Why wont my man perform oral sex?

Question

I LOVE oral sex. When we started dating he went down a couple of times but then he quit. He says he doesn't like to but every other guy I dated loved to do it. He said it grosses him out b/c that's where I urinate from. I told him that sometimes it grosses me out to go down on him if I think that way. I told him that pleasuring him is worth it and once I see how excited he gets it turns me on and I enjoy it. I've tried to compromise and ask for it only on special occasions. I've told him what I like. I'm a very clean person and at the very least always trimmed but usually next to bare. So is he being selfish or am I being selfish for asking him?

Answer 1

Yes he is, isn't hard for a person to put away their personal pain, for anothers personal pleasure. That aside it wasn't until he didn't comprimise that we really see a problem. Talk to him about this like its a deal brecker because chances are if he gets hung up on that, theres other things that are going to follow. Thats why I'm not going to marry a girl that doesn't give me head, if I can give it, because I'm sacrifice, so can see, its a matual thing were both have something to gain! Darnit!