Singles & Dating - 8 October 2007

I'm just wondering if there are any other people out there who have been in relationships, but have never fallen in "Love". Me personally, I think it's because I’m not able to get close enough to people to allow it to happen. I just wanted to know everyone else’s opinion’s on the subject. Insight, stories doesn't matter.

2007-10-08 04:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by ishouldhavebeenafarmer 3

When is it too much? I used to watch a lot of porn, but then I quit because I wanted to, now it still pops into my head and I interpret innocent things as sexual. Is there something wrong with me? Will I always be like this? I'm a 20 year old guy. Is this normal?

2007-10-08 04:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by jblack988 1

2007-10-08 04:35:26 · 23 answers · asked by victoria 1

my bf and i have been together for 21/2 years we have a daughter together and sex is good its just that i dont make noise do you think that maybe he feels like he isnt doing agreat job or should i start meking noise. i dont know

2007-10-08 04:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When u have this feeling about someone u love that they are not telling you the truth.... is most of the time you r right?

2007-10-08 04:31:46 · 8 answers · asked by spontanious 1

2007-10-08 04:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by aurora546 1

is this ok?i think that guy has a girlfriend..i have never met a guy in my life befor who are of my age.is it ok?i have not told my arents n not going to tell.i'm 14!

2007-10-08 04:29:25 · 6 answers · asked by coolgal 3

i have been with him for already 2 months.do not know since when our relationship become worse.during the first beginning,everything seems smooth.even when we argued,we will fast reconcile.till that day when he scolds me saying that i controlling him,making things big from small and contacting him nonstop especially when he did not respon.i feel very hurt that i giving him such awful feelings.i feels he no longer like me.today in office he asking me whether i off but actually he did ask me to apply leave,but he seems forgot about it.i feel really hurt.i feel he want to break up with me.what you guys thing?i did not sms him neither.all my friend says why i so idiot still entertain him after being humiliated.but i loves him.so i forgive him.but i do not think he will appreciates me.i still need face him in office,i feel really uneasy.i would not sms him but i think he would not.what should i do?please advice.do he still loves me??

2007-10-08 04:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by jessy 3

2007-10-08 04:20:14 · 21 answers · asked by Kim 5

2007-10-08 04:12:53 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

I've had light-bondage fantasies ever since I became sexually mature, but for 12 years I have never acted any of them out with any of my boyfriends - I just fantasize about it in the privacy of my own bedroom.

Now I'm single, and a friend of mine suggested that I place an ad. Well, I did, and I received tons of responses! But of course I'm scared - there's the safety factor for one thing. Also, I don't think I could ever have a serious relationship with someone if we acted out my fantasies. It would have to be just sex and nothing else.

So I'm not sure what to do - play it safe and just keep torturing myself with unfulfilled fantasies? Or take a risk and see what happens? Has anyone ever been in a similar situation?

Thanks!

2007-10-08 04:07:16 · 18 answers · asked by Kiz M 2

i would feel stupid hinting around

2007-10-08 03:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

But he has girl friends that he says nothing is going on with them.
We were trying to make our relationship work but stupid like this comes up and I get so mad.
Is this normal>?

2007-10-08 03:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

Guys I know a lot of people ask this question, but, I just wondered what do you LOVE about a girl?!?! Like what is something they do that just drives you wild?? What they wear, habits, smiles, hairstyle....anything....
Ooooo and I also wondered do guys talk to their friends just like girls?? do they say yea i had sex with her and like oh i would totally marry her and stuff??? or do they keep it to themselves???

2007-10-08 03:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by divadancer27 1

the question why do so many of you start with OK?

2007-10-08 03:41:58 · 1 answers · asked by suzie 7

Im dating a girl thats 19 while im 23. She is a sophomore in college, I just graduated in May. Does anyone see any problem with this?

I really like her we have a lot of fun together. But my friends give me a hard time because of the 4 year difference, even though they like her!

2007-10-08 03:38:45 · 44 answers · asked by Rider1536 1

I LOVE oral sex. When we started dating he went down a couple of times but then he quit. He says he doesn't like to but every other guy I dated loved to do it. He said it grosses him out b/c that's where I urinate from. I told him that sometimes it grosses me out to go down on him if I think that way. I told him that pleasuring him is worth it and once I see how excited he gets it turns me on and I enjoy it. I've tried to compromise and ask for it only on special occasions. I've told him what I like. I'm a very clean person and at the very least always trimmed but usually next to bare. So is he being selfish or am I being selfish for asking him?

2007-10-08 03:36:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I just got engaged, and i was wondering if it was ok that we fight/argue alot... our arguments never last that long like maybe an hour and we never go to sleep mad at eachother but i was just wondering if it was normal or not.. i hear that alot of couples argue so i was just wondering!

2007-10-08 03:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't you see that the stuff that happens in the movies and romance novels is not real? *Real Life* doesn't happen like that. There is no *Prince Charming*, no *Mr. Right*, no "soul mate". That's why you're all getting played like Sega and laid like carpet.

2007-10-08 03:28:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

,..........does it make a difference to your sex life

2007-10-08 03:25:34 · 19 answers · asked by tezz 2

Recently, (6 months ago) I started dating my best friend of 12 years. I guess he has had a crush all these years. Our relationship is perfect as in, we are very compatible and respectful and very much in love and he says he is "very very happy." Last night I found out he is getting me a computer for christmas and possibly a new couch. I almost cried. Not because I was thrilled, but because it seemed so impersonal. I don't have much in life, I chose a degree in human services, so big material items don't matter to me. Am I a ***** for not being aprpeciative for what he plans to get me? Or am I crazy for wanting a small bracelet or necklace because it is more romantic? I am open to all answers-even if they are rude because I always liek to be more self aware.

2007-10-08 03:17:39 · 30 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 4

2007-10-08 03:15:11 · 29 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

My ex boyfriend contacted me for the first time in a couple of years last week on tuesday. I was on my way to the gym and so we spoke for about 15 minutes and I had to get off. He said he would call me later that night.
He didn't call later, but called me while I was at work the next day. I missed his call, but he left a voicemail saying that he would call me back. That was last wednesday.
He hasn't called me back yet. Maybe he thought I would call him instead, but he called me from 2 different numbers so I didn't call because I didn't know where the numbers where actually from and if they were his.
Whats up with this? do you think he will call back? or do you think I should call him?
I'm sort of against calling him back - when he said he'd call me.

Any ideas?

2007-10-08 02:58:28 · 14 answers · asked by *Mrs. Butler* 2

Does your heart beat on true one or false hopes?
Are men used on such games as best laid plans?

2007-10-08 02:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by HOPES 5

1. a complicated woman
2. a pragmatic smart woman
3. a hot & wild but conservative lady
4. an ideal most sought after quality-character lady
5. a sentimental, sensitive woman

and why???

2007-10-08 02:35:33 · 6 answers · asked by HOPES 5

I'm always totally fine in the flirting stage, and the first/second date, but i can neer seem to get past that stage. I'm not afraid of commitment, but it's almost as if i just get bored, even if i can talk to the guy like a would a friend, i jsut get to a point where i get bored. Anyone have/had a similar problem??

2007-10-08 02:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you've been talking all day and you just cant think of anything to ask or to say... what do you do?

2007-10-08 02:32:00 · 28 answers · asked by Answerer 1

With all this 2 group of people whats their various advantages of marrying any of them and also whats the disadvantages of also marrying any of them?

2007-10-08 02:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I go about asking my friend to cross dress me and him in his sisters clothes without just coming out and asking him?

HELP?!

2007-10-08 02:08:26 · 11 answers · asked by hjlkjh h 1

I know lots of people who are attracted to or have been in long-term relationships many times. But I rarely meet guys I am attracted to and if I do, they then have to clear the hurdles of being single and interested in me - which is less and less likely as I get older. (Im 34).
I have met a guy who has a great personality and is great to me but I don't get butterflies in my stomach about him. I enjoy his company a lot but I worry that it's jsut because I'm not used to guys taking an interest in me, romantically or otherwise.
Is the whole romantic, butterflies in the stomach thing a myth? Do you either get great compatibility or great physical attraction and have to make a choice? Does anyone ever find both - in all honesty?

2007-10-08 02:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by Nat R 2