2007-10-08 17:45:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, go to church and pray for peace. There will always be someone near - a good friend you don't even notice - that will keep bugging you to come out of your shell. You're not alone, I feel the same way, I feel for you as well.
2007-10-08 17:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just found singing halloween songs I found on-line set to other holiday tunes very cathardic.... now, for me who knows. For you, depends on where you are. If you live in a place like NY, LA, or Las Vegas, well, there's alot of things you can go do on your own to forget your troubles. I broke up with my guy like 4 mnths. ago, so I'm still fresh off the whole "lonely and hate the world" train. And I used to live in Vegas and hate where I'm at too, but I'm making the most of my time, so should you, look at sites of where you'd like to live and then search jobs in that area, and imagine if you could make it work. Visit some vacation sites maybe plan a trip. Just don't sulk, to much times passes when you're busy hating the world and everyone in it.... take care of you...
2007-10-09 00:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by ladilasvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't really lonely for another, you are lonely for you and its ok to not like the world... You have no one because you motivated yourself to be alone and this was caused out of you needing to get back in touch with yourself... This is all caused by you wanting it this very way, now take some time to really think about this and you'll see that you are really chasing after you...
2007-10-09 00:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you lonely? Do you feel like hating this dam World? There is no one to talk to? It is okay no problem however.. O' my god do you know what a best opportunity you have now?... Don’t worry such moments come in everyone’s life... but such moments are the best opportunities to become creative, to grow inwardly, to read a good inspiring and motivating book, to watch a good movie, to make a new friend, to learn a new skill…. to self-explore…… to explore your own mind…. to explore your own intellect…. to explore your own personality…. to go deeper and deeper into your own inner consciousness…. and to grow outwardly just like tall tree that grows taller and taller into the sky by growing its roots deeper and deeper into the earth….. Did you get it…be intelligent just like those.. Intelligent trees.. And do you know? There is no limit for you to grow inwardly …. you can even keep growing beyond the sky…… and that is what you are capable of… and made for.... you are far more powerful than what you believe you are… but in this dam world who has time to explore within? Since you have that invaluable time at your command and there is no one to disturb you .. why don’t you make a best use this rare opportunity and grow taller than all others? Let the world be as it is, don’t worry about it at all… what are you is more important than what that dam world is……
2007-10-09 01:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by vittalkoppal 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
id find a hobby, get a better job, read, go jogging, talk to people on the internet, smile, do side walk chalk, watch cartoons, go shopping, play with all my pets, go to church, believe in something, sleep it off, do yoga, eat ice cream, smell flowers, work at an animal shelter, meet a hot guy, dance, self pleasure ur self, build something, set goals for yourself, plant things, go outside, go fishing, go to the movies, cook a nice hot dinner and invite some people, have a party, have a halloween party :), the list is endless, and let go of that hate. its ur choice.....
2007-10-09 00:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change you thought processes. Instead of the above, try to think of good things you have. Like a car - you don't have to walk; food- you won't go hungry tonight. etc...
Less focus inward, more focus outward. A smile and a nod usually gets good responses from people - make new friends.
2007-10-09 01:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then its time to get out and meet someone. Go for a run, exercise a bit and the world won't look so bad anymore.
2007-10-09 00:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up boxing or some other combat sport. Hating the world and having all your biterness would prob make you pretty unbeatable if you trained yourself physically.
2007-10-09 00:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Donovan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? I just think about all the disastrous and unhealty relations I have had and then I know that being alone isnt half as bad as it may seem. If you cant be happy by yourself then you cant be happy with someone else either.
2007-10-09 00:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it could be worse!!! you could be living in a cardboard box!
it could be worse, you could be fighting in Iraq away from your family,
it could be worse , you could be homeless,
it could be worse , you coud be working for pennies in a sweatshop,
it could be worse , you could be a single mom of ten kids and no education,
it could be worse , you could have lost your arms and legs in a car wreck.
it could be worse, letsthank god you have what you have. you have the internet and people to talk to. talk to us and let us know whats on your mind, you have plenty of friends. here on the net. you can find anything on the net, you can find old friends, you can find lost loves, you can find old teachers that changed your life, you can find anything. do it and dont think you are lonely, you arent, dont hate the world!!!! good luck!!!
2007-10-09 00:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋