Other - Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

2007-08-22 13:20:10 · 1 answers · asked by michelledietrichot 1

I know this girl & I told her I like her, & lately shes been emailing me, talking 2 me more often...even when shes tired shes still willing to talk, she'll ask me how my day is, she says she misses me from to time & it seems like she likes me as well, anyhow, for some reason if i compliment her and say she looks pretty or her hair is soo nice, I also tell her that she has soo much potential and I don't want her limiting herself as just another pretty face because she has so much more to offer to herself especially. Now she says I'm lying :-s like wtf or she thinks that shes not pretty enough :-s & for some reason shes been getting moody around me lately to, and I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING!, so does she like, whats her problem and does it seem like she has low self esteem?

2007-08-22 13:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 3 kids from this guy that i was with for 16yrs we never got married. so i put him in prison for hitting me & doing drugs and soon he'll be out. I finally moved on with my life found a very very good man I also moved in with him he's the best!!! but the problem is that what about visit's for the father? i really do want my kids to see their dad for weekends I'm cool with that but i dont want to see or speak to their dad at all so whats the best thing that i can do to avoid seeing or speaking to him? I know that i can be cool with him but now since i have a new bf and i also moved in with him and 2 of my kids i'm scared that my ex will put me down in front of my childern when i leave them with him. but then on the other hand my kids do need their dad. they love my new bf to death and are very happy for me alot but thats not their dad, they already have one, is their anyone that could tell me what's the best thing to do? because i know we both need to be friends for our 3 kids.

2007-08-22 12:41:40 · 13 answers · asked by valrietorres 2

A little girl wrote this about her mum, which was very moving


Prayer

Dear Jesus

I heard daddy crying
He did not know
I was there

But I was
He was kneeling down
Like I am now
I heard him talking
To you

He asked you
If you could give him
Another chance

I think he wants you
To bring back
My Mummy

But I am not sure
If you heard him
Because
He was crying

That is why
I am at this grave
To pray as well
And see if she does
Come back

If you cannot
Hear me
I will wipe my eyes
Blow my nose
And speak clearly

And cry tomorrow
Instead

2007-08-22 12:05:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dave H 1

ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating off and on 4 almost 5 months.I really love him and a few weeks ago i found out from one of my friends that his dad died.He doesnt want me to know though why is this?

2007-08-22 11:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by broken</3 3

at the party i seemed down/sad and it looked my sec. cousin might of wanted to cheer me up (hugging, telling me to stay at a certain spot0 but my other cousins didnt give a crap (their older than him, theyre 30, 26, and 30)but my mom didnt care and critized me very meanly and i cried. why?
keep in note her own mom kinda abadoned her and her grandma (rip) was left to take care of her.
my dad was not present at the party i was moody at the party not sad!

2007-08-22 11:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1

She said something to me. I froze up and said something dumb, I couldnt even look her in the eye when i said it. So I think she might of though i was ignoring her. (I did blush though when she asked me the ?). After that the whole day i would catch her looking at me and she would turn away fast. What do you guys think she thinks of my nervous breakdown when she asked me the ? Does she get the idea i like her or is she upset with me

18 we both know each other but not well

What should I do next time I see her

2007-08-22 11:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hiya everyone =]
Well I'm a 16 year old girl and from N.Ireland :]
I have no self confidence and don't like the way I look.
I mean no wonder I haven't had a boyfriend before.
I am so so shy and I can't help this so yeah this doesn't help my social life either, and I feel like a loser.
I just wanna be happy altogether.
I feel like hardly anyone likes me =[
Well I dunno but maybe part of my low self confidence and being insecure is because of my family. I don't get to see my dad that much and I miss him and well it's hard to explain.
So yeah does anyone have any advice on how to overcome shyness, or just have self confidence.
I don't know why I'm feeling so down, i've been crying (yeah i know sad lol)
Well if you could leave some comments I wouldn't mind and I'd appreciate it.
Sorrry if I depress you guys.
:]

2007-08-22 11:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's a normal sex life while in your early twenties? I'm in a relationship with a guy, and I have no idea what a normal relationship is or a normal/healthy sex life is. I would really like some input. Sometimes I feel like our relationship is crappy and that it lacks (I can't pinput where, but it just isn't that much of a fulfilling relationship to me) somewhere. We seem to connect more sexually then anything. Don't get me wrong though, my boyfriend is extremely nice, respectful, and caring, it's just that I don't think our relationship is going to last long. We have a lot of sex, which is great and all, but I feel like I want more..? Help Please, I'm confused. What should I want? What's a normal relationship at 22yrsold? A lot of the time I feel like I want to get married, not to my current b/f, but I want to settle down soon. And I'm just fighting the urge because I haven't found someone who I TRULY connect with yet. Thanks for any input.

2007-08-22 10:21:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father just passed away on aug 1.2007,and my son had a dream of him the other day. and my son is 9,and my son could not make this up because he would never in a million years say what my dad said to him. so i actually think my dad spoke to him,that being said he told him something that when my son told us we would believe he told him from the other side,and if he said granpa said to me in a dream he misses us that would be like oh thats nice son but he didnt get that,my dad told him" tommy do you know the pictures of jesus,well he doesnt look like that at all"... i found this very comforting and i was amazing and still heart felt by it,and do you agree that my son could not have made this up and do you believe? if you dont i hope that this may inspire 1 person to believe in jesus and to believe that there is life after death,i have other awesome stories about angels leaving dimes too and it didnt happen until someone told me it and i have over 10 dimes from dad,no pen,nicks,or qua

2007-08-22 10:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by wwe 1

My ex broke up with me years ago got with another girl and had a son after that relationship he tried to get back with me I told him we could be friends and see what happens one day while i was out with my gay male friend we ran into him so I introduced them and we went on about our way then I went to see a him a couple months later at a restaurant where my ex and some other people I know work and they all came running to me stateing he was gay I didnt believe them about three weeks after that my gay male friend called me and told me that they were having sex but he was still with his long term boyfriend the one before my ex. I ran into my ex again and I didnt know what to say so I avoided him all together, how am I to feel, was he gay all along?????

2007-08-22 10:10:17 · 19 answers · asked by Liz 2

What does a person do when their BF doesn't want to get married and the other does? This is what is happening with me and well, I have no idea what to do really. Someone help me out?

2007-08-22 10:07:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

depressed, self hatred, etc. It due from me can't get to jobs to put in application/fax resume because it not on the bus line. I leave in low income area. My gas is turn offf, I'm about to let my home phone go. I have reduced of income coming in. I was thinking about leaving town where there are jobs. I have already done some researching like what the jobs has the most openings/demand, crime area, etc. The only thing I would have to live in a shelter. I want to get out of my neighborhood. Lots of people drink, beg, use drugs. I don't want to raise my children in this area. I'm waiting on info. from agecies & personal contacts in the new area before I make any decision. It jobs here where I am at but the jobs are not accessible by public transportation. I would like to know what should I do. I pose to working with job agency where I'm current living but not approve yet. I don't think I can wait. I do get utility check it not enough to pay the bills/survive off on. Any advice/suggestions

2007-08-22 09:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by tasha 2

if my father had an expartay order agianst an 18 year old boy for me not him but i love this boy just to say does that mean he cant talk to me????

2007-08-22 09:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 09:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by : 6

My mother says i am stupid. i graduated with high honors from college. She says i am fat so i tried bringing back everything i ate till i weighed 140 lbs. Nothing works she is just ashamed of me.

2007-08-22 09:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by henrychad 1

im 15 years old mother passed currently staying in a foster home...i live in tx i am trying to go by my aunt in chicago..but they said in chicago they have to go threw so much like she has to become a foster parent which takes up 2 a year personaly i really dont want to stay here for a year.i feel i am wasteing my teenage years and it hurts i just want to be by my family.can someone please help me....anyone have some kind of information...and if this help she said shes willing to adopt me

2007-08-22 09:36:16 · 1 answers · asked by skippy_hippy1 1

My fiancee and I used to be together as much as possible but after a recent fight he has been going out with his friends which includes women. He has been coming home past 10pm for two weeks not everyday but enough to bother me. When I ask to join him he says no he will be home soon. but like I said he gets home after 10 even though i call to join him @7. I dont think this should bother me cause we all need our own lives and time but it just happened so suddenly that I cant help feeling sad almost like my relationship is over. He comes home to me everynight but I still feel neglected. Is it just me being co dependent? Does anyone have a fiancee that stays out late on a regular basis? Do they have opposite sex friends? if so how do you handle it?

2007-08-22 09:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Eia 2

Me and my boyfriend dated for 8 months then he cheated, I broke up with him. He begged and begged me to take him back. I would'nt do it. No way no how. Well 10 months later I said yes, (damn candle light, and moon and stars!) We've been together for a month, the guy he was working said he didnt want his company anymore so my boyfriend and 5 other guys got booted. Well now my boyfriend has a new job and its in Panama City(let that speak for itself). When he didnt have a job I knew what he was doing and where he was because when I wasnt working we was on the phone together or he was at my house, now I cant talk to him till he gets off work and I wont get to see him much because he will be working 10 hours a day, and I dont know what he is doing or doing it with. And he likes to check out girls a little to much. He says he is in love with me and wants to be with me and that he wont cheat, but I'm afraid hes gonna cheat again. So should I trust him and let it go or should I being to worry

2007-08-22 09:23:56 · 28 answers · asked by florida girl 1

My girl looks at other guys all the time everywhere we go. We are having a baby in 8 months. It didn't bother me in the begining, now that i'm seeing how often she does this it bothers me to the point of braking up with her. I've talk to her about this, and she says she will stop. But, she keeps doing it and makes up off the wall excuses why she does it. We have been together 6 months.

2007-08-22 09:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by ginuwine_32254 1

Tell me please the reason so many young teenagers etc, take stupid drugs such as herowin, speed, and so on.? I dont under stand why they need to be out of controll of their own brain and body. why are so many very young girls having babies? Life is for living not for flushing down the loo.

2007-08-22 09:16:02 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I, we've been really good friends for 2 years now. I like him alot, but he doesn't know. I could kinda tell he liked me (but I don't wanna be so sure). Then, my parents broke it to me that we were gonna move in December or so. I told him about it, and after that, we just seemed to drift apart, but we still spoke and stuff. Now, his other friend (a girl), who he has known for many years, has gone out of the country for a vacation. After that, he stopped talking to me (only talks to me when he needs help and stuff) , and when I pop up on MSN, he logs off immediately (this has happened twice). He keeps on staring at me, though. I REALLY wanna know what's going on. What do you guys think? I'll take a look at your answers then confront him. Thanks alot!

2007-08-22 09:14:38 · 1 answers · asked by rumbling_rose 1

and what colors shoudl we look for , that mean we arent healthy ? thanks

2007-08-22 09:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 08:59:54 · 6 answers · asked by jskitty 1

"me and my boyfriend started going out november 2005 when we started going out he had broke up with his ex that he was with for 3 years about a month when we met. we've been 2gether since but he's locked up since april 2006 the other day i received a letter in the mail from him except it wasn't 4 me. he accidently sent his ex a letter 2 my house with her name but my address i dont know what to do what should i do?"

2007-08-22 08:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by Alize 1

My relationship is going to crash if I don't figure this out. Ok, here goes.....
I was married for 8 years to a guy who cheated on me and I never saw it. He went to work on time came home on time and spent all his spare time with me, yet he found time cheat. We didn't socialize ( except with his family) we didn't do anything but work and take care of the kids. Now, I am with a great guy who enjoys socializing, has goals, seems open minded and outgoing, yet I feel I can't trust him. Virtually all his friends are females, and many have been close in more ways than one at one point in time or another in their past. He will call them, talk to them, tell them he misses the sound of their voice, he can't account for his time, he doesn't tell me he has talked to them, or been at their house, or gave them a ride somewhere.... He says he is honest, and wouldn't do it. yet these girls are making passes at him and he just allows or plays along with it. How am I supposed to not be fearful?

2007-08-22 08:17:39 · 12 answers · asked by Linda S 2

I recently, while putting some clothes away for my girl, found a small bottle of KY and 3 condoms (the ones you get in a three pack)...now we do not use a condom EVER when we have sex (yes, i know, you are saying DUMBASS)...but we don't. ...nonetheless...a little bit of the KY was used...it is in her bottom drawer next to her bed...is this something to be worried about...could they be from a long time ago and just forgot about them?....we have been together for 3 months and i see her everyday (meaning i see her everynight and weekends)...could she be saving them for OTHER sexual activities for us?...or do you think that they could have been for someone else...RECENTLY?...any thoughts...this is killing me...thanks guys!

...PS...she is on birth control...and we do things...orally...

2007-08-22 08:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just needed someone to talk to. I have a lot of financial problems right now and I feel like I am alone. My husband works and is away for a month at a time, so I am pretty much on my own with my two children. I am about to lose my home and if it weren't for me being afraid of leaving my children (who are the absolute world to me) I would say I would want to end it all. I am scared all the time, so much that I am giving myself chest pains. I feel like I can't trouble my family as they have their own lifes. But I just needed to see if there is anyone out there that has gone through anything similar and if you can ever rebuild your life. I had a really bad couple of years (deaths, unemployment, etc.). Does life ever stop teaching you lessons, because I almost feel like I am being punished for something. I just don't want to disappoint my family, and I feel that is exactly what I am doing. Well thanks to anyone who will listen. This life really sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-22 07:58:16 · 19 answers · asked by moname 1

I have a friend who has 2 children. She knows her ex is the father of one, but with the 2nd one, there is a possibility he is not. Is it possible to DNA test the 2 children to find out if they have the same father, if he is unavailable for the test. Can you compare DNA between siblings like that?

2007-08-22 07:48:29 · 3 answers · asked by dgirl77 2

i sure do

2007-08-22 07:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous