Singles & Dating - 2 October 2007

I don't have a question so much as need a little advice.
I have an amazing boyfriend, the healthiest relationship I've been in. Unfortunately, I have a small problem with him. My old boyfriends, being the guys they are, looked at porn when they needed a release and there is nothing wrong with that, it's human nature. However, new guy does it a LOT more frequently. It upsets me that he has to constantly look, even when I'm sitting right beside him and he's on the internet he will go to "hot naked girl" links and drool over himself. Of course, I look too.. but not like that. And to think that's what he does when I'm not around too hurts my feelings. Maybe I'm blowing things out of proportion and it's stupid for me to be upset, maybe I should TRY to get over it, maybe this means I'm not ready for another relationship or maybe he is really taking it too far.... I just don't know.... =[

2007-10-02 07:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I choose to follow you around so that I know what you are doing, then it's best for me. I wounder how many std's your partner gave you because you ain't want to seem "Crazy". But I wasn't bout to be no victim of a bad case of stds because i didn't know if he was cheating. Condoms don't always work. Now I know, and I think everybody else should know. his fam won't think I'm crazy, because they think he cheating too. Now, hopefully, you don't run into him or the stink hoochie he was with. (neva know who she was with)........It goes on and on.........

2007-10-02 07:21:56 · 19 answers · asked by Paradise 2

I've never met her before, but she is very cute and that is my only motivation for talking to her. Is this right?

2007-10-02 07:21:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a time saving option?...would you actually do it? what would be key factors in a video dating website that would make you consider joining?

2007-10-02 07:19:10 · 1 answers · asked by nonphysical 3

when a guy has abs i see it as a turn off unless they are in an organised sport of some sort...i can just picture them at the gym sayin 2 themselves in their head 'cmon johnny one more yer ur lukin good' while glancing at the mirror after every sit-up nobody NEEDS abs you can be healthy without them ..abs are something u acheive with hard work. i also like chest hair.. it separates the boys from the men..i like 2 date guys that look like theyve finished goin through puberty. whenever i tell people this they think im crazy any thoughts? thanks

2007-10-02 07:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you & your boyfriend are alone in the house and things stat to heat up do you let him start to heat things up or do you start on him?

I usually don't make the first move because after we get done doing stuff, I feel like a s**t or something (he does not make me feel like a s**t at all) maybe I get this feeling because normally people think i'm a "good girl".

We love each other & he treats me great! We know what we are doing..

Guys probably dont have a problem with it but with girls we think a bit differently.

but does anyone else ever get a feeling like that?

2007-10-02 07:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a kinda shy, inexperienced guy finds out you like him, will he look at your Facebook and MySpace page alot to find out things about you?

2007-10-02 07:00:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are already so busy with everything else and we dont want a hard job, so what should I do?

2007-10-02 06:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2

I know that my boyfriend is cheating, I saw him. BUT. I want to wait until his entire family is around to reveal the news. See I'm my own private eye, and I tend to follow and take pics. That's exactly what I did, see when i come at you, I want to come with the facts, and documents, always good. Do you think I'm wrong for wanting to do this in front of his moms and them?

2007-10-02 06:49:21 · 32 answers · asked by Paradise 2

If you love a woman you should love her fully, body and soul. Why would such a thing as her menstrual cycle disgust you? Some boyfriends don't even touch their girlfriends during those days. I think some guys should grow up. Periods are part of being a woman and if you love woman then love them whole without any disgust. Why do most guys find a woman's period disgusting?

To me it's just ... a NATURAL monthly cycle. I would still have sex with her, yet messy. But woman are beautiful. Everything about them. Even when they're in their cycle, it doesn't make them less beautiful. If anything, it makes them more beautiful because you have to take care of them during this time, their emotions, pains, etc.

But some guys act as if it is the MOST disgusting thing in the entire world as if she has a FATAL disease.

2007-10-02 06:45:57 · 15 answers · asked by Mark_Magnetic 1

i went to a party and i met a girl and we started talking and i got 2 know each other and we were so drunk that we didnt know what we were doing and we had a good time in the bed it was the best thing ever but the thing that suks is that i got her pregnet.

2007-10-02 06:43:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, a girl whom I'm still strongly in love with informed me that our relationship would not work out because she "loves me like she would an older brother."

How does a guy get a girl to love him as a man and not as a sibling? I really love this girl and want to mean more to her than merely her older brother. HELP!

2007-10-02 06:40:19 · 4 answers · asked by Skimblekitty 1

we used a condom but it tore i need help im 18 and not ready to be a father

2007-10-02 06:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my younger sister is 15 but very mature for her age, she is not the slutty kind so she wouldnt sleep with him unless they were in a serious commited relationship for over 6 months. she turns 16 in january. i am told this guy is very sweet and caring. my sister tells me the guys her age are immature and are up 2 no good. is he too old?

2007-10-02 06:38:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 06:34:22 · 13 answers · asked by peyton 1

well me and my b/f have been together for a while and the other day we went shopping and I went to the restroom, and when I came back my b/f was looking at different rings! Do you think he was looking at a possible promise ring for me or what?

2007-10-02 06:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy chick 2

For example,
Which date should the couple kiss (first, second, etc...)?
Making out?
Having sex?
Talking about their "future"?

Yes, I know it really depends on the couple and the individuals involved.
I want to know how far YOU would go (if you were with someone you liked).

2007-10-02 06:23:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

now he has to wait to see if they will call him back...if they do then he has to take finger prints and drug test..i told him to drink like 5 gallons of water to clean out his system..because of the weed..but he told me thathe has been doing that and he is not stressing himself and what ever happens happen...well you know what why should i care when obiviosusly he take these things so lightly..i have done all i could to get him to this point,...my sister interviewed him i did his resume..and all he can tell me is whatever happens happens..well screw you...

2007-10-02 06:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My company doesn’t have a policy against inner office dating, which is great because I’ve been wanting to ask out the CEO’s personal assistant for the longest time. Well, we finally went on our first date this weekend, but both of us drank WAY more than we should have and as a result we ended up sleeping together. I felt really bad about it since it was our first date and didn’t feel comfortable staying the night, so I lied and told her I had an early morning meeting. She looked really pissed, but then she also gave me this look like “you’re an idiot!” Now, I can understand her being pissed, but why would she look at me like I’m an idiot?

2007-10-02 06:21:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 06:20:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like hanging out w/ my female friends. they make me laugh and I met them in college. I'm in my late 20's and I am virgin, all of them are not and single. I'm not overly religious but I am somewhat and I do beleive in God -- main reason is, I have not found right man yet, I am trying to wait for marriage, I want it to be special for us (if that doesn't sound silly) anyway, they all put me down when in the group they make me feel bad by saying how great their sex life is, how good man's penis is, say I am missing out, etc. i feel i can't contribute to conversation sometime. they also get alot of dates b/c I think males can tell they are not sleazy but not virgins.... i feel left out. and they say "have sex" then i can understand. also one tells me that no man will marry virgin at this age group b/c it will freak them out and they will not want the pressure. what to do? I feel bad about this, but I'm not going to become a sl*tbag to fit in. serious answer only...thank you.

2007-10-02 06:17:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been giving brochures to her friends to pass on to her, because I think she could use the surgery.

Is there a way to tell her that she's not physically good enough for me without upsetting her?

2007-10-02 06:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

... my boyfriend and a few of our friends were sitting around having some drinks.. just having a chill low key night. after a while we went to bed and my boyfriend (of almost a year) and who was pretty drunk ...looked me right in my eyes and said "i love you ..you're the one.. will you marry me". It didnt click at first and i said "what?" and he said "nothing" kissed me and went to sleep. I know that people say the truth comes out when you're drunk but thats an extreme thing to say. I just wanted a little feed back on what he may have been thinking or was it just an empty drunken rambling. thanks..

2007-10-02 06:16:46 · 26 answers · asked by jace 1

How can you tell
if you've never spoken
Just looked and smiled at each other??

xxxxxxxxx

2007-10-02 06:12:01 · 16 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4

She wants to erase all my #'s out my phone because she dont like my friends well she have good reason they all do drugs and i use to also. She wants to do my message on my answering machine, and she wants to keep my phone one full day. I dont think this is fair. What do you think.?

2007-10-02 06:11:03 · 29 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1

trying, i have never met anyone that has truly loved me, sometimes feel like there's no point, i gave up some time ago? is that normal. like i just haven't the heart to try

2007-10-02 06:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1

if the person of your dreams turned up .

2007-10-02 06:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 06:08:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My current boyfriend now just turned 20 in sept. and I at 16 is turning 17. Do you think Parents should know if I am dating a much older Guy? Is it true that age really dont matter in some cases? Is it or can it be a healthy relationship?

More Details:
My current boyfriend is yea, 20 !!! well, he is very honest with me when and if I ask questions about anything and everything. I heard some rumor about him having a kid, so I asked him, and he told me yes he May have, but his ex from yrs. ago wont have a DNA test done on the kid to find out if it is his or not, he has tried many times to give her money to take care of the child, just in case it is his, but she does refuz to let him do anything...I'm so happy he was honest with me abt it, and I honor him for that....It doesnt bother me either that he might have a kid.but I need to know is it healthy 2 be in this kind of relationship with a older guy like this....Weve been togather 3 months.

2007-10-02 06:06:32 · 22 answers · asked by kayla9825 2

aite, i knw ppl here r frm different level of ages.. so som ppl cant read or cant understand wat i write.. i mean i use short forms n stuffs.. dat hw we do huh.. then even say mi dat i shld bak n learn english lol.. ppl who r 25 and below.. can understand wat i write?? goshh help dat!

2007-10-02 06:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by desperategirl 1