I'm been with him for 7 monthes, and he told me he doesn't love me anymore last night. It broke my heart, but we're still together. What should I do?
2007-10-02 05:00:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
2007-10-02 05:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is my advice: you should avoid speaking, seeing or talking about the person for the same amount of time as the relationship lasted. After that time span they'll just be another obscure character from your past, and the reasons why will be so unimportant compared to what's been going on in your life over seven months time. You will be tempted to ask them why they fell out of love with you but I'm seriouse when i say NO CONTACT at all. . And Never Ever Go Back To That Person No Matter If They Beg And Plead.
This worked for me when i had a break up. And It also worked for J.Lo.
If you live with this guy then this won't work at all. Sorry.
2007-10-02 12:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by abasylph2007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be prepared to deal with deep emotional pain. Move on. There's nothing you can do to make someone love you. But don't keep tabs on him. That will only make it worse. You need to cut this person out completely and not look back. Don't try for the " We can be friends" crap. That does not work on any level. I'm sorry you are feeling so down and abandoned.
2007-10-02 12:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to let him go. Its not going to work if he doesnt love you and you do. Maybe he doesnt know he does and when he sees that your not there he might realize he actually loves you. But he is going to stay cuz he knows you love him and youll be there if anything happens or cuz he knows youll give him something somebody else wont. I wont stay with somebody that would straight tell me he doesnt love me because whats the point!! If its meant for you to be together then you guys would go back and be happy. Good Luck!
2007-10-02 12:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by chikita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well in my case i would tell him to F*** off and i will stop lovin such a rude n mean dude...any way just u know to beg him , don't undrestand y u guys have to be together but all in all u just u know today when he called u or u called him just go like see...sweety i know that u don't love me u have the right to say that coz u know i have been cheatin on u all this 7months ....
1: u will see hes reaction and u will make sure wether he loves u or not
2: if he doesn't love u that's ok but u told him that if u have been lyn to me for 7 moths , u slept with me, we shared some feelings but I HAVE BEEN CHEATING ON U( don't say this to him) but just tell him yeah u have the right to say that coz i have been cheating ...
and then see the reaciton and just MOVE ON if it is not possitive
2007-10-02 12:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he is still with you after telling you that he doesn't love you? well, I think he may have the same problem I did. I thought I didn't love my gf that much, but I felt bad to lose her, so I was still with her. turned out I love her more than I knew, now we are together for 5 years.
2007-10-02 12:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would thank the person that is honest with me... 'cause i prefer to have a broken heart some weeks... than be cheated for many years with someone that seem to love me but... its just a fake...
hope i helped you!
God bless u!
2007-10-02 12:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jocfer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What could you do?.......You MUST to keep your distance from him for awhile.....at least until you can face him again without feeling any resentment or hurt. If you keep hanging around him, You'll eventually see him with other girls...you'll feel hate & jealousy, you will undoubtedly head straight for a depression. DO NOT do this to yourself. Walk away with your head held high. That's the best advise I can give to you.
Good Luck
2007-10-02 12:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is very subjective.Never forced people to love you and never pretend people love you.If he not meant for you ,it is fated.Feeling can change in a split second or develop in split second.It is better now then you getting married with him and he divorce you and you have kids upon that time.Life is a journey.Your happiness will came one day.Good luck.
2007-10-02 12:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by sharna _cutiesweetie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesnt love you then leave him.
He probaby just wants what you get with a relationship, such as someone whos there for you or someone to kiss.
Hes using you right now, so get in there first and leave him.
Hes not worth it when theres guys out there that will return your feelings.
2007-10-02 12:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what i did with my last bf you love him with all your heart and nothing will ever change that. but sometimes its better to let them go i was with this guy for 2 years and we broke up because he didnt love me anymore and for some other reason he wont tell me but it is sometimes better just to let them go.
2007-10-02 12:04:04 · answer #11 · answered by paula 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋