I posted this question before in the past, and I do apologize for deleting the the question. I was very upset when I invited a girl I met online on a trip and she refused to be my date. Deep in the bottom of my heart, I am VERY sorry to everyone on the board for my abrupt behavior. I may be quiet, but I'm hardworking, decent and have a lot of bright things going for me. I'm sure there has to be at least one out of hundreds of billions out there who is sweet, loving, and very caring. Will you be willing to help me?
2007-10-08 17:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by lalapunk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how u feel. I was always the quiet shy girl. My guy is the total complete opposite of me. I never thought a guy like that would like me. Trust me you will find the girl for you. Usually happens when u don't expect it too. Good luck.
2007-10-08 17:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing of it is you are a quiet guy, you need to get a little more brave and ask a few girls out. There are a few of us who would like to meet a nice guy who isn't always on the make, if you get my meaning. It could also seem to a few of us that quiet means weak and we really don't like men who are push overs, not to say we want a man to a tough guy either. It is complicated. Keep asking, we are out here, you may have to get into a situation with a girl who has some life experience and has learned a few things, like nice guys are far and above better than the alternative. Maybe your standards are too high, are you looking for a high maintenance girl? One of those hooker with a heart of gold kind{non-existent}. Maybe you should take a long hard look at yourself and what you are in pursuit of. Yes, we like nice guys...all I have ever met in on line date sites are old guys or guys who are just looking for an orifice...maybe you should give up on the on line thing, I have...
2007-10-09 00:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by inkgddss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You invited a girl you met online on a trip? Uh, you're a stranger and she doesn't know if you're a murderer or not. That'skind of crazy. In fact this question is a bit "unstable" sounding. You may be construed as a predator. You may want to change your tone a bit. All this about deleted questions and your need for help, what are you talking about exactly?
2007-10-09 00:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by aleesonaroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the fact that you are meeting up with the wrong women. You need to find someone that is truly interested in you for exactly who you are and don't be afraid to take it slow, one step at a time. Things have a chance to mess up when you are in a rush to establish a relationship with someone right away. Take the time to get to know each other. Let the sparks and chemistry be natural. Good luck!
2007-10-09 00:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of looking for dates online, why don't you ask someone from your gym or some other recreational group you belong to. If you don't belong to either or, then find one to sign up with. Have you tried church? There are plenty of ways to sell yourself in the real world. You just never know who you are going to meet online. Too much anonymity. Being a female myself, I would never date anyone I met online either.
2007-10-09 00:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you need to learn how to speak up to get what you want out of life. no one will provide a handout for you, and no woman is just going to fall in your lap---unless you pay them! lol anyhow, take some speech classes--get around a group of people in a volunteer setting, train in personal fitness, be a firefighter, build a backbone, and overcome the pain that you feel. woman love a man who strong in mind and body and will stand up like a man and not whisper like a young girl. be nice and stay nice, but become a man
2007-10-09 00:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... It depends on the type that a girl likes. Some girls like talkative guys, some like quiet guys, some like ambitious guys. So, everything is up to her cup of tea. Don't worry. You will find a nice girl .But ,most of the time, guy should be initiative to ask the girl.
2007-10-09 00:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by HAPPY APPLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wondering why nobody loves you, and start living for yourself. Do things you like to do, and don't worry about whether or not you have a date. Nothing is more appealing than a man who knows himself...quiet or not.
2007-10-09 00:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because most men these days are looking for a Barbie Doll to act as an arm trophy to impress all of their friends.
2007-10-09 00:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Morgantown32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to step out of your shell and talk to women who you come into physical contact with.
2007-10-09 00:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋