Some women say its what's inside your heart not outside and also I find women want money only or should we say it seems like they are gold diggers. What do women really what?
2007-10-08 19:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by T. J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well im gona say yes,
What women want is a real man?
Someone who lets her be herself, someone that cares for her, someone who will look after her, he has to have his own mind and a bit rough around the edges
Some of you dnt even have to be goodlooking, if you sweep her off her feet she will be yours forever,
2007-10-08 19:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women say they want is not the same as what they realy want.
From my own experience, I have learnt that even the most deep and intellegent girl will be attracted to a strong handsome man. The corolary is true for men, including myself.
More woman than men seem to want money and security, without actually being ambitious, at the expense of other attributes.
Given all that, all women are different. The biggest problem is that most women don't really know what they want and have to be shown.
2007-10-08 19:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think young women care about how a man is build and if they have a good build them self the do want a man with a big stomach or fat arms, and yes some of them are gold diggers if the are not working, older women look for a man, yes with a job but they don't have to look like superman, and they just want to know if the man can take care of him self, vice verse.
2007-10-08 19:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to have an unconditional friend to share their life with , make a future , connect with. The money thing is a comforting thing so they feel they are well looked after. It is part of getting their needs met.Money makes life a lot easier. I'm divorced but I can honestly say that I never wanted his money . I wanted everyone together and happy. Friends say I am entitled to half his house. I don't want it.. He built it. It is his. and the thing about how you are built is strictly chemistry. You aren't even looking and then you notice they have a nice butt! Human nature I guess. when you first meet someone you don't think they are attractive and when you get to know the whole person suddenly they become handsome. Its a funny thing but thats how it it!!
2007-10-08 19:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by jan d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all want different things. Women who want to have a family might be concerned about financial stability especially if they come from a wealthy family, nobody likes to go backwards. Most women enjoy a man with a sense of humor, someone to make us laugh, someone who makes us feel attractive and wanted. A gentle man who loves children and animals yet who is big enough and strong enough to protect us and our kids. I want intelligence, humor, attraction, kindness, yes I want money so we do not have to go without. Lots of things! And everyone is different!
2007-10-08 19:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you're not going to find a universal answer to that question. Everyone wants something different, and that's good, because all you can do is be yourself. Are you going to change your body or personality based on our answers? I certainly hope not. To answer your question (for myself only), appearance is important, but not the main thing. I look for men who are kind, intelligent, and family-oriented. A bonus is a sarcastic sense of humor and ambition.
2007-10-08 19:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All women, just like all men .are different. I wish I could say that all women only want to be treated good.That we want a good man to love us and one we can give our love to but it just ain't so.There are women out there that only want a man that can buy for them, do for them and bow down to them but ; Thank God, there are others out there.Just be careful who you are with. If she (or he) seems like they are only interested in what you can do for them, dump them.Life is a two way street.You do for them but they should want to do just as much for you. Out of love, not because it's required.If you catch them doing for you and you not wanting to return the favors, you should find someone else.This only means that you really don't care that much for them.It's the same, if you are a man or a woman.
2007-10-08 19:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we tend to judge based on that, and we do get caught up in superficial wants, but if you know and love each other, looks shouldn't matter at all. I think we say we want a big strong guy, but if we find someone who loves us for who we are and makes us feel good, body build won't be important.
2007-10-08 19:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by h_o_r_s_e_n_u_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman, of course. Just like men, some women are superficial and some aren't. I think it's up to you to decide which kind of woman you want, and act accordingly.
2007-10-08 19:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what she's looking for...
if she's looking for someone that she can boast to her friends, then she'll definitely look for a guy who has got the looks and the built that would make her friends envious of her...
but if she's looking for someone whom she's going love and be with for the rest of her life, then looks won't matter at all. She'll be able to see past all those physical appearances.
2007-10-08 19:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by mAyOkEtchUp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋