but we arnt going to have sex...wat are some other good things we can do sexually without actually having sex....and how...showerin
2007-10-08 18:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 and he knows we are NOT having sex because we both are waiting till we get married. weve been datin over 2 years now
2007-10-08 18:15:10 · update #1
I would advise you to not do that. You are playing with fire and it's not fair to tease.
Something tells me you are too young and should not be having sex at this age. Enjoy being young and free and don't mess around just because a boyfriend expects it.
Good Luck
2007-10-08 18:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by redmane_at_stargazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that there will be no sex? Is he paying for the room? Because usually when a guy ponys up the dough for a hotel room, he's expecting some sex. If that's not on the menu, then probably a hot shower, some candles, and some "everything-but-sex" will make him happy, and hopefully you too. Maybe watch an "adult" video, or something. But before you go in the room, make sure that this is something you want to do, and make sure that he understands what is and is not on the menu.
2007-10-09 01:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Justin A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Patti C. She said OMG. Listen dear, you say you are renting a hotel room and not having sex, but you want to have sex without penetration. I will tell you right now that you are just kidding yourself if that is the way you think it is going to go. If you and your boy friend are that attracted to one another, than you will end up having sexual intercourse. No doubt about it. I hope you have birth control and that you please, please protect yourself against AIDS. I would hate to see you get pregnant, when that is not what you want, and also to get AIDS or to be HIV positive. Please if you go ahead with this be careful.
2007-10-09 22:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by UPESKYMO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are playing games with the laws of attraction......
other things you could do is play board games, if you have things in common then you could talk as well, if you dont have things in common then dont stay together cause chances are that you only have chemistry in common and some point that night reality will kick in.
other things you could do is ......why are you renting a room if you aint going to exchange bodys? that sounds odd......you two playing games.
2007-10-09 01:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your gonna showe together you guys will probably end up having sex trust me thats what they all say but you guys will probably get so caught up in the moment youll just do it so be careful and use protection ;)
2007-10-09 01:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay that sounds good. Just make sure you don't do anything you would regret. Do this because you want to not because you want to please him or he is pressuring you to. Have a condom with you JUST IN CASE. A couple of them. You never know!
2007-10-09 01:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u even grown? If u was grown, u could live wit ur boifriend AND have sex.... I live wit my boifriend and we have sex, but we do alot of otha thingz... Kick it, chill.... thurr are plenty of thingz u can do. But I agree, homework should be #1 on ur list.
2007-10-09 01:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Remi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok..........now ur just lying to yourself, trust me, you two alone is too easy to fall into lust, you be alone with him......
but if ur really serious i suggest just not to do it. a hotel wasnt ment to sleep in and it was meant for two people to be alone to have sex freely
2007-10-09 01:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sexs, its a dream... u dont penerate but still make each other come... massaging each other with oil, spending time in the bubble bath.... hmmmm....thses are so nice to do...
2007-10-09 01:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you cant spell half your words you shouldnt be getting a room with your bf do your homework!!!
2007-10-09 01:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋