sorry this one was so long but this is bugging the hell outta me:)

2007-10-08 18:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by Icarus 2

when we first got together he knew we were close in a friendly way. 3 mths later,& now suddenly he has a huge prob with it. we only talk like once a week where as it used to be alot more. its causing us to fight but i feel like i shouldnt have to give up a best friend just cause hes jealous. advice?

2007-10-08 18:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by knowitall 4

I've met soooo many girls and some how or another they play lesbians and think that's cool or have bunch of drug history or sex history. what is a girl worth if she has no values?

2007-10-08 18:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 18:39:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it romantic when a guy is hugging you and while he is hugging you he asks you out?

2007-10-08 18:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by fbn55 1

I know, I know....I shouldn't be messing around with a married man, but truthfully didn't know he was, til late in the game. I want to be with him, full time, and he claims he wants the same...yet sometimes I have this horrible feeling, when we're making love, that he has just done the same with someone else...(someone else, meaning his wife). He swears on his life, etc, that he hasn't had intimate relations with her since BEFORE we met and started having sex allllllll the time. Of course I want to believe him, what a nice form of flaugtery, yet I'm a realist and know that the odds are stacked against me...Soooo, how do you know if what he says is true...? How could I find out from her, or a friend of his???Any suggestions?

2007-10-08 18:17:50 · 19 answers · asked by 2much_luvin' 1

I've casually dated a girl for about a month now. Not really BF/GF, but have gotten physical.

From the get go, i thought she was cool, and i was attracted to her, but it wasn't one of those butterfly in your stomach type of deals....

Ok, now a couple nights ago...I was going to meet her at a nightclub where she was with a friend, and I brought a friend along too...so at the club now...her friend that i meet, who i heard of (and liked) through my sorta GF is basically this bombshell....perfect girl of my dreams type..personality...everything....like everything i look for in a person..she didn't end up liking my friend either

I have thoughts of leaving this girl regardless of whether i hook up with her friend or not, if i could get some different insight posting this question here, i would appreciate it

I guess what i want to know is, would it be wrong of me to pursue the friend?? And Girls, would you date someone who dated a friend of yours?(if he respectfully ended with GF)

2007-10-08 18:12:12 · 27 answers · asked by topmanga 1

but we arnt going to have sex...wat are some other good things we can do sexually without actually having sex....and how...showerin

2007-10-08 18:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what do they do

2007-10-08 17:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by coookiesssss 1

My crush's birthday is coming up, and I want to kiss him. What's the best way to do it in a surprising way? (We're both 29.)

2007-10-08 17:45:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 17:45:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think that's kinda weird. and he will not have physical contact with me unless he is nice and clean. so many rules. anyway, i been trying to compromise with him but its kinda tiring really. i have to be the one who keeps things fresh not him. do you think i am keener than him?

2007-10-08 17:44:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted this question before in the past, and I do apologize for deleting the the question. I was very upset when I invited a girl I met online on a trip and she refused to be my date. Deep in the bottom of my heart, I am VERY sorry to everyone on the board for my abrupt behavior. I may be quiet, but I'm hardworking, decent and have a lot of bright things going for me. I'm sure there has to be at least one out of hundreds of billions out there who is sweet, loving, and very caring. Will you be willing to help me?

2007-10-08 17:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by lalapunk 1

Where is the sexy womans are?

2007-10-08 17:34:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 17:32:47 · 29 answers · asked by Jade S 1