I hooked up with him last week and he seemed cool but last night we did it and he had a really small dick.4 inches!!!
I told him so and he still won't talk to me today!! What do I do? I can't lie to him!!
2007-10-02 05:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait on it, he still needs time to recover, because it was probably a Ego Blow
2007-10-02 05:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by mya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scotter sounds like you may have bruised his ego or hit a sore spot as I'm sure that he is already aware of his lack of endowment. If you two are really close and he has other good qualities then you might want to let him know these so as to help build him back up. But if size is that important to you then I suppose it is time to kick him to the curb. If not then realize that the size of a man's package doesn't make the man and that iover time you may actaully come to appreciate it and find different ways to please each other. Regardless it sounds like you both need to have a good mature and open minded discussion. Best of luck to both of you.
2007-10-02 06:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning to pursue a relationship? Or are you looking for a fornicating partner?(Excuse my bluntness please! No offence meant)
If the goal is relationship, would the size matter? I am sure, what was 4" grew to some extent too!
I hope the act of making love was satisfactory to both of you! If it was not, then it is a different matter!
If the goal was a casual short-term kind of affair, I am sure, you are already looking elsewhere!
In either case, good luck and have fun!!
2007-10-02 05:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am not surprised he isnt talking to you! You need to decide if you can carry on seeing this guy if his size isnt enough for you. you cant make his life a misery by commenting each time you have sex, so you need to make a decision soon. If you do split up with the guy, dont humiliate him by telling him its the size of his manhood thats causing you to leave him, think up something else which wouldnt destroy him completely.
2007-10-06 05:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow You definitely should of never came out and said it like that. If it was a problem then maybe you should of broken up with him and not tell him that reason. Guys are real sensitive about things like that and you just crushed his confidence. If you don't like him like that and don't really care to be with him then don't sweat it. But if you still want to be with him and like/love him then that was a real bad idea. Its gonna be hell trying to get him to forgive you.
2007-10-02 06:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by ILoveuCJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot more to a guy than the size of his penis. If that is all you are worried about, then ask the men what their size are before going out with them.
2007-10-02 05:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Settelbanat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems like U have a problem with it and he needs to know this . If U don, t , then What's the problem ?
2007-10-02 05:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are rude and insensitive. If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Why hurt the guy when he can't do anything about it!!!??? Leave him alone. How can you insult his manhood and still expect him to want to be with/talk to you???
2007-10-02 06:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Deonna R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't have a problem with girls likeing mine.but you can probably can... i don't know hope it grows i guess. it ain't like you can make it grow any faster. but ask him if he jacks-off.that might be the problem. you have to excersie your muscles or lose it. " USE IT OR LOSE".
2007-10-02 06:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by mixed_brother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Scooter, I think you've burned this bridge. Move on.
2007-10-02 05:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Rockwell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋