Singles & Dating - 2 October 2007

2007-10-02 06:04:03 · 22 answers · asked by cleo s 3

Dating was tough enough when I was young, but now that I am 45, it is down right scary. When I go to most bars I find nothing but young women who are beautiful to see, but aren't the least bit interested in a guy my age. So give me a hand. Are there any night spots which are primarily frequented by more mature ladies who might be in the market for a well-experienced male?

2007-10-02 06:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

You met this new guy, you two really got to like each other and have been dating for a couple of days now and here it comes, the first kiss with him. He gives you a gentle kiss and then what?
I've always had that akward silence after the first kiss, not knowing what to say obviously your not going to say thanks, i just smile and look the opposite way not knowing what to say and he doesnt know what to say either. What do you do or say to avoid that akward moment after the kiss.

2007-10-02 05:56:49 · 24 answers · asked by pussicatpuk 1

2007-10-02 05:56:48 · 20 answers · asked by killeur killeur 6

i know this is going to sound odd or maybe rude but how do i try to talk my girlfriend into having sex? i mean we have brought up the subject a few times but how do i tell her? we plan to be together as long as possible and i am worried she might only want to have sex to have children. im guessing she doesn't have much of a sex drive yet because she is a virgin. We've been together for three years. am i rushing anything or is this how i should be? how can i talk to her about us having sex? any help is very much appreciated.

2007-10-02 05:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it illegal to have sex with a female friend in a hotel in India? lets say both his/her homes are inaccessible for a while. Heard that cops raid hotels in India.

2007-10-02 05:55:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hooked up with him last week and he seemed cool but last night we did it and he had a really small dick.4 inches!!!
I told him so and he still won't talk to me today!! What do I do? I can't lie to him!!

2007-10-02 05:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it bother you that the overwhelming majority of these people with these problems don't even realize that they are the problem and that their versions of the stories are so biased, they can't even tell. Would you agree that almost all, NOT ALL, of these problems are these people's owns fault. And when a situation arises that doesn't appear to be their fault that they probably did something previously to bring about the issue they are complaining about? They don't even realize. Does bias drive you crazy? I find the reason I'm successul at all (and don't misunderstand. I am no miracle but I'm not a useless piece of **** either) is that I always look to see if a problem is my fault and look at my biases first. I think the worst thing is that the people who this applies to the most are the people who can't even imagine this applying to them!

2007-10-02 05:50:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 05:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by BeautifulRose 3

2007-10-02 05:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Rodelard 1

I am a rather dumb person. I dont mean that in a "im putting myself down" sort of way, i just am, and im ok w/ it i guess. I got ok grades in school (im 21 now), but i dont learn things that fast and i have NO common sense. if i am confronted with a problem, and i dont know the exact procedure to fix it, im screwed, 'cause the obvious answer will not come to me. i dont try to be dumb, i try really hard to be the opposite, and im really good at fooling ppl most of the time, but now i have this job where i cant hide it, i have to be smart, and not super smart, just normal smart, lol, and now im feeling like i dont fit in here... so my question is, what do i do? i need money, and a good amount of it. i cant go back to waitressing or some other minimum wage job, so what do stupid ppl do for a living?

...so dumb i cant tell when im rambling, lol, sorry!

2007-10-02 05:43:13 · 11 answers · asked by ♥jenny♥ 3

Is it the early twenties (boyish body), or early to mid 30's (a matured man body).

2007-10-02 05:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

always seem to kind of freak out and back away right around 6 weeks of seeing each other.

*background Info*
I always tell men up front that I do NOT want to be married but do want to find a good friend to go on dates with and have sex with exclusively in the bedroom. If they change their mind, just let me know so I know where we stand. Men are always cool with this until we start getting closer and generally right around six weeks *bwam* they have a million reasons not to see you anymore but none of them have the courage to say their finished with you.

2007-10-02 05:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2

Some people that became very dear to me found out that I had said some not so nice things about them over the course of our growing relationship. Now their feelings are hurt and at a very critical time when we had all just finally gotten to a good place. I know that I need to give them time, but with my love caught in the middle - I have this overwhelming desire to "fix" the problem before the Holidays. I've thought of sending flowers or something? Would any of you? Any advice on how long to wait? I truly miss the friendship we had worked so hard to acheive simply because it took so long and I got angry now and then. What would you do - have you ever been in this type of scenerio?

2007-10-02 05:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by Shannon B 1

ive been seeing this guy for a few months and told him that i had feelings for him and wanted to be bf/gf....he said that he didnt think it would work bcoz although he had feelings for me he didnt think they were strong enough...i stopped seeing him for a while but now im seeing him again...recently hes been acting all romantic...just looking at me heaps and stroking my face, always grabbing my hand and wanting to hold it, touching each finger and kissing my hand...he told me i was beautiful,...the thing is that he knows that im fine with us just having sex and nothing more ...he doesnt need to string me along pretending like he cares for me...so why is he acting like this...is he just f***ing with my head? any ideas

2007-10-02 05:38:44 · 1 answers · asked by silky_goddess 3

My boyfriend gets really stressed out and distant this time of year. He works several jobs…2 of which start back up in the fall. He is a loving boyfriend, perfect in a lot of ways but tends to be distant and wants to go out and drink a lot this time of year. I don’t know how to deal with this huge transition…I am usually feeling upset, lonely and neglected and I don’t want to treat him like that…what do I do!

2007-10-02 05:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by TueRef11 1

i really think guys did it but i prefer the girls.

2007-10-02 05:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

night every other day in bed, which has started to bother me more than my wife, who I love more than my life and not being able to satisfy her is not having a good impact on my emotions, guide me for what can I do to increase my strength and drive in that department, thanking you in anticipation

2007-10-02 05:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's like I look at the future and can't see anything worthwhile. I will just start crying at random times of the day. It's because I think my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore, which is silly, but my heart is truly broken in pieces.
I know I can't go cry by myself b/c it makes it worse, and I can't put on a happy face and go out in public.
I feel like I have no hope and no one really cares.

2007-10-02 05:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have liked this girl since i met her (i met her 2 years ago) so i tried 2 go n tell her but im 2 scared and nervous.

Today i tld my m8 2 go n tell her for me...but is it a gd?

2007-10-02 05:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what about you all? For the past few weeks I have only had one or two choose me for best answer,whice is odd for me I am on her off and on all day .any one else see going through this? I was just curious....

2007-10-02 05:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by Dew 7

I'm an 18 year old woman getting married to my 25 year old boyfriend of 2 years. Would you mind giving me a star? Thanks!
xoxoxo

2007-10-02 05:07:55 · 14 answers · asked by Manapazza 5

If you guys fought a lot? My boyfriend broke up with me because he says he was tired of fighting ...and he says we are too different . But we also love each other very much. and both of us are very sad about this break up. But to me it's not enough of a good reason to break up.

2007-10-02 05:07:18 · 26 answers · asked by Talk Talk 5

Been seeing someone for a while, not that long really. I got to know him through my firend (it's her brother) and he is 23. I am 35 will 3 older children. We went on some really nice dates but after the last one he bombarded me with texts teliing me he loved me etc etc. It all seems a bit quick and I could understand if I had known him for ages before dating but I didn't. He is acting really clingy and calling all day when I am at college even though my phone is off. He says he wouldn't know what to do without me and things that I might only say after seeing someone for a long time. He calls every evening now before I go to bed even if I have seen him in the evening. We end up on the phone for ages and I can't get away. This is doing my head in and I'm tired for college in the morning. I tried telling him but he went a bit funny with me for a bit then it's gone back to this. I seriously cannot deal with this in a long term relationship, it's a bit like having another kid! What do I do?

2007-10-02 05:05:08 · 32 answers · asked by Michele 3

All I wanted to do was to tell her that I have a
girlfriend so that she would leave me alone. But
I got in trouble and my girlfriend doesn't believe
that's all I did over there. What should I do to
get out of the situation?

2007-10-02 05:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by John 1

I'm been with him for 7 monthes, and he told me he doesn't love me anymore last night. It broke my heart, but we're still together. What should I do?

2007-10-02 05:00:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex said he loved me but he use me for for sex food etc

2007-10-02 04:56:46 · 14 answers · asked by sexytoni47 1

My boyfriend's Ex always seems to end up at his place when I leave. HE said nothing is going on . I told her to stop coming over but she wont. It makes me really uncomfordable for then to be together alone. What should I do about this????

2007-10-02 04:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by Little Scared 1

I'm 19 years old, and I have been friends with this girl who I like A LOT but she just likes me as a friend. I'm not bad looking, but she and I have a lot of different opinions about things. Another thing that I think is ruining my chances is that she views me as a Really quiet nice guy. She said today that I was way too shy and she dosen't like shy people because she likes to have feedback on what she says. It bugs me because she has seen my crazy fun talkative side and yet she still thinks I'm too shy and she makes me feel like I'm boring because of this. Whenever I am outgoing I don't think she takes me seriously because she might think I'm trying to impress her. How can I go about being the fun crazy guy that I am without being annoying? I really like this girl and we have been friends for about a year and we have a lot good crazy memories. Serious answers only please

thanks

2007-10-02 04:50:32 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2

Have you ever hesitated to do something and then when you tryed to do it. Something that is out of your control prevents you from getting it done. What does that mean? Is that God's way of talking to us. Is he trying to keep us from doing something for our own good? Is it not the right time?

2007-10-02 04:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous