what do men find attractive in women? both inside and out?

Answer 1

I'd rather go for a lady's character first. Some girls may look hot on the outside, but they'll have attitude problem once you get to know them longer. Furthermore, a person's character doesn't change, unlike his or her features over the years, so I would say that I find women attractive on the inside. Looks aren't everything in my opinion.

Answer 2

I think that there are men out there who are attracted to women who are both intellectual and attractive. I know what you're saying, though. But I think that there are some women that are attracted to men who are both intellectual and attractive. Personally, if I met an intellectual man, I am not saying that I would automatically think that he was attractive, but I can see how even if they arent attractive to others, they might be to some. We all want the whole enchilada, and what I think is when we do meet that special someone (the right one) he/she does have all the qualities you were looking for. Everyone is different and some people are more superficial while others can overlook physical flaws and the person themselves becomes interesting to them. I would like to think of myself as a non-superficial person when it comes to finding the right partner. I am not all that beautiful on the outside, but I know that I am a great person and I would like to be with a guy that has those good qualities, rather than the looks.

Answer 3

Obviously a good looking girl will attract men--ie. nice butt, good body, pretty face, in shape, etc. In regards to the inside where it really matters, it depends on what the guy's personality. Many personality types don't mix and sometimes a person will seek out a personality that he or she isn't because of what they are themselves. For example a quiet guy may want a popular girl because he isn't popular. Most importantly, there has to be good communication between the two. Must have common interests to talk about and get along well.

Just be yourself and someone will take a liking to it.

Answer 4

This is easy to answer for me. While you like to have mutual physical attraction as in "wow she's hot" it is not the only thing. The most important thing is personality. Lets face it if you are going to be with this person for a long time and "she's the one" you best be able to get along with her. For the long haul.

Give me a girl who can laugh, has a sense of humor, and knows about current evets etc. wow thats a winner..Take this same girl, and throw in a like of sports, that is a keeper. Looks are on the list but not at the top.

Answer 5

I think the most attractive, non-physical feature is kindness. Nice women are best. No one wants a bi-tch for more than an hour or so. Eyes extrernally are my favorite, but appropriate proportions help. Not too heavy, not very thin. Having boobs does help, but no one likes them if they are circus freak big. Its all about proportions.

Answer 6

i think men like women who take pride in themselves, reguardless of weight, looks etc. they like it when a girl puts effort into looking the best they can with what god gave them. as far as the inside... most guys i know like girls that are down to earth. you can still do girl stuff, but be okay with playing Grand Theft Auto, or going for a ride on the 4 wheeler.

Answer 7

Loving + caring + kind + demure = both inward and outward beauty

Answer 8

remember not all r attractive...
So specific ones r attractive 4 specific reasons

Answer 9

I like a girl who is NOT STUCK UP...down to earth beautiful,"that doesnt mean "Britany Spears", but beautiful, and confident they are, Kind hearted, mature, smart, sexy, and great in bed.........forget the boobs, girls say size dont matter.....well it doesnt realy matter to guys either, believe it or not

Answer 10

Well, inside is all blood, guts, organs, nerves, cells, etc.

Outside, is skin and hair.

What do you find attractive about that?