When you & your boyfriend are alone in the house and things stat to heat up do you let him start to heat things up or do you start on him?
I usually don't make the first move because after we get done doing stuff, I feel like a s**t or something (he does not make me feel like a s**t at all) maybe I get this feeling because normally people think i'm a "good girl".
We love each other & he treats me great! We know what we are doing..
Guys probably dont have a problem with it but with girls we think a bit differently.
but does anyone else ever get a feeling like that?
2007-10-02 07:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone thinks im a good girl, but they dont know me very well, and i sometimes feel that way 2...
I know what is happening, but it just feels right and if you love him like i love my bf then it is right
2007-10-02 07:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by kayla9825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its good to take turns. Don't say it out loud, but keep a mental note. If he makes the first move two times in a row. Now the the third time is your turn. Guys like me like it when the girl, if we've been together for a year or two just starts to "Whip it Out" sometimes, maybe even while he's driving and get a little freaky. It gets to become a chore for him if you never initiate the sex.
2007-10-02 14:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I see what you mean. I used to feel like that, but then I learned that my boyfriend liked when I initiated sometimes.
I guess no one wants to feel like that they're the the only reason things get heated :). I don't think it has anything to do with being a "good girl". And besides, what goes on between you and your boyfriend is your busniess so who cares what everyone else thinks!
Think of it this way -- if you initiate things then you have more control. And by control, I mean you can be creative. :)
xoxo.*
2007-10-02 14:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Deeautiful.* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I am the one to make the first move, however, I was not as bold with boyfriends in my past.
I am going to guess you are in your very early 20's. When I was that age, I had the "good girl complex" too. I'll be 40 in just a couple of weeks, and have since gotten over it.
2007-10-02 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like when he starts because that's a huge turn on for me .. i like a guy that can take a challenge & drive .. but also i like to start too because it's not good if the same person starts it everytime .. it will start to get very boring .. so basically both the girl and guy should take turns .. whatever happens happens .. whoever starts first starts first .. unless you wanna put a twist on it .. have him start but then turn the tables and get his attention .. steal the spot light from him :) ..
works everytime
2007-10-02 14:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bella Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We vary it, Sometimes I make the first move, sometimes he does.
We both know that I'm not a slut (people at school I 'm really innocent too), so he likes it if I make a move on him.
But he also doesn't mind if I stop him.
Hope this helps!
2007-10-02 14:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Suite-Pee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the sme feeling the frist time, i felt wierd every one says they could not see me doing it but they said i was still fine it dont make me a slut cuz i have been with my bf 4 6 months when we started
2007-10-02 14:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like a s**t he is your boyfriend you can do whatever you want with him.
2007-10-02 14:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa (rox my sox) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I agree don't feel like a s***.
His your boyfriend after all.
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2007-10-02 14:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by freako03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋