I don't have a question so much as need a little advice.
I have an amazing boyfriend, the healthiest relationship I've been in. Unfortunately, I have a small problem with him. My old boyfriends, being the guys they are, looked at porn when they needed a release and there is nothing wrong with that, it's human nature. However, new guy does it a LOT more frequently. It upsets me that he has to constantly look, even when I'm sitting right beside him and he's on the internet he will go to "hot naked girl" links and drool over himself. Of course, I look too.. but not like that. And to think that's what he does when I'm not around too hurts my feelings. Maybe I'm blowing things out of proportion and it's stupid for me to be upset, maybe I should TRY to get over it, maybe this means I'm not ready for another relationship or maybe he is really taking it too far.... I just don't know.... =[
2007-10-02 07:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, if he looks at porn even when you are around just imagine when you are not. i feeel sorry for you, when you too are together he should focus on you and not wanting to see othe naked girls. if it doesnt bother you then stay with him, but if it does then obviously you are not ready to be in a relationship wiht him, and should leave before its too late and the arguing begins.
2007-10-02 07:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by cs2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hairfry, Sweety you will get many opposing awnsers. But the God honest truth is,you are okay but you need to move on ! I am a 47 year old man who loves women and men do not need porn ! That is a sin problem. You just need to find a gentleman who loves Jesus and makes you the only object of his affection !
2007-10-02 07:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is not good to look at any time because that means that he is probably longing for other girls. And if he does it a lot break it off because it will get out of hand.
2007-10-02 07:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Beach Babe 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is not healthy for relationships. Brings unrealistic expectations, low self esteem and trust issues. But ir sounds like you already know that. With that being said, do you really think that your relationship is all that healthy?
2007-10-02 07:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him not to look at porn when you are around because it makes you feel uneasy, and also insecure about yourself and that you want to be the only object of his desire when you are with each other.
2007-10-02 07:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by q&a99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋