when a guy has abs i see it as a turn off unless they are in an organised sport of some sort...i can just picture them at the gym sayin 2 themselves in their head 'cmon johnny one more yer ur lukin good' while glancing at the mirror after every sit-up nobody NEEDS abs you can be healthy without them ..abs are something u acheive with hard work. i also like chest hair.. it separates the boys from the men..i like 2 date guys that look like theyve finished goin through puberty. whenever i tell people this they think im crazy any thoughts? thanks
2007-10-02 07:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I know EXACTLY what you mean.
I like a proper man, one that isn't overly obsessed by their appearance (which is strange becaise my bf spends more time on his hair than I do).
I also like skinny guys. Don't know why. Maybe it's cos they look more vunerable.
And chest hair is lush. Proper men have chest hair.
2007-10-02 07:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Suite-Pee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, abs aren't entirely a vanity muscle. That dubious distinction can be more aptly applied to the bicep. Well conditioned abdominals protect the lower back (by balancing the torso from front to back) and provides core stabilization that facilitates nearly every other mobile function the body performs. In truth, you really aren't healthy without them...some other part of the body will suffer as a result of unbalanced exertion.
2007-10-02 14:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with abs. There are sexy as long as the guy doesn't take his shirt off and go on the mirror twitching his chest and thinking it's all about him. I love to work out and yes it's hard work. As long as he takes care or himself and feels good about himself, abs or not I don't have a problem with that. Excessive body builiding muscle in the legs/thighs and hands/biceps yes can be a turn off for me but abs, broad shoulders and a strong chest are actually sexy come to think of it.
2007-10-02 14:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by fine00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you're probably the only one. There's nothing wrong with sculpting your body. It's your temple, after all. Just like you cut your lawn and trim your bushes, crunch those abs! Not saying you have to look like a body builder, but taking care of your health and body is a definite plus. And a man with nice abs, biceps, and calves is supersexy.
2007-10-02 14:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not crazy for disliking the apearance of abs. That's your opinion. I think abs look nice on guys.
2007-10-02 14:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous? Seems to me, you are not content with your figure. If you are confident about your self, you'll accept that the person with the abs are confident about themselves as well. I think that they are nice. But even if my boyfriend didn't have them I would still find him to be attractive. But he does and he enjoys a soft hand on them. They think they are macho with them, then that is fine. Accept them as something that person has achieved and love them for who they are/
2007-10-02 14:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find too many mucles a turn off. I want a guy I can cuddle with, not get smashed by.
2007-10-02 14:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
abs are sexy but to much muscles are not but man if they look cut damn man abs are sexy chest hair can be but i don't want a man with flab and a really hairy chest like hair around a mans nipples is NOT sexy at all
OMG..............your a freak
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry different people like different things:)
2007-10-02 14:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by keket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I prefer the lanky guy.
2007-10-02 14:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everyone has there own prefrence, and that is yours. nothing wrong with that at all. no need to explain yourself to anyone.
2007-10-02 14:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by lbrady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋